Guys, if a woman rejects you because you can do better physically, how would you react?

[Anonymous]

I plan to always turn down guys and I consider it a great favor because they can do better than me physically.

The thought of a man being in a relationship and intimate with me is nauseating. I’d think to myself, why is he wanting to have sex with me when there are millions of women with better bodies? Why is he doing this to himself when he can do better? I think I’d hold a man back to his fullest potential in a woman.

I lost a lot of weight, I have some loose skin, saggy boobs, wide shoulders, small hips, skin discoloration, strawberry skin, a smaller butt, etc. While there are women with perky boobs, big butts, nice hips, perfect skin, etc. I don’t look like a pornstar, let alone the average woman. I think it’s a great thing to turn down a guy pursing me, and know he’ll make a smarter decision in the woman he chooses next time. 

[Anonymous]

I'd be cool with it. It would be an indication that either she has a LOT of issues in her head that I'd rather not deal with, so I'd count my blessings that I didn't get involved with that kind of mess, OR it would be a white lie she's telling me to make it sort of an "it's not you it's me" issue. That would basically mean she's not interested so there's not much I could do about that.

[Sparda20xx]

If you turned me down then that's the end. I won't consider your reason why. Here's the thing, men can have self esteem issues too. You may not think so, but it may have took a lot of courage for him to approach you, yet you turn him down because you THINK he's doing better than you. Not only does that shows insecurity, but it's a little selfish and mean.

[magiusX26]

very well put

[dreamstar72]

That is the most illogical reasoning you could ever consider to be a true fact. Love can be found in the most unusual places

[Lonen]

If a women rejects me period she is not the one for me.

[Jonathan2000]

Excuse me but I will be direct, that's stupide, you don't turn him down to do him a favor but to protect yourself because you're afraid, if you really think a guy can do better but still choose you you would be grateful for that and happy because he choose you over someone else, if someone like you it must be because that he see in you something that you cannot see that's all so turn that person down for no good reason it's just absurd so don't give yourself the excuse "I'm doing him a favor"

[shortster]

I find that hard to believe. Besides I wouldn't have approached someone who I didn't find attractive.

[abc--123]

I'm used to it

[Anonymous]

What if it was a woman that asked you out?

[Asker]

I’m straight, but if I was attracted to women, I’d do the same thing.

[Opinion Owner]

You seem to have an excessively negative opinion of yourself. Especially since your actual description of yourself doesn't sound that terrible.