Why do girls get mad if you accept their offer to blow you, but you don't want to eat them out?

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Here is my conundrum. Girlfriend asks if I want a blowjob, I accept her offer. A few blowjob offers later, she asks me if I want to eat her out. I say no thank you. She says she won't blow me again until I have gone down on her. I accept that she won't blow me again. She gives me a long inane rant about how selfish she thinks I am, despite the fact I NEVER once asked her to blow me, I just took her up on HER offers. I point out that fact to her, she more or less roared t me and left.

Is this common among girls or did I just have an unlucky first partner?
Simply put, I have no problem accepting a girl blowing me, but I won't kiss her right after that, or go down on her. I do not wish to taste my own semen, nor anyone elses for the matter.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's wrong of her to think that you would do the same for her. It's not a trade. If you go down on someone, you do it because you want to make them feel good. But on the other side, i do get it why she got a bit upset. I understand that she also wants to feel good. To see it as a trade is wrong, but i still get her. She is just into it and then you turn her down like she is nasty or something. Also because you don't want to kiss her after. I would be upset tho.

TheFartSaver · Accepted Answer

Sex is a give and take. I don't like giving my husband BJs but I will because I know it satisfies him. You are entitled to have sexual acts you don't like to do, but it is only fair to reciprocate in some manner. Sex is about both partners satisfaction. I understand why she was unhappy and felt you were selfish, but also understand that if you don't like eating women out then you shouldn't have. You have to find a middle ground though.

Gavilar1 · Accepted Answer

It's kinda like, "hey try my cake" then they don't allow you to try theirs. It's give and take in a relationship my friend haha. It's kinda selfish to have your pleasure but give nothing in return

drearyknight187 · Accepted Answer

She wanted to fuck dude. You missed out of a lot. Besides the least you could do was return the favor.

Karin_Anna · Answer

Be a man and offer to go down on her first, let her cum and then she can blow you after. Don't be so selfish. You clearly don't deserve her.

Soldier_946 · Answer

I think you are right because actually, she wants to suck you just so that you go down on her afterward. She is not selfless.

Why is not she asking directly « go down on me »

Regardless this, you should be more generous dude.

magiusX26 · Answer

because you are a selfish asshole

graciedoyle493 · Answer

If I’m sucking u off which I’m good af at it by the way I would like pleasure in return dude

In_Trance · Answer

You need to grow up

mrgspoter · Answer

Don't happen lol

MrCanada · Answer

I’m curious why you won’t eat her out? Tit for tat it’s only fair.

CubaPirate · Answer

Because caring is sharing

Anonymous · Answer

It’s just common decency to return the favor. There is literally no one who doesn’t enjoy oral sex performed on them. Her offering the blow jobs was her way of hinting she wanted it done to her. When you didn’t reciprocate, she came out and asked. She has a right to be angry here. You basically just told her you don’t care about her pleasure, only your own.

Anonymous · Answer

Because it seems like you only care about your own needs and not hers as well.

Why do girls get mad if you accept their offer to blow you, but you don't want to eat them out?

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