Do sex positive feminist realize what happens to promiscos girls and the weird struggles they have?

[lovegirll]

Most Men dont want there daughter or sister engaiging in casual sex they dont want them to be taken advantag of

WomenWho engage in casual sex are often taken advantage of. And feminst think sex is equal both subjects and y'all are RIGHT but the sad reality is most men dont see it that way. they see themsleves as Dominant in sex and sex is something they "DID" to you. girls realize the guys you have sex with have the same views as the people who think ur harmng yousrelf
the men they have sex with probably believe there disrespectng you and ur disrespecting yourself
just because you dont doesn't mean they dont
breakdown of gender roles created fuckboy culture. and its possible to get rid of fuckboy culture once the sexual revolution opened that door up. once you open the doors up for men, theyll take it with sexual freedom. im not saying there's not Good men out there who will respect the women they have sex with and treat her equal and respec and like a subject there both having sex with eachother not he's sexing her, but a lot of men do not and it is risky.
so tes women are kinda weird and like protecting men from mens judgements. as men we know how most men are. we know how people treat girls. and most men will judge a girl. so girls who are sex positive have to realize the dude will probably devalue them, sees her as submissive, he would be mad at her daughter or sister for doing this,
he knws he taking advantage of herBut she will defend herself and the guy I don't know
why would yo want to take part in casual sex if people wil be mean to you and call you a hoe and slut and all of these other issues
ur dad and bro will wannak ill the guy
a lot of these weird issues will happen
they kinda shame u as a masochistic even the guy ur having sex with will feel lik he's disrespecting u maybe and hold back and the girl will get frustrated omg im horny ur not disrpecting me

[Red_Dragon]

Well I definitely can not stand Feminazis. I do think that some feminists go overboard and are actually sexist. It's one thing to be for women rights. It's another to trample on male rights in doing so. I also realize that there are some sick, mentally ill, men out there who sexually abuse/rape women. It's disgusting, inexcusable, and hopefully they get the worst punishment for doing such a thing. Me and a coworker yesterday were looking at scum on the sex offender list. Now all that said I am also a member of the BDSM community and a poly person. Meaning I have multiple female partners. Yes there is a part of that culture that could be very dangerous for women but most sexual abuse/rape comes from vanilla situations where monogamy is more common. Also, I've been to very very kinky and sex oriented parties and it was always heavy rulebook enforcement going on. Very respectful. Again I think most rape/assault comes from suppressed vanilla culture. Though I do believe there's again partly a section of casual sex stuff where that happens. Truth is women should be careful either way as opposed to blaming one side or the other.

[lovegirll]

feminist girls "personal equality freedom" to heave "equal sex" iwth a guy who views sex as he got some or he got sexas the dominant man and the girl lacked boundaries or integrity my point is the girl wants freedom to let herself by viewed by the "chauvinistic sexit male" this way this is why feminism is an illuminati joke to mess with girls and with boys

[Red_Dragon]

I see what you're saying but if you're talking about the global elite it ain't enough for them to rape girls. They want to rape little girls and boys. The pedo stuff is what really gets them off. I get what you're saying there.

[alice55]

"Most Men dont want there daughter or sister engaiging in casual sex they dont want them to be taken advantag of" Yet they love it when they can sex quickly from a "slut' without having to date her or court her and can just use them for the night while tossing them away...

You can't get rid of fuckboy because they existed back then, they were just going to see the prostitute or they courted multiple girls at the same time and had sex with both of them.

Either ways both are bad option.

What I find weird is that in the late 60s early 70s they fought for sexual liberation and now it's the reverse (how many people complain about too many naked body on tv, movie, music show, etc...). Make me wonder if in 10 years we would have tv like in the 40s without any nudity or sexual stuff and then in 50 years get a new "sexual liberation".

[alice55]

Also the woman who do that fight to be free, free to do what they want without people bothering them. People suffocate when they're told what to do at all time. Like a child with an overprotective parents most child would go crazy and they fight to get more freedom.

[lovegirll]

Yes exactly. Most men see themselves as takign sex from a slut. so why do oyu wanna be that girl that guys view as a slut they can use? That was my point.

[alice55]

I think they just wish to be free

[lovegirll]

How is that empowerign to be a girl that gets bullied and sexually used

[alice55]

I think it's more about freedom than anything, being free to do what hey want.

[lovegirll]

my point is why would a girl wanna do something that leads to them being abused and sexually used a great deal of the time and men dont want girls to have this freedom, but men are the girls are attracted to. why do you wanna have sex with people who dont want u to have that right and want to use you and stuff its like girls wanna be objectified or something its weird I understand wanting freedom definitely. but if i was a girl I would think throug all the variables i have ADHD and be like "nah casual sex is weiird for girls"

[lovegirll]

any dador btoher likes to hurt the guy there daughter or sister has sex with, that puts girls in a weirdp lace there daughter is and why do girls want girls to be jdged for being pervert or theyl ike UR NOT GONNA JUDGE ME TOO I WANNA GET IN TROUBLE TOO

[lovegirll]

an whn a 18 yr old girl wants sexual freedom to hav sex with a 40 yr old but the 40 yr old would kill anyone his daughter has sex with thats that old

[alice55]

I guess they don't want to have a serious relationship and just want to have sex so they also use men in their own way. Pretty sure they don't care about that if they just want to have sex with a hot guys. I think they mostly don't care for it (at leas the one that don't want to have relationship and just casual hook up). If it's weird for girls then it's weird for guys also, men also get used for sex. I know girls who only had casual hook up and a guys thought they were together but she just kicked him out without feelings. Women who sleep around doesn't have much consideration for guys either and they sexually objectify them too. Nobody ever talk about it but it's the true.

[lovegirll]

I do think casual sex is weird period

[lovegirll]

women do objectify men and we need to talk about that it hurts guys too but in diffrent way it hurts girls more for religious and scientific pregnancy reasons but ur missing my point and girls like to do this when they make arguments if the majority of society is thinking a certain way it makes it very weird. ur thinking ur way of thinking is the whole world thinking, a lot ofgirls make this mistake. no the world thinks there way and ur thinking ur unique way.

[alice55]

18 years old don't want to have sex with guys that are 40 years old and those men that have sex with young girls definitely don't mind if their daughter have sex with old dude (at least in my country they don't give a shit, an old dude had a 15 years old daughter and he said to his friends that she was at the age of sexual maturity and could do whatever she wanted at this age).

[alice55]

You make no sense at all. And you're the one who think your ways of thinking is the only one and the best. I'm a girl I know better than you what girls think. Also learn how to write properly cause it's a drag to try to just read one of your sentence.

[BlondeGoneWild]

I don’t consider it taking advantage of me if I want him too. Even if he “uses” me for my body, personally that’s so hot to me

[lovegirll]

do u understand everyhting i was saying bud?

[lovegirll]

society sees you as disrespecting yourself and girls are precious innocent girls that shouldn't let guys use them but then they encourage guys to "use girls" its a fucking joke and i detach myself from it. i respect both genders and we should self care and respect ourselves