Why do some guys tell me straight up they want to have sex with me?

some men tell me that straight up and i am so frustrated because of it. they straight up say that they want to f*** me? how do they even have the courage to just say that...
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Because Dad dating you for sex. At least if they told you straight you can avoid them. Because if we end up in a relationship and you end up having premarital sex, they were there for the sex anyway. Why should they pretend to want a relationship with you when that's not really what they want? Most guys are in a relationship because they want sex. If it's not offered then they go to find somebody else who will. That's how a lot of girls and some women end up becoming a pump and dump. One of the top main reasons why you don't have premarital sex before marriage. But then if you do, then you judge the other person for Desiring the same thing with you. That becomes hypocrisy and it makes a lot of guys not want to be around. So think carefully. Not everybody who just asked for a date is a gentleman, either. Yes it sounds rude, but what's even more rude?

    • They're dating you for sex*

  • If they are your partner, or someone your chatting to on a dating app, I’d appreciate the honesty.

    If it’s just some idiot up in your face that’s harassment, and I have a few choice words for them!

Most Helpful Guys

  • You must be hot SExy seductive and look good. If so cool

    Now u have to understsnd with in each one of us there is energy do u hsve two magnets get 2 if them play with them on one side the want to come together. On the other side they want to come together but then 1 inch away from each other there is energy thst stops them from doing do we are made from energy let's pretend I'm standing 5 feet from u I don't know you but i feelyour energy we are going to start to feel each other if our energy flows or touches it becomes do vety beautiful there a lot more to this but I'm running late I would like to explain in detail to you sometime but that's what happens most people don't even know why they feel the things they do when around other people. But it's energy your energy you put out and it must be very very hot. And some guys are just rude

  • They are almost sure you'll be disgusted and say no. But there is a super slim chance you might say "what the hell lets do it".

    Something to remember is that guys face rejection a lot more than girls do so a lot of guys get tired of pick up lines and first dates and instead just decide to be really up front about what they want and just say

    "Hey, i wanna