Is the society sexually frustated? What you think on this considering the sexual abuse cases which we see everyday?

[sukcitup]

[SarahNiemann]

I don’t think sexual abuse has anything to do with sexual frustration! Sexual abuse, like rape is about power! If you are a 30, 40, or 50 year old man... maybe an uncle, or a teacher. You are not sexually abusing me because you are attracted to me (or in love with me) and want to be my boyfriend! Your sexually abusing me is about you exerting your power over me! Often it’s because those people were sexually abused, and by abusing someone else later in life, is, in many ways an attempt at regaining the power and control over their lives which they feel was taken from them by THEIR abuser! It’s sad but true... most abusers were themselves abused as children! One of my biggest fears is that an uncle I love will one day destroy that love, and betray my trust by making a pass at me, or hugging me just a bit TOO long. I have an uncle who every time he passes me he puts his hand on me! Most often it’s the small of my back. One time as he approached me, instead of saying “excuse me” he put both his hands on my hips, and just “moved me aside”? Like he literally “scooted” me. I actually said... “Woah, next time could you just try excuse me, instead of moving me like a chair that’s in your way”?

[sukcitup]

Maybe he did it in an innocent way... But yeah if touch was longer, he was intentional

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Sexual abuse isn't because of sexual frustration... It's because of the kind of person, mental dysfunction of the sexual abuser... There's lots of sexually frustrated people, myself sometimes included that would NEVER sexually abuse or asault someone. And those that do, doesn't mean they aren't already having sex.

[sukcitup]

Fair point... It's a mental issue agreed.. but there are cases when people do have lot of fantasies which build up and their partner doesn't approve of the same.. and they kind of release than pent up energy with someone else without consent.. it's a small percentage of cases but yes it does happen..

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Umm but a sane person would just find someone with the same fantasy with consent... So again, it's something wrong in that individuals brain that would make them do that

[sukcitup]

Coooool.. thanks buddy... Appreciate your reply on the question...😊

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

👍👍🙂

[Kaneki05]

Meh that's just for other reasons like what has been said already. Sexually frustrated normal people have much more ways to keep it not so bad and heck if we truly get desperate you can legit pay for it? Maybe illegal depending on how you do it or where you are but compared to sexual abuse it's what a normal person would do.

[sukcitup]

Thanks mahn for your views.. I appreciate it

[Cherokeehp]

Sex abuse is about power.

[Anonymous]

Society can’t be sexually frustrated, people can. And yeah, some people are. Sexual abuse hasn’t got anything to do with sexual frustration though. It’s about power, hate and mental illness/disorders in the people who commit these types of crime.

[sukcitup]

Yes agreed... So does all cases come under illness? Just want to understand your point here

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Agree 💯

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

Thanks 🙂