I didn't know her very long.
I was16 and in 10th grade, the first year of high school. I was a guitar player. As with most high schoolers, I had a group of close friends and we hung out together whenever possible. My close friends were mostly guys played music and sports, went tot he beach, surfed, etc. but there were a few girls who hung out around the periphery. We were always happy to have cute girls around.
There was one girl who was younger than me, probably 15. She was neighbors with one of my good friends. She made a point of coming over and talking to me whenever I was alone. It was obvious that she had the hots for me.
She was really cute. It didn't take long for me to decide to kiss her. When I did, she kissed back enthusiastically. When I squeezed her boobs, she didn't protest.
She had had a previous boyfriend and was not a virgin.
So we started hanging out together. After a very short time, she invited me to come inside the house trailer her parents had parked in their back yard. That was my first time although, I don't think I admitted it.
After that, we went together for several months and had lots of sex. She was on the pill.
You dont think u admitted what?
That I was a virgin.
Met her at a dorm party lots of people were going in and out of (about 10 at a time were in the dorm, with new people coming, a couple of them wondering off to other dorms with friends, etc. We got talking and shared a couple beers. Sat next to each other on the bed (with a couple other people also hanging out on the beds too). After about 1.5 hours of talking and having fun, we wondered off around the res and then went up a couple floors back to my dorm, closed the door and started making out. Then I got head, leaned back against the bed then on it. She climbed on top of me and rest is history. We casually hooked up a couple more times that semester until Christmas when going back home. Was a great time and had a lot of fun together, in the dorms and on mini coffee dates or just wondering around the campus under the snowfall the following winter after we were back, but never officially were together. Kind of became more gradual around end of February (I knew she was likely seeing a couple other people some of the time too so wasn't heart broken or anything). Still good friends when we bump into each other downtown once in a blue moon.
Lmao well alriiiighty then
I didn't have sex with my first boyfriend. He wanted to but I wasn't ready, which is why he dumped me. I didn't have sex with my last boyfriend until we weren't together anymore. So technically he was a "hookup". But I'd known him for over 10 years at that point.
Yea thats a good time to build up trust so not bad
About a year and a half, possibly longer. Been so long I blocked it out, lol
Yes, really. That long. He was very patient and wanted to make sure I was ready and didn't rush me into it: which I really appreciated him for that.
No i love this. The second guy and i waited a year and a half. It was a failed attempt at waiting til marriage but im just glad we waited that long. We didn't do oral until after 9 months of dating
That is awesome! I wish more men would be that patient, it really makes me respect them more. Nowadays if you don't "put out" right away, they assume you're not interested or move on to someone else that will
Yep but i rather that then me give it up and then they possibly leave me anywya
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!It was only about a week, though we'd had a class together and were classmate friends for 4 or 5 months prior. I didn't know it at the time (she did, though) that she was going to be moving away about a month later as her mom had gotten a new job, but that might have been a factor, but the truth is that she was ready and she was just as enthusiastic as I was to have sex, and she essentially set up the circumstances to enable it, as she invited me over to her house after school knowing her mother didn't get home until around 7pm.
I remember thise days
I'm twice your age, and I still remember them very well! But you're likely too young to know what a KTel record is. I'm about to sound like an old fart, but here goes:
In the late 70s and early 80s, there was a record label called KTel, and they made compilation albums with 12-14 hit singles on a vinyl album and sold them at slightly discounted prices compared to a regular album. Back then, there was no streaming and no Internet, so you either bought music or you had to find someone who had albums or tapes that you liked and tape copies of their music, and that rarely got you the songs you wanted. KTel got big making Disco compilations in the late 70s, but I used to buy their albums in the early 80s with lots of New Wave and SynthPop bands, so I had most of the good songs of the era. That made me a popular guest at parties, because no one had as much good music as I did - especially the stuff the girls liked to dance to.
