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#SpeakForYourself — Fill in the blank: “In a relationship, I could wait at least 6 months for sex as long as ___”?

For example, “In a relationship, I could wait at least 6 months for sex as long as we could have daily makeout sessions.” Otherwise, If you can't wait, then just simply state below that you’d be unwilling to wait. Also just answer the poll as a bonus.
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#SpeakForYourself — Fill in the blank: “In a relationship, I could wait at least 6 months for sex as long as ___”?
I could wait at least 6 months
Vote A
#SpeakForYourself — Fill in the blank: “In a relationship, I could wait at least 6 months for sex as long as ___”?
I’d stay in the relationship but am unwilling to wait at least 6 months
Vote B
#SpeakForYourself — Fill in the blank: “In a relationship, I could wait at least 6 months for sex as long as ___”?
I’d leave the relationship and am unwilling to wait 6 months
Vote C
#SpeakForYourself — Fill in the blank: “In a relationship, I could wait at least 6 months for sex as long as ___”?
I’d wait til marriage
Vote D
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Im very pleased with the poll results. A lot of people on other posts make it seem as if they wouldn't wait anymore than a month or 3. I don't know what changed on this post but its nice to see
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Most Helpful Guys

  • I suffer from sexual anxiety and have realised that as much as I would like to full on complete a sex session. However because of my anxiety and stamina and strength issues I am happy just to do naked cuddles watching a film. Though happy to pleasure a women without physically needing to have sex with her as much as I would get upset about not being able to do it. I still would have some form of happiness but I would also feel like I let the woman I was with down. Which has happend to me before but I could tell she was a little annoyed with me even if she said she understood and we ended up just kissing and cuddling where she ironically fell asleep.

    • Well we all make mistakes. By the next time, you’ll be new and improved

  • In all honesty, 6 months is the most I would wait, and the most I ever waited in a relationship. I waited almost exactly 6 months with one of my ex-girlfriends, as I was her first so she wanted to wait that long. If girl want me to wait more than that, I would suppose that she still doesn't trust me and isn't comfortable with me. Of course there are exceptions, but still.

    Tho I gotta ask, do blowjobs and handjobs count in this case? As the one I waited 6 months did gave me one of each during those 6 months so I'm not exactly sure.

    • I must add, when I was 14, I was in a relationship with a girl for over a year, and we never got to having sex, only blowjob and handjob. But as we were both pretty young we didn't rush it.

    • I’d say oral around 3 months in is ok. I’d save the sex til 6+. Mutual masturbation would prob happen in month one lol. And for me, its not that i dont trust the guy. Its that i dont trust the situation. Im not gonna go around fcking and then the guy possibly leave after. I need to wait for as long as i’d feel comfortable so that i feel less guilt on myself for not waiting even longer for if he did leave

    • Understandable. It all depends on a girl.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You mean 6 months before sex the first time? That maybe... Although usually it was 3-4 months for me... But already in relationship and no sex for 6 months... Oh hell no.. Unless it's due to illness.. Cuz already been there, done that once hubby got too sick for sex

    • Yea i meant before the first time lol

    • Oh whew lmao

  • In a relationship, I could wait at least 6 months for sex as long as I can give myself orgasms.

    • He can still finger you and stuff too lol

    • Lol well I ain't never experienced that so I wouldn't be really missing out. I'm good with giving myself one.

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  • Is this at the start of the relationship?
    As long as I feel like I love her and want to spend my life with that girl, I'd respect her choice and wait (not only 6 months but also longer).

    However, if she just randomly decides "No Sex for 6 months now" (after we already had our first time together), I'd at least want to have a good reason for it. Whatever I do then would depend on how the status of our relationship in general.

    • No i meant before the first time

    • Then I'd wait. Whether she doesn't feel ready yet or just doesn't want to have anything sexual right from the start, I'd be fine with it. I'd say "as long as I love her" but for me that's basically a requirement to get into the relationship in the first place. Well.. Also, I'm in a long distance relationship, so it always takes a few months of waiting anyway. I'm used to it :P

  • Uhm I can wait. As long as there’s lots of other things for us to do to keep us occupied. Wouldn’t be the first time I’ve waited or made a woman wait. But once that 6 months is over...

    • Hehehe

  • “In a relationship, I could wait at least 6 months for sex as long as ___”
    I had just been sentenced to 6 mos in jail!

