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Men, have you accidentally been too rough with your woman or women during sex? Women have you experienced this?

This is all assuming the woman enjoys or is into being treated roughly during sex and being dominated during sex.

Some examples include:

•Pulling her air too hard

•Squeezing her wrists too hard when you’re pinning her down

•Throwing her too hard and high in the air when you’re trying to throw her onto the bed

•Slapping her too hard

•Fucking her too hard, slamming into her with a lot of force.

•Even really being explicit and cruel in your name calling (if she’s into that).
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Women, aside from whether or not you’ve experienced this, comment your opinions on how rough is too rough and whether or not a man being too rough ruins the mood for you, makes you angry, sad, etc.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Yes, but I've also been "not rough enough" too. But, yes, I've made her sore, or left marks, or pulled out hair, etc. No girl has ever been upset about it, because we talk about desires and boundaries and so forth, and sometimes in the moment she's asking for more and only later realizes it was a bit too much.

    Occasionally, someone may want something, and specifically ask for it, only to find that it's too much for them or they feel differently about it once they've actually experienced it. That happens, and if you're involved in BDSM, you're going to run into that from time to time, but you need to communicate, and have your safety protocols in place, and rely on other people to be honest. And most are. But people don't always know where their own boundaries are, or they're trying to push them out a bit further, and when you're playing in that zone, things can sometimes get a little much.

  • I have a long dick. So a few times during doggy or missionary I have caused pain by going too deep early on before she is fully warmed up. Other than that what happened to me the other day is the reverse. When she orgasms she grabs my neck and wants to choke me. wtf? she wants me to choke her... but no way.

Most Helpful Girls

  • The one thing that I don’t like is when his dick is longer than my vaginal canal and it punches my cervix. It’s pretty uncomfortable and when I would tell my ex to slow down, he got super annoyed.

    Otherwise, most other rough activity is fine by me. I love having my hair pulled!

  • I think it could be fun when you're really turned on...
    But yes I've had this experience. And it was a little too much but I just thought that was how it's always supposed to be. It wasn't really wonderful now that I look back as I understand things a lot better now

    • Yes, I agree with you.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • I have never been with a woman who ever asked for rough sex and it doesn't turn me on, so I have never confronted any of these questions.

  • Question is for men, so what am I supposed to do here?

    • “Women have you experienced this?”

    • I have no sexual experience.

  • I will let you know when I have performed any of these.. 😂..

  • Yes, I’ve experience it before. Couldn’t have sex for almost a week 😂

    • What happened if you don’t mind saying?

    • He grabbed my hair and went too deep and hard 😣 kinda liked it at first, but then it hurt. Not good

    • Did he grab your hair too hard? Yank or pulled on it too hard?

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  • Once by accident, the others were by design

    • By design? Are you sure?

    • Yeah, she’s a sex sadist. Granted it doesn’t technically count because it’s not a guy, but felt the need to include it

    • Oh!! I got you I thought when you meant “others” you meant your past partners were too rough on you. I’m an idiot lol.

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  • Nopes

  • I don’t think any of my exes were rough. At least that’s not the term I would use. I remembered getting fingered right before sex a little too hard, but it wasn’t exactly rough.. just slightly uncomfortable.

  • Yes when I was chocked too hard and my lip was bitten hard too

  • Rough penetration.

  • Nope.

    • This is a great way to end up being arrested for rape and/or domestic violence.

    • Not quite lmao...

  • Yeah. Some girls say they are into rough sex but really they just want to be fucked hard. Big difference

  • As I'm not into any of those shits, I'm glad to say :"no".

  • No, I've never experienced this because I'm always dominant in sex.
    I'm on top all the time, so he can't pull my hair.
    I'm the one pinning him down.
    I actually push him down on the bed, and jump on top of him.
    Sometimes I slap him, but we're not much into slapping.
    I often ride him very hard, sometimes he gasps for air, or whimpers if I'm being too forceful on his dick.
    I usually don't use name calling.

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