No kissing during PIV?

[Anonymous]

Good people, is it normal for a guy not to want to kiss during sex (actual penetration)? Reason being it makes him ejaculated quick. A friend shared this with me and I was surprised. Is that even real? Only preferring to make out during foreplay. Is this even normal?

[DavidHart]

He must be the one to change himself.
i can kiss during foreplay, during penetration,
and i enjoy to kiss more after ejaculation (s).
Kissing during penetration makes me think less about penetration,
thus giving me more endurance.
So i do prefer to kiss when penetrating.

it's all about our mind.
But i does takes time to change.

[Asker]

What you say really makes sense. I have talked to my friend and told him that he really has a problem. He confided in me by saying that he struggles with premature ejaculation. I now understand his pain. Kissing during penetration just worsens his problem.

[wankiam]

seems odd to me but i guess we are all different

[Asker]

Really odd. I can't imagine being in bed with such a guy... am a kisser😄

[wankiam]

same, with a girl i mean. without the passion you might as well masturbate

[Asker]

I know... such a pain

[Asker]

Having a man kissing you as he fucked you is so intimate. Having a man fuck you without any kissing is like him mounting you, literally. Even animals do better.

[wankiam]

i can imagine, how is he with other stuff? is he also one of those guys that doesn't like to give oral pleasure in other ways?

[Asker]

He says he hates oral sex but doesn't mind receiving. He has dated more thankful 5 girls but has only gone down on only one... Not even his current

[Asker]

*more than

[wankiam]

well its a simple fact then, that whilst you may like him in every other regard, you are not sexually compatable and if you feel you can't accept his one sided approach to sex i think you need to find someone new

[Asker]

Oh by the way the guy in question is just a very close friend of mine that happened to share this with me. We are not together

[wankiam]

ah ok but the premice still remains the same whoever it concerns

[Asker]

True

[wankiam]

thanks for mho

[AustinMan]

He knows what he needs to avoid to not cum prematurely. Would you rather him cum soon?

[Asker]

We would definitely not be compatible.

[AustinMan]

Fair enough...

[mikebeckers]

Nooo all the kisses all the time ^^

[Asker]

When do you prefer to kiss?

[mikebeckers]

I meant that I like to kiss anytime, both foreplay and sex. However during sex I often kiss less because it's hard to kiss when things get rough 😅

[Asker]

Relatable... i also kiss less when things get rough.

[John83]

Seems strange to me. I love making out with my girlfriend while we're having sex. It makes sex more intense and intimate but doesn't make me cum faster.

[Asker]

Someone said men are different and I now believe so. Do you know that some men don't even want to be touched during sex? He would rather bind your hands together and do whatever he pleases.

[Asker]

Back to my friend... he finds kissing extremely intense that he can't hold any further.

[ButtaGrey]

I can only say, people are different and their take on kissing and intimacy will often vary.

[asshole_]

Some do, some don't

Can't just generalize men

[Asker]

Such a pain if the girl likes to kiss

[youngfungentleman]

I don't mind kissing during but it makes things a little harder to give her the satisfaction she wants from PIV. Yes, pun intended.