Does a guy having sex with you necessarily mean he likes you/is attracted to you?

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  • No it doesn't.

    I have had sex with women that I only meet to have sex with. But I would be too emberrassed to introduce them to my friends or even tell other people that I had sex with them. I have even had sex with women that I don't think is attractive.

    Let me break it down for you more so that I can be of assistance.

    One Night Stand= He is horny enough to have sex with you but he thinks that you are ugly or unattractive.

    Friends With Benefits = He thinks that there is something about you that is sexually attractive. It could even mean that he thinks that you are ugly but you are good at sex. But this person has no romantic feelings for you. This person may likely even be emberrassed to introduce you to people that they know because their peers may judge them negatively due to you lacking attractiveness.

    Dating= If someone is having sex with you in a dating situation it means that they are sexually attracted to you and they have romantic feelings for you. So this would be a situation where they have agreed to go on a declared "date" and you wind up having sex. But it is more significant than that. It means that you are either in a relationship or are engaging in "dating" without saying that your relationship is friends with benefits. So it really doesn't matter if they haven't declared their love or told you they want to be in a relationship. If someone doesn't like you romantically, then they will likely tell you soon after you start having sex "we are just friends" or "friends with benefits". If they aren't doing that.. then you are "dating" and they really like you a lot. It just means they aren't quite to the point of "relationship".

  • My first thought was hell no. There are plenty of guys who could care less and have sex with someone they just meet. I had a period that possibly could have occurred but it did not. If this is question for life do not think a guy likes you just because they have sex with you.

    I have not done this but a couple guys had "fat girls" in college. Basically they were a little heavy and pretty but not really really hott so they would have low self esteem and put up with bs. A couple guys had girls ike this they could just go to their room for roal anytime they wanted or whatever and the girls would figure they would get a committment. I was friends with one and she actually would be ok with him saying "Dont go anywhere Saturday. I might come by after the bar" in other words if he does not pick anyone better up she will do. I honestly tried to explain to her ( the guy was not a friend who did this to her) how she was being used, but she did say she got off on it and liked sex. And he would never go down on her but expected her to swallow every drop and I informed her.

    She did get a decent guy. We had talked about dating but one of my exes was in the same sorrority and there would have been issues so we never did anything except kiss once and stopped before anything could happen. She was a hell of a girl who just did not value herself enough. Sadly many women are like that.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Not at all. It depends on the guy and his intentions.
    Sadly, some people are capable of having sex without any emotional connection or feelings for you; you're just a warm body to them that fulfills their urges. Or they might think you're attractive, but not enough to date or be with 🙄

    That is exactly why I don't sleep with a guy until we're officially dating and exclusive. If he is willing to wait a while to sleep with you, ideally he likes you for more than just sex.

  • Hell no, some dudes just want to bang and if it got a whole they'll take it. A woman can look like the combination of jubba hut, big foot, and a cracked egg left on side walk in heat and some desperate dude will still hit it. Guys can still have sex with a woman and still not have any emotional connection. Sex does not equal love, it should cause you should only want to do that with someone you love but sadly a lot of people don't.

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  • No. If it’s in front of them for the taking, they’ll take it. A hole is a hole

  • No, it means he'd rather get off inside your hole then jerking off.

  • I think they’re attracted to me if we have sex, yes.

  • There's no yes or no answer here. It's a depends on the person...
    Because in some cases, it does mean yes for the men that only sleep with women they're really attracted to and really like...
    But there's also men that will bang anyone rather than no sex at all...
    Another reason have to base it on the individual person and not "all"...

  • No. When I was a teenager I was hanging out with my big brother's friends. I saw them picking some girls just to rate them. They were not attracted to them. Anyway using a person is wrong.

  • It means he thinks you're hot enough to have sex with, but that doesn't mean he actually likes you (or is even that attracted to you)

  • Does a guy having sex with you necessarily mean he likes you/is attracted to you?

    Nah
    - He could like you
    - He could love you
    - He could simply just be horny and looking to get off.

  • Nope doesn't necessarily mean he does, but it could or he finds u attractive to sleep w and that's it

  • Nope. Guys will lower their standards if it means getting sex, which is why for most of history women were told to wait, because he will lower his stanards for sex but not for a relationship so if he wants a relationship with you, then you know he is actually interested in you and attracted to you.

  • If the guy is me. . . Yes!

  • No I've seen guys sleep with girls they find ugly just because. Its immaturity and hopefully will grow out of it on their own, if not... thats on them.

  • Nope. A guy have sex with you for the simple fact that he wants to feel someone other than himself stroke his cock & get him off. No emotional attachment, ferl of attraction or anything. He could down right hate you and swallow his hate (figuratively speaking of course) and just hate fuck you (which to some that might be better than intimate attraction sex, its cool; i ain't gonna judge you). So please, for the love of God, don't think he likes you or is attracted to you if he has sex with you unless you actually hear him say to you that he likes/is attracted to you. Assuming he does can fuck it up for both people, never assume anything

  • Attracted to you: Sure, else they wouldn't want to have sex. Like you: Not necessarily, a lot of people are just in it for the smushin'

  • It doesn't have to, but usually does.

  • It means he attracted enough to fuck you.

  • Definitely not

  • No. I have had sex with a woman that I actually found irritating after spending a few hours with her. Maybe she was also annoyed by me, I just do not know. But by that time she was my only remaining option for the night and she was willing, so we had sex. It did not mean anything beyond that and I never saw her again.

  • Nope

  • Of course not!
    I know so many men who say they’ve been with ‘anyone’ because that’s all they could get at the time. They just filled their boots then left.

    Women do the same thing.

  • I sure as hell hope so!

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