Guys who wouldn’t date a ‘slut’: How do you know she hasn’t actually slept with 10 guys + before?

[Anonymous]

Maybe she just lies about her number and has never told anyone about her hookups.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

I will, because even if she say 1-2, i will never belive it.
In time she will get confortable whit me and tell me all the true.
And even if she sleep before whit 10+ or 1000+ i will not care because, I'M THE BEST FROM ALL THOUS.

And if she is relly a virgin or have a smal number of guys, i will say she is special and inocent, nobady ever make her feel more happy then me so she can be confortable whit sex.

I will personaly prefer a slut girl then a girl whit a small numbers og parteners.

[BeenThereLovedIt]

I always added a zero to the end of whatever number I was told, and still felt that I was being too conservative. It doesn't bother me if she slept with 10 or 100 people before me, but it bothers me that she lies about it. But then again, everyone pretty much lies about their past and past actions. We all have embarrassing moments we wish to keep to ourselves.

[QooLipBite]

I can usually tell when the girl is a slut. Like 99% never fail.

[Asker]

I think you’re overestimating your abilities.

[QooLipBite]

Nah, I’m pretty thorough in my research, questioning and observations. Not that I’m out there to be “slut catcher”, I couldn’t give a shit about her past. I just wouldn’t want to sexually associate myself with someone who throws their body around, know what I’m saying?

[ohshee]

In our own ways we are all sluts if you can be honest about it with your self ,, or I guess I shouldn't say that I can say I have done some kinky things. Can guys be sluts to

[abc3643]

Because, the truth comes out.
And looseness doesn't lie.

[Asker]

You sleep with 20 different guys once. You sleep with one guy 20 times. The vagina doesn’t feel a difference.

[abc3643]

That's an interesting point - except that 20 penises have different shapes from a single penis.

[Asker]

Also, the vagina is a muscle. A penis doesn’t make it ‘loose’. If anything, pushing a BABY through it might make it looser.

[abc3643]

We can sense when she's lying. I knew my girlfriend was - loosest "virgin" ever... Don't lie and don't be a slut. If you need more than 10 guys by the time you are 22, you're not going to have a good reputation.

[Asker]

The thing is: If nobody knows about the 10 guys, there’s no bad reputation.

[abc3643]

Actually, it does have an effect.
Yes, definitely true about babies.

However, if you Google "vaginal laxity", one of the diagnosis questions that may be asked is:
"multiple sexual partners?"

For instance, this is from the website of Dr. Camilla Pettigrew, gynecologist
www.rejuvenationclinicmd.com/.../
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The Problem Next Door: Vaginal Laxity
Do you experience looseness of the vagina? This is known as vaginal laxity. This is very common - about 75% of women suffer. Unfortunately, vaginal laxity affects function, lifestyle and quality of life. However, there has been a stigma associated with discussing any of these types of issues with medical providers. But more and more women are bringing vaginal laxity out of the shadows to regain their optimal vaginal health.

The Many Faces Of Vaginal Laxity
In general, there are 8 main causes of vaginal laxity. Because every woman is unique, her causes will be unique as well. Among these, you may have experienced the following yourself.

Are you…
Menopausal (peri, active or post)?

Have you experienced…
Multiple vaginal childbirths?
Poor repairs from those deliveries?
A history of prolonged sexual activity?
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> Multiple sexual partners? <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<
Sexual trauma?

Or do you have...
Certain medical conditions?
A possible genetic disposition to vaginal laxity?
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If the number of guys was irrelevant, that question would not be asked.

[abc3643]

The 10 guys know. Bottomline though: The looseness of the snatch adversely affects the quality of the ride. You don't want to drive a car with bad shocks and you don't want to feel like you're skateboarding in a wide hallway.

[abc3643]

FORGET about snatch looseness though. MORE IMPORTANT THAN TIGHTNESS IS LOYALTY AND TRUST. More than sex, your man wants to know that he can trust you. If he senses you are lying to him, he will withdraw and will eventually dump you if not already married to you. It is that important. So, better to be honest and say "Yes, I had sexual intercourse with X guys." where X is the real number. If he can't handle whatever value X is, then he's not the guy for you. Don't give him some number less than X so you can "make the sale" and attract him. We are not stupid - we are pretty good at sensing being lied to. And, I gotta tell you... We DO NOT like that. It's the #1 reason why older men do not bother with women later in life: we know their bullshit and we don't want it and we are no longer a slave to our testosterone induced insanity, so women lose that power over us. BUT, if a woman earns our trust and loyalty because we believe she is the same, the number of previous penises will not matter as much.

[Asker]

Thank god you think like that!!

[Aethereal]

This is a subject that must be brought up early, before strong feelings are developed. It's a matter of two opposing views on sex, and is thus an important subject.
If either partner lies about their number, it escalates from having incompatible views to wilful deceit, and is (or should be) an automatic deal breaker.

[MrTuxedo]

I don't quite get what you're asking here...

[Asker]

Why are guys so sure that their girl didn’t sleep around?

[MrTuxedo]

You cannot be sure. I cannot be sure if my ex-girlfriends slept with 2 or 22 guys before me, and I don't care, as I'm on a pretty high body count to so...

[David92506]

Do you know what the difference is between a whore and a slut?

A whore will have sex with anyone who pays her.
A slut will have sex with anyone for free, except you.

[Kaneki05]

Guess they wouldn't know? But then if they ever found out she lied that would be the end of that relationship fast.

[Asker]

Very good point and true.

[Apope16]

As long as she is clean I dont care how many guys she has slept with. However... i would prefer it to be less. But it wouldn't change much. If she is clean then I am game.

[Bandit74]

Ultimately you can't know for certain as there are always exceptions but you can try to reduce the likelyhood of ending up with a slut by filtering on certain qualities. Beyond that I guess you have to hope your judgment is good and that if any of the guys in her friend circle fucked her or knows of her past that they will let it slip either to warn you or just to make fun of you.

[_SOARER]

Most girls lie about that
A woman my age usually tends to have 6+ sexual partners here in NY. It's just the reality