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Why do some guys think it's okay to tell girls (especially girls they don't even know very well) that they got hard when they looked at you?

Like seriously? Unless you are my partner, I do not want to know that you got turned on when you saw my pictures. It's freaking awkward when guys I barely know or guys I call "my bro" says things like that.

Don't they get that if a girl is interested in them at least in a sexual way, she'd tease or flirt or something, BUT if she's not sending you any kinda signals then why do you even say things like that "I got hard" or "I'd bang you"?

Do you think it makes the girl get interested in you right away? It makes me and my girl friends lose interest in an instant. I fail to understand what are those guys even expecting to hear from us?

If you just want to tell her that you find her attractive, don't you think you should say something like "You look really good/attractive" than say things like that.

Girls, How do you react when a guy you are not interested in, says something like this?

I'd appreciate your input.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Ther is not such a thig for peoples like me, flirt and tease, it will drink only rejection for that girl.
    I don't have time to lose and becom more horny then i'm.
    I tell directly to a girl if she make me excited. a lot of girl like to hear that they have an efect on mans.
    I get some girl because of that. I whas in a park whit fome friends and at a time i take a brake and go sit to a nice girl. I told her that she make me "move a mountain" :)) and the next thing she ask, whas " can i check?"
    Later we go home and have fun. Olso so become my girlfriend afther thart.
    Olso we, guys, will love to hear the same thing from a girl, that we make them wet and horny.
    If you don't like it just say you are not interested and ignor him.
    In this way to aproce you simply go for what you want. You like that girl and she make you hard, then ask for some fun, if that is what you only want. Bether then reap.
    Some people don't want a relationship and want to have just sex.
    I don't blame thous guys, if a girl will do the same and ask me to give her some fun, i will not minde as long she tell her true intention.
    To flirt and chat is a whaist of time and nervs.

  • I'd say it's different types of girls. Overall, it's just plain rude and inconsiderate. But to some girls, they might take it playful and want to have fun with them. I've seen movies where girl characters are just very sexually comfortable and they like playing that kind of game. Im not saying it's right and most of the time it's met likely with a look of disgust but maybe like 1 out of 50 girls, might look at him with a sensual smile and grab him by the shirt and pull him someplace private to make out. Again, it's rare but I bet it happens... However, I and hopefully most men would never even get to that place. Girls deserve more respect than that

    • Indeed. Thank you!

    • Welcome :)

Most Helpful Girls

  • I got that comment a couple days ago on here, from someone who has never even seen what I look like nor saw what I look like as far as description

    • 😂😂😂

  • Because they are either creeps or extremely bad at flirting.

    • Someone got offended, lol. I guess that guy probably did the same thing to strangers on GAG

    • Lol IKR! If it doesn’t apply to them, I don’t see why my comment would bother them.

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  • I really hope that wasn't me it's just that when I look at your picture ,,, things sta um a. I'm sorry it's happeningggggg. againnnnn,, ,, omg why,, lmao. Wtf,,, SORRY JUST TEASING... for me it goes a lot deeper than that this is what happens to me I click on to ur page the moment I start to read your words ,, or I just see your picture. I feel you,, and that means I feel ur energy and when that happens it's pretty intense because I feel as if I've known you for a long time I don't know if that makes since I know it dosent lol

  • You know I don’t think men do it to make a woman interested in them. I think it’s just so natural and biologically hardwired in men to be sexual with women in a variety of ways. This pushes men to do things that women do not do. For example, we don’t usually hear of women wanting to send pussy pics to men or saying “you got me so wet” often. This is clearly something men primarily do.

  • Those people are why the word creep was invented

  • I don't know, it's awkward and pervy and I hate it too.

    • I really wish they'd stop. Guys like them makes me want to ever talk to any new guy I meet in person and on GaG, both

    • Same! That was one of the reasons I took my picture down from here, but on Instagram when a random dude pops up in your inbox like "hey" on one hand, I'm tempted not to reply, just in case he's a perv, but then on the other- I feel bad because just because a few guys are like that it doesn't mean all are- but then when I reply the majority of the time, he just turns out to be a perv soooo...

  • First it's inappropriate to say such thing to stranger girl in online/real life because the girl will consider you creepy.
    But still some guys with desperate cheap mentality will still try such things and eventually get blocked by girls.
    Ignore such idiots they say such things to get attention from woman.

    • Exactly! It's very inappropriate. I'm trying my best to ignore them, but it gets way too much irritating at times. I'll keep trying, though. Thank you for your input.

  • If it's on internet it's not very shocking but in real life is it

  • Yeah, that's repulsive unless it's someone you're in a relationship with.

    • Exactly!

  • Think its disrespectful. I'm sure its more respectful to tell her that she's a good looking girl.

    • I couldn't agree more.

  • I agree with you, It's no place for a man who a girl doesn't know
    tells her that she made him hard, I would think the girl needs to
    tell him where to get off at

  • That’s very disrespectful, those guys are just very thirsty and needy for attention and it’s why they always get blocked or ignored. Hopefully they figure it out one day 🙄

    • I hope so, too. Maybe they will once they have a daughter. 😕

  • Some guys just don't know where to draw the line unfortunately.

    • That's just sad

    • Yeah it is.

  • I don't know cause they think in their fucked up minds that this is how you get a woman

    • That's pretty sad and sick at the same time.

    • indeed it is missy smh

  • The short answer is, i don't get it eirher since i wasn't raised to talked to women like that. But the long answer is, that's easy, young males found out real early on when their young most girls want guys attention and it doesn't matter much whether it's good or bad most girls grow out of this as they become women. Unfortunately most guys don't change. And it has proven conclusively time and time again the most aggressive gets rewarded.

    So i'm not blaming you Genie. But in a nutshell you pay for other women's bad behaviour.

    • Thank you for your input. It definitely made me understand why they do it

  • yeah thats not cool.. Though the only ones that i feel like are asking for it, are the ones that post racy photos for "opinions"

    Take posts from this person as an example

    Who has actually jerked off to photos here on gag?

  • Because they’re pervy idiots

    • Yeah.. I guess you are right. 😕 Makes me hesitant to talk to any new guy, though.

    • And I can imagine it’s not something any girl (unless they’re also extremely weird and interested) wants to hear

    • Oh that sucks :/

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  • My opinion, they or some of them just want to get into your head.
    By saying "u look attractive" is not that 'attractive' to women because women already used to get such complement (s).

  • I think, aside from the creeps, it's actually a very poor attempt at flirting. They're trying to say that you are someone they find attractive. But they probably have no idea how to do it and they can only think in terms of sex, so they go with you giving them a hard-on.
    It's a bit sad to be honest

    • It is. :/

  • Because it's not illegal.

  • Well it is fishing because if a guy tells 10 girls that at least 1 of them may like it and he ends up getting laid. Even if the other 9 are appalled by it.

  • When communicating with a woman you don't know or just met, and you have interest in her:

    "I find you attractive." (Or something along those lines.): 👍

    "I want to bang you silly." (Or something along those lines.): 👎

    Of course these are generalizations, and some women are more willing to engage in erotic conversations than others...

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