Why do some guys like being hit in the balls?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I were having a conversation a while ago about things we wanted to try in bed in an effort to spice up our sex life.
One of the things he expressed interest in was being tied up and having me generally dominate him (that part is easy) and hit him in the balls.
I know it is a fetish some guys like, but isn't it dangerous. We did try, i had him tied up with wide open legs. But testicles just feel so fragile. I did slap them around a bit but he kept egging me on to hit harder or to kick him. But when i have them in my hand they just feel like a body part that could be so easily damaged.
So I have 2 options I guess.
1: give him what he wants and risk injury.
2: tell him im not going to do it for his own safety and explain that im not willing to risk his sexual health for a simple sexual thrill.
Im leaning towards option 2, my heart just isn't in it knowing there is a chance of damage. I just wish he could of asked for a nice old fashioned ass whipping and I would have happily done it.
Why do some guys want this and how should I handle it?

[NamerOfStars]

There is a statement which is true no matter what sentence it is appended to; regardless of the abstraction or seeming irrelevance of the sentence, the statement always applies. That statement is: some people are sexually aroused by that. The flight muscles of a honeybee only last for about 500 miles worth of flight. Yaounde is the capital of Cameroon. Evolution decided that just because it's an internal organ, that doesn't mean it has to be on the inside of the body. And for each of those, some people are sexually aroused by that. It doesn't make any sense to me either, but I'm not here to judge. Wince, yes, but not judge.

[Those of you with weak stomachs and/or Y chromosomes may want to stop reading now]

While I'm not a doctor (don't forget that!), I can tell you that human testicles are actually quite durable; unless you're dropping car batteries on them or using them as a trampoline, you're unlikely to crush them. Flicking them, slapping them, roleplaying the exceptionally naughty nun who REALLY wants him to learn his geography- these should be fine, unless you're extremely strong. Kicking is, naturally, dicier.

While any form of serious impact does pose some level of danger (damage can happen even without rupturing), if it's pain he's after, you don't need impact. Tie him up and break out the IcyHot, and you'll have him begging for mercy in a matter of minutes. Menthol and Capsaicin won't do any damage.

Bottom line is, you're concerned about his health, and that's definitely a good thing. If the risk bothers you, talk to a doctor- I can all but guarantee you won't be the first to ask. And if it really bothers you, then work with him to find another way to get him his thrills.

[OneManOnly]

You know probably nothing is going to happen. I have the same fetish and I've experienced a lot of this.

Once I had a girl who was interested in my fetish but when she tied me up she kept kicking me VERY VERY HARD and even when I was begging her to stop she just kept going because she had held a grudge on me.

But even after that and some pain for a couple days everything went back to okay.

I even had a kettlebell dropped on my balls by that same girl yet my balls survived.

She keeps assaulting me yet I'm with her and she has tried to severely damage my balls countless times but I survived.

Just don't go extreme and everything will be fine...

And it's not your guys fault that he likes it, he just does like I do..

Please, just give him this pleasure.

at least you could roleplay without actually hitting him very hard just swing your feet fast and then slow down at the time of impact.

He'll start to trust you more if you fulfill this request of his

[laraWM]

Just tell him what you wrote here.
You know, everyone likes something different. Maybe just pretend to do it harder would be enough for him, as you said it can be easily damaged

[Anonymous]

Something is wrong with him. You shouldn't give in to his desires for self harm; and instead try to get him help.

[chriscdi]

broski want no babies smh

[nudeNhorny]

Yes it's a fetish of him obviously, I suggest you go along with it but not being hard to the point you risk injuring him, just take it lightly to feed up his fetish while still playing safe, even if he requested you to hit harder just pretend like you would but don't actually.

[gandolph3]

tell him what you just told us