  • I could wait 6 months if I knew she had great attention for me, we were exclusive, and we both get that we would have a long future together. Four years ago, I did wait for about six months, for those reasons. Eventually, we had sex. Eventually, the relationship ended.

    • As long as the relationship didn't end due to the wait

  • there was other sexual contact. PIV is nice, but there's a whole other world out there of sexual contact that can be as good, if not better, than PIV.

    • Thats true

  • My sex drive has gone shot.
    I literally only feel horny about 2 x a month. i know its because I'm sad.
    And have no real positive view of my future. I ended a 10 year thing. My dad just died. I have no real life friends. My family relationships are next to none and my career prospects are looking kind slim. All I can say is sex is the last thing on my mind.

    If I met someone I think I'd probably try and extend and avoid sex for as long as possible.

    • I hardly have a sex drive unless in person and tempted so you're not alone. But i always love dirty jokes and telling my past stories regardless of if horny

  • Every night we have 4 play of all kinds if I can't put it in she has to at least sit on my hips or my * cock*she has to let me put my hands on her hips and slide her forward and back as her pussy straddles my cock untill she cums
    But one way or another she has to let me make her cum

    • Lmao thats how my ex lost his virginity to me by accident 🤣 cause it slid in lol

  • We got along really well and I was truly in love with them. When you know in your heard they are the one you want to be with, you'll find yourself attracted to them as an individual, and it won't matter how long you you guys both choose to wait, because you'll know you won't regret it and the wait will be worth it.

    • In a way thats true. One ex wnd i waited a year and a half. We loved eachother. But temptation got the best of us. He regretted it because he feared i was pregnant before HE was ready and I regretted it because of how he reacted. It wasn't supposed to be a regret because he constantly lied about being ok with that possibility. But his true colors showed later

  • I am glad others would wait 6 months
    thank god

    • Same

    • Phew

  • In a relationship, I could wait at least 6 months for sex as long as I know she is the one

    • Thats great

  • I love fill in the blanks! In a relationship, I could wait at least 6 months for sex as long as I have a bang buddy on the side or she sucks really good & every day as well. In a relationship 6 months without sex I would kill myself.

  • I could play with a female friend during that time...

    • Then why even be in a relationship if you gonna cheat from the get go 🤔

    • It isn't cheating if he approves and encourages, he knew that before we got together and accepted it. We have a great life.

  • In a relationship, I could wait at least 6 months for sex as long as she didn't cry or make a scene about it.

    Hell, I'd go over the 6 months and have a sexless relationship if I could.

    • I take it she wants sex and you dont

    • Exactly.

  • I was in a good relationship with a girl leading up to it

    • Good

  • I'd wait longer than 6 months, and potentially until marriage if my partner wanted to, and in fact want to wait at least a few years, myself--as long as we kissed, hugged, cuddled, made out; as well as saw each other nude and discussed, in great detail, what we wanted our sex life to look like once we started having sex, such as frequency of sessions, length of each session, kinks, etc. (to ensure compatibility).

    Though there isn't an option to just not wait, so I'm really just stating what I want.

    • No this is awesome. I've always said the same that i can wait as long as we still have a dirty sense of humor, dirty chats, kissing/cuddling and as long as we still see what the other person is hiding below

    • Yes, exactly ^^^

  • Well i can wait. I only wanna do it with my wifey. Its a tough choice. And yes it make out sessions are fine. But yeah no sex with my lover. Even if she calls me an idiot. Its fine. She will understand someday.

    • Aww thats sweet

    • No it ain't. The fights aren't sweet. 😂😂😂...

  • I voted A... and I'd fill in the blank with "as long as the hugs keeps coming my way" ❤

    • Awww :)

  • Actually! We both did wait about 8 months.

    • Thats great

  • Honestly, when I was a virgin it was easy to wait 6+ months until my girlfriend felt ready to have sex but now that I've been having sex frequently for years I doubt I could go more than 3 months without at least getting blowjobs and 6 months without intercourse.

    • I wouldn't do oral until sometime around 3 months

    • That's understandable. I wouldn't want to rush my girlfriend or make her feel pressured to do anything. I just think it would be very hard to go from having sex 1-3 times daily to going months without even receiving a blowjob

    • I meant sex before the verybfirst time y'all did it

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  • That would show a fundamental incompatibility of values.

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