Once you let a guy do anal, does he expect it every time?

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Once you do it once, is the expectation that it's going to happen all the time?

bluehen46 · Accepted Answer

For many or most guys anal is like the whole grail. Former pornstar mia khalife once said if a girl lets you do that she 1 is a major wh*re that will do the book on the first date or 2 is really into you. I like to think it was number 2 ( no pun intended in my case)

No i do not think so. Honestly after that initial bit of muscle it has a very similar feeling to vaginal sex ihmo and i never been with a virgin i had vaginal sex with i was with a virgin ( both ways) i had anal sex with and all but one girl was. All but one really did not like it and i married her. She went from a three hole wonder to a not even missionary in two years mary.

Many girls i know ( many friends are girls as i seem to make friends easier with women) say it is special occasions like anniverary, birthdays or time of the month. if its painful i really get no desire to hurt women. Trying it once is fine with me as long as there is the other two open and willing and i recipricate

pepperhicks · Accepted Answer

No, it is not a realistic expectation.

My girl needs recovery time from anal. And, I know her preference is vaginal intercourse with some anal fingering, and my eating her pussy with some anal fingering.
It also requires some level of preparation. She prefers to fast for a day prior to anal sex.

For us it is kind of a special event to change things up once in awhile.

KitKnickKat · Accepted Answer

It depends on how you react I would think. When my boyfriend and I tried it, I was in a lot of pain and he didn’t like that he was hurting me. He asked me if I wanted to do it again and I said no so haha

SexyAsian · Accepted Answer

I know doesn't ask for it all the time. Once every few months maybe.

SjE78 · Answer

not all of us do no some guys, those who are more obsessive tend to do if they enjoy it, and those do that even if the woman didn't feel they enjoyed it

but those of us who actually have some self control, if the experience is enjoyed by both parties, even then it's not expected all the time

Paige90 · Answer

No, I do anal when I'm on my period.

NaughtybyNature546 · Answer

Small dick guys like anal, shame

Reaperbot666 · Answer

depends on the guy and how you both felt about doing it. it is one of those things that gets better with more practice feeling wise. but you can always say no and only for specials events.

me personally. I rather have oral or vaginal sex with a girl. but if she likes anal I will do that for her also.

Bigboy1488 · Answer

It depends on if you liked it as well. I know I wouldn't ask if you didn't like It

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

No. One time treat.

BillieJean1070 · Answer

He'd better not expect it every time with me.

TCredo · Answer

I've never expected or even wanted it every time - it's a nice option to have if she is open to it but even with a girlfriend who was really into anal, neither one of us wanted it often... might have been like once every half dozen or so sex times

AmeerX · Answer

You open to gate to something once it means you have ability to do it again

Worshop · Answer

If the first experience got a positive response I'd definitely be expecting it again. It wouldn't mean that I'd want anal every time, but perhaps once every two weeks or something

OfDeath · Answer

It's not just an expectation, it's a rule. Your anus has been colonised and is under crown rule.

COMMODOREII · Answer

I really don't care for anal.

Pete671 · Answer

tbh I wouldn't, just something for a bit of variety, my girlfriend pegs me about once a month, I couldn't take it all the time lol,,,

Steve37 · Answer

Not if you communicate that it's something you only want occasionally.

Twalli · Answer

No, but if you didn't dislike it he may expect it when he wants it. My girlfriend loves anal so she actually demands it.

Agem123 · Answer

Depends if you enjoy it or not.

allaboutyou2 · Answer

In my opinion a guy shouldn't expect anything from a girl except honesty.

ND4SPD31 · Answer

I would say knowing younger guys, the answer is yes.

asshole_ · Answer

Not really I don't ever want anal, I haven't had it at all

letmebehidden · Answer

depends on that guy

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