Recently I have a strong desire to flash in public. What can I do for that?

Hey Guys, I have developed a strong desire to flash my pussy and my boobs to a random stranger. As days go that thought keeps on consuming me. I know that's something I'm scared of doing and probably won't do. But I don't know how to control this desire to flash.
Can you guys suggest and share your idea on what I can possibly do to overcome this pls.
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  • Hmm, ok here it is. Wear something sexy and go to a place you know there are guys, but not a lot of people. If you get cat called, flash your boobs.

    Wear yoga pants, with nothing over them. Go to a drug store with skinny aisles and pass random guys. Then look back. If they are checking you out then turn around, touch your pussy on the outside, wink, and bite your tongue. Then get out of there fast!

    if you are very overweight do it really far away, like from the other side of the road. Make sure only the guy or group of guys are the only ones who see you.

    If you want to pull your pants down the only way for you to do this is to a guy friend. You can't do that to a stranger. Bust boob flashing and over the clothes pants touching. You won't get in trouble and they'll love it!

    • thanks that way really grt. 👍 But I have to figure out that I can do or not...😅

    • I wish girls would do flirty things like that to me. I always feel guilty checking out girls who are dressed sexy. It would be nice to get a wink of approval that it's okay to look.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • Avoid it if you can. Once you get started on that, you might not be able to stop.

    Meanwhile, my husband & I are exhibitionists. We landed ourselves in jail & hot water because we got addicted to being bold & daring.

    Just remind yourself that you don't wanna be thrown in jail and/or have "caught for lewd acts" or "indecent exposure" (or worse) on your record.

    • That's hillarious. Sorry you got caught

  • I think you should wear no bra. Wear a shirt that allows you to show side boob. I guarantee you you’ll be flashing people. You also may want to go to a Korean spa. The women’s area will let you be naked around other women and the common areas will make you wear a robe. So then you can flash someone if you want and just act like you didn’t know.

    • @Sweetie20 well gag thinks I’m a spammer. But I’m not. So if you need a few more suggestions feel free to PM me. 😊

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  • Go to the beach, find a group of boys to swim next to, and then when a wave comes “accidentally” lose your top and bottoms in it. Either pull them down or just let them go completely. Then ask them to help you find it, maybe even turn around by accident because you’re nervous

    • You are smart.😁😁

  • One safer alternative is to role play doing it though he might spank you soundly on the bare. :)

    • thanks...

    • Do you think role playing it would fulfill your needs for that? I have found that if both people really get into their roles and are indeed someone else, it can be extremely gratifying.

  • Come on! You can think of a better trolling question than that!

    Recently I have a strong desire to flash in public. What can I do for that?

    Troll harder!

    • What makes u think its a troll? 🙄🤔🤫

    • Because you're only an Xper 3 and those kind of posts by new accounts either mean a troll or someone's sock puppet that has another account here.

    • If u think like that well u r wrong... 😆😜😏

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  • The best thing you can do is let us know when and where you will do it so we can be there! 😀 Actually, you seem to have a deep reason for wanting to do that. No way for us to know why. You can see a therapist about it, though that can get expensive. Or you can simply go to a nude beach where it is totally acceptable, and not risky.

    • thanks...

  • Have a friend wait around the corner just in case things go sour, then just pick a stranger, chat with them a bit, small talk, weather, movies etc. Then say "Hey wanna see something cool" then BOOM flash and run. Make sure your friend playing lookout is ready to jump in and help just in case you flash a creep who decides to do more than just enjoy the view.

  • Just go flash it on Omegle video chat lol perfect for you

  • Oh that's easy, just get up and flash yourself everyday in the morning before going out. Put on a coat, walk by the mirror and then just flash.. do as many times as you need to, to get rid of the urge.

  • Please consider going to a therapist.

    • Is that a concern what I see...😆😜 But by the way thanks for that.

    • Yes I'm concerned because you say you have thoughts and a strong unwanted desire to do something which could negatively impact you and those around you. Getting opinions on the internet is fine but in the end getting professional help is important.

    • Noted...👍

  • Why not take some pics of you 'flashing' to the camera and post them online on sites such as Reddit who have a
    section where photos like that can be shown (they also allow intimate pics to be included in your profile) ?

    • PS: if you post such pics to the Rate Me section of Reddit you can also request comments from viewers

  • If you not dating anyone try that maybe that will calm down the public flashing

  • I would suggest creating an account on one of those girl webcam sites, such as Chaturbate. That way you can safely flash to all sorts of men.

    If you flash in public and get caught, that is a sexual offense and the charge will stay with you for the rest of your life.

  • the countryside is good for that sort of thing, where limited passers by but there's always teh risk of being caught

  • A boyfriend. A mirror and film it to your self, or upload it to some porn website and cover your face.

  • Find local kink events where you can safely be an exhibitionist. Or go to a location where clothing is not required.

  • Just do small things like wear dresses without anything underneath and stuff like that

  • Have you thought about channeling that desire in a more acceptable way? Why don't you try visiting a nudist/naturist club. First time visitors are very welcome because those clubs always want more members and the first visit might even be free.

  • Dating someone is best solution to end your fantasy.

  • I think most of us get that

  • spicy content warning advised.

    https://www.youtube.com/embed/Eh2PjkzW20w
  • I agree with some of the other girls here; I wear something revealing and go without any underwear.

    There is always the option of going somewhere that you are ALLOWED to be naked, but its not really the same feeling... :/

    • @kasshoko haha true then there is no surprise element. have u flashed or mooned people?

    • What does mooned mean? @Markymark77

    • @sweetie20 like flashing but showing ur butt instead.

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