Does my boyfriend maybe not want to have penetrative sex with me?

[Helppleasemaybe]

last week we were kissing on his bed and he was on top of me I also kind of felt his penis move on his pants while he was kissing me and then I asked him “do you have a condom?” And he said “They’re not with me right now but did you want them for some other time?” And I just said yeah. Then was he used his tongue on me down there for the first time and I gave him a blow job for the first time but he hasn’t talked about buying a condom ever since. I want to have real sex someday he has experienced it but I haven’t.

[TadCurious]

I guarantee you times a hundred million that your boyfriend wants to make love to you. But because of how much you mean to him he doesn't want you to think he's only with you for sex. He has had casual sex before and it left him feeling empty and he wants his relationship with you to be different. He's being a gentleman. So it's not that he doesn't want to, it's that he wants to be sure that you are ready. That's very respectful on his part. And at some point soon with your reassurance to him that you're ready you and he will make love for the first time.

[TadCurious]

Thank you for MHO!

[Reaperbot666]

you could consider buying some to have. for the next time this might happen. girls can buy them also. if you have them in your hand bag. at least you can pull one out when your flirting with him. and show it to him in a flirty or sexy manner.

also you can both consider buying them online. because some sites you can have a new box auto-shipped right to your household.

in case he is to embarrassed to buy them at a store or if he just keeps forgetting to buy them even.

[Forestfox]

Firstly, I want to say congrats on your first oral (giving and receiving) session. I hope you enjoyed both equally as much as I did for the first time.

Regarding the actual sex thing... He should be more understanding I feel :(

[Forestfox]

Thanks :)

[Helppleasemaybe]

No problem and he actually does but he was being a gentleman about it

[NamerOfStars]

Maybe. Remember that in addition to a penis, he also has a brain: just because he's hard for you doesn't mean he's not nervous, or scared, or respecting your desire to wait.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I think he's trying to protect you cause seriously your first time
is when some girls can end up getting pregnant and it does happen
he could get a good condom called barely anything and it's like he's not
using anything but you want be protected

[reptocarl2]

Tell him to go buy and bring some

[Orangeandturquoise]

You should tell him it feels unfair to you that he keeps you from it.

[COMMODOREII]

Talk to him and tell him you might want to have sex earlier.

[BoxySama]

Sighhh

[Helppleasemaybe]

This is all new to me and it’s a bit hard because I would be breaking the rules with my parents

[BoxySama]

Be a big girl and buy a box for yourself and keep them in a good place

[BoxySama]

😈😈😈😏😏😏 I grew up in Brooklyn New York City Logic doesn't work like that for me

[Helppleasemaybe]

I can’t because my parents will find out. He is 22 and his parents don’t seem to care what he does but I have strict parents and I can’t even drive

[BoxySama]

Worrying about your parents 🙄🙄🙄

[BoxySama]

Yeah yeah, that generation is f***** up, I pity you

[BoxySama]

I had free reign of the city by the age of 14

[Helppleasemaybe]

You’re a man. I’m a girl

[BoxySama]

I knew tons of girls that were even more hardcore than I was

[BoxySama]

I'm not that bad ass, I'm far too friendly

[loveladies1]

Maybe he's just scared. Get some condoms hand him one a d tell him you want him inside of you right now

[Helppleasemaybe]

He’s had sex with at least 3-4 other women before me

[Helppleasemaybe]

You really think he seems scared?

[loveladies1]

Maybe either he's not clear you want it. He hasn't really had sex before. Or he's got performance anxiety

[loveladies1]

Yes he seems scared

[Helppleasemaybe]

How about if while we’re making out on his bed I tell him I think I’m ready?

[Helppleasemaybe]

But I also need to tell him to get condoms in advance so should I Randomly text him telling him “I know this is random but could you like buy condoms lol?” we’ve been together for 3 months by the way

[loveladies1]

Tell him you are ready and also be prepared with a condom if you want him to wear one

[loveladies1]

Just pick some up yourself

[Helppleasemaybe]

He will have to get them because my parents will find out because I Can’t drive yet and they take me everywhere

[loveladies1]

Ah okay, or maybe ask a friend

[Helppleasemaybe]

Why can’t he just buy it? He is 22 and has way more freedom then me shouldn’t it be okay for him to buy it?