Is it normal for women to find other women attractive?

[Anonymous]

I identify as straight, I have a lack of sex drive in my opinion. I say that compared to everyone else around me that seems sex crazed. I’m in my mid twenties, but I find women attractive. Would I go as far to say that id sleep with a woman? Maybe not but I always look when they’re wearing a nice dress/bikini, anytime they’re deemed as looking hot. This is common heterosexual behavior isn’t it? Other women around me playfully question if I am bi when I make these comments.

[ShortCircuit]

Assuming sexuality is 1:1 comparable between men and women, you are not strictly heterosexual, because I'm strictly heterosexual and I've never had such thoughts about other men. The only thing I ever think to myself after seeing a man deemed attractive is "I wish I looked more like that".

As for if your thoughts are "normal"... Well, they are perfectly normal for a lesbian or bisexual woman. However, they are not normal for a straight woman, and in fact are evidence of not being straight. Maybe you're bisexual with a strong preference for men, but you are not 100% straight.

Also, "I have a low sex drive" is something that I've heard several women who were in denial about their sexuality say. If you judge your libido in orientation to the sex you're not attracted to, then you will perceive your libido as being "low", when in reality, you're just basing it on the wrong sex. If all my life I was told that I was "supposed" to find men attractive, and never considered the possibility of being attracted to women, then I would be convinced I was 100% asexual.

[jadspop]

Yes it's natural, even as a straight woman. Hunan's are constantly comparing themselvs to one another... So to be able to determine if your atractive or not... You have to be able to determine what an attractive woman looks like...

Believe it or not guys do it to... We don't have to be attracted to a person of the same sex to recognize that they are an attractive person

[Ninjazzed]

Of course.. women are all around beautiful, sexy, gorgeous.

It’s not only men that notice these alluring qualities.

[DrippingHoney]

I find other women beautiful but I don't have any interest in them sexually. It's kinda like I find flowers pretty.

[michelle3685]

I do, but I am bi, so...

[Karin_Anna]

Guys do it as well, don't worry

[Kurαȷ]

"This is common heterosexual behavior isn’t it?"

No, not at all.
But it is a common female behavior, since 80% of women are not strictly heterosexual.

[Kaneki05]

It's not most girls but it is normal yes. It's bi-curious were you find the same the sex hot but would only consider been with men

[Kaneki05]

it's only Bi If you would ever consider been with a girl. And yeah it's dumb how they called this term Bi curious when we have Bi smh

[winterfox10]

It's very normal. It would be even more normal if you got weirdly jealous of them.

[sri90]

Yes, that doesn't mean you re lesbian or something else... It's just a normal human behaviour sometimes to attract with same sex

[Cryptic-Game]

It is not normal to be homosexual.

[gandolph3]

maybe you do like women, go for it

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's unusual. I mean, the first thing almost all women do is compliment each other on their appearance. It may not be sexual attraction, but most women will comment on another woman they think is pretty or beautiful.