If a guy doesn't cum during sex?

What does that mean? Is he not enjoying it? Is it more difficult to cum a second time?
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And also if he starts going down? Is that a bad sign
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  • Maybe. Maybe he's just tired or stressed, or has one of a variety of medical problems. The penis is a body part like any other; there are things that can go wrong with it. If this is just a one-off, don't worry about it; if it keeps happening, talk to him and try to figure out what the problem is.

    As to a second time- after ejaculation, a man can't ejaculate again until some time has passed (not long, usually less than ten minutes, but it varies). A lot of people think this means that sex is over for him, but it's not quite true: he can keep going, but the penis becomes VERY sensitive. And while he can orgasm again, he can't ejaculate (the two usually occur simultaneously, but they're different, separate processes). It takes some practice to work through it and keep going, though, and the masturbatory habits of most men don't go in that direction; once they've cum, they're done.

    Think of it like firing a gun: you can keep pulling the trigger, but you won't fire another bullet until you've reloaded.

    Think of it like shooting a gun:

  • It does take more time to cum a second time in the same sex session. but Guys also get use to certain things too. For example if he masturbates a lot he might not get hard just from looking at you. He may ned to masturbate to get off. An old girlfriend that he had a lot of sex with my do it differently than you and he not knowingly not be as aroused by you.

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  • When you say a second time, if you mean he already came once then usually guys need a cooldown before they can do it again

  • 1. He jerk of before the sex
    2. He is stresed, tired or in pain
    3. He is drunk
    4. Bad alimentation and lifestile
    5. To much gym

    • Thanks for the insight

  • He's doing it somewhere else.

  • sometimes trying for a round 2 wears out "the little guy's" stamina. yes penisrs sort of have a seperaye stamina from the rest of the guy it's part of

  • Those are all bad signs.

    You're screwed

    • He isn't attracted to me?

    • No he is attracted to boys.

  • Could mean he's not enjoying it yeah. Or maybe he's tired, worried about something, too hot or too cold, got cramp in his leg... Sometimes having a long session makes a guys penis go kinda numb, and some medications can interfere with erections and orgasms. Why don't you just talk to him about it? There's probably an easy fix

  • Ya I can only cum once