When you're the fat ugly kid, you learn to use every tool at your disposal, and it worked!
Blondie 😍 Peaches and Herb 😍 foreigner 😍 i grew up on 70s and 80s hits cause my mom and grandparents plays them from 90s through today 🙌
It was exactly 90 days. HIS IDEA!
Thats great
3 months but he also became my first husband
Thats amazing
No it really wasn't 🤣🤣 maybe that's why he ex husband 🤣🤣 just kidding... He was physically abusive, took years and strength to get away to start over, but I did it 💪💪
Im glad you made it out
I knew her for about 15 months but it was a casual hookup/friends with benefits before the phrase friends with benefits was invented.
Well at least you knew eachother long
It was probably something like 2-3 weeks. I don't remember but we were very serious about being with each other and kind of knew each other from grade school.
My first partner was a one-night thing. He and I did not wait long. He started texting me during a game of strip poker at a college party, and when we left the party we went back to his place and the clothes came off pretty much immediately. He was an asshole after the fact though, and I had trouble getting him off. My second partner we never got to PIV sex, but she and I did oral and fingering after about 3 months of dating. My third partner was meant to be a one-night thing but ended up turning into a friends with benefits situation. He and I were very comparable in bed, but not very into each other outside of that. My 4th partner was a girl that my 3rd partner and I invited to join us, and my 5th partner was my current wife, and we waited around a month before we had sex.
My wife was the first PIV sex I ever had, so if you count that as what qualifies as loosing virginity, she was my "first" but being pansexual, I personally count any prolonged sexual contact as sex.
I waited a year with my boyfriend. We were kinda friends then we dated for a year and I lost it after I turned 17.
We went on about 4 dates over the span of about two months. We both went to school together though so we ad classes together and stuff
Oh nice
I think it was a few months. 3 or 4
At least 3 years of exclusive intimacy without any pussy penetration until we were both 21.
Sounds good
two times on "date #2"... it was fun I was a virgin she was not. I was a high school kid and way nervous. We went 3 rounds that afternoon... way fun and great orgasms.
Damnnn
Sadly... it was 3 weeks, if I had my time back I wouldn't of lost it until I was ready & actually in a relationship longer
10 months. Curiosity killed the cat😉
Haha
8 months. I fell pregnant, we got married right after I graduated high school.
At least you finished school
I'm still waiting for someone I can trust and have fun with, in terms of how long I'd wait probably a month after initial date
I getcha
I'd want to be closer to talking about a serious relationship by then but also when we were both comfortable. Ideally I'd like to wait for marriage but something tells me that it might be too hard to do that
Mainly hard for her
Sex is overrated so its not too hard
I'm a virgin, but I would like to wait at least a few years.
Yea you're young
True. I probably couldn't afford to wait as long if I don't find the right girl to settle down with pretty soon...
I didn't lose virginity with my first girlfriend as we were both like 13 or 14 so none of us had that big of an urge to do it. Plus it wasn't really long-lived so.
Girlfriend and I with whom I lost my virginity to, and so she did to me, waited around maybe 4 months? I'm not sure, but I do remember it's not less than that.
Well 4 is good
we knew each other from primary school even in infants school so around 4 onwards, we hated each other or rather bickered would be more accurate, and wasn't until we were around 14 during a long family feud between our families that we saw each other in a different light to what we'd been encouraged to see before, we dated from 14 and wasn't until i had turned 17 and she was coming up to her 17th birthday that we decided to have sex, though we'd already been fooling around with foreplay etc and oral from just after her 16th birthday
each of our parent's hated the idea we were working out or even together though but we lasted for almost 15 years
Wow thats a long time. Thats great
yeah and had she not cheated and her family not pushed her and the guy we both knew from our childhood, together chances are we would have still been together but hey things happen in life for reasons in some ways otherways they happen cos chaos
Do you know, I can’t bloody remember!
I think it was after 3 or 4 dates or weeks...
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