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Why do guys want to get their dick sucked in certain positions?

I have been single for a long time so I don't speak from a lot of experience with one steady partner, and I don't know a guy sexually well enough to go and ask that question. I do have a lot of one time experience with different guys and this is really remarkable. Pretty much every guy wants me in the same position for a blowjob, which is on my knees (or squatting) on the floor while he stands or sits and they always grab my hair pretty short to the root. When I am on the bed or couch, they very often ask to switch positions and want me on the floor.

Last time was even with a coworker after his (very drunk) b-day party. He stayed at my place and simply asked for a blowjob cause it was his birthday and he wanted to have his balls emptied I guess. That's a big favour I did and afterward I thought, even while he gets so lucky that I actually pleased him, he still has the courage order me to get in certain positions and roughly grab y hair, while he should just enjoy his luck that I gave him some relief.

Why do guys want this and apparently feel entitled to it? I don't mind that much and if it really pleases a guy, I would do it, but it does come across a little degrading and almost like a must.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Well some men just got that image and desire from porn and like the image or idea of it even if some other position will be better but they just don't know it yet
    some men are just quite rough and they find it easier in that position
    and for as you see that it comes across a little degrading it some times depends
    I myself am a rough dominant and I can tell you that I can make it come across really degrading for you. but not all men think of the degrading part
    some might just like that little feeling of control as they are not really dominants or really into controlling but just a bit of control would feel nice so they tend to prefer this position somehow

    and as for your drunken friend (what you did for him was really nice) but he might have acted a little nicer about it if he was sober but from what I get he was drunk and sometimes when people are drunk they just tend to do and not think so he just says or does what comes to his mind in that drunken moments when your mind is not quite in control
    hopefully this provides some answers !

  • A lot of people, men and women alike, seem to enjoy some element of degradation in their sexual activity. I have no idea why; it's never appealed to me- but it's there nonetheless.

Most Helpful Girls

  • It's purely a masculinity and control thing. When I drop down to my knees I am being submissive and giving him dominance over me and a lot of guys really enjoy that as it is somewhat coded into their DNA to be the more dominant in primordial terms. I enjoy it but I get not all women do.

    • I actually think it's really hot as well when I'm into it. But it's just weird that guys seem to think it's a normal thing, even with the most casual blowjob.

    • Men love to feast with their eyes. And it looks sexy when you have his cock in your mouth. Men love to watch when you’re going down on them. So I a show out of it. I wear sexy underwear. I Position myself in front of a mirror. I keep making eye contact. They eat it up.

    • see i like the best leaning back on couch and her be almost at the same level since i love to watch. but for me different positions is something I ask for during and swapping helps make me cum faster, but if it doesn't change, hopefully she's above average to finish me

  • on your knees is the best position i gave my 1st blowjobs on my knees... then i gave one while sitting on a bed... but it's mostly on my knees and i never saw it as a submissive way or what i saw in porn it's just the best way to give a blowjob.

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  • There is probably a Dr Seuss book written about how I feel about beej positions

    • Also, porn is why

    • Haha ok thanks. Can you maybe explain in short how you feel about it?

    • To me it doesn't really matter the position, but I think that that particular position has been made popular by porn, and people tend to like acting out things they like in porn they've seen

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  • They watch way too much porn and they like the way it makes them feel in control.

  • The sensation of getting head feels different at different angles, and the view is different from different angles too. Also we get to fondle different parts of her body based on the angle too.

  • We are very visual.

  • It is to feel superior i guess. I prefer to just lay back or be in a position the girl is comfortable with and let her go at it. They can take their time enjoying my cock and i get to enjoy them enjoying my cock. 😂😎

  • wow i wish i was your coworker lol. i get what your saying tho i think some guys just kinda lose their minds when they are horny and get super controling. by the way what u like abotu suckign dick?

  • We are not all the same, I for one am gratefully receive any oral action that she chooses to give

  • That's how 80% percent of porn blow job's locks like. I think that's the problem.

  • they take porn to serious, I like that if she does it on her own, but mostly i. m usually on my back

  • Hahha... That's because they want u to be their obedient sucker... Loll jk...

  • Not my thing but we see it in porn all the time. So it's like "normal". lol I think some guys think women like it too.

  • I have had it rarely but it is a treat.
    Straddling her head (her legs behind me) sucking me (a very gentle face fuck) while she fingers me anally.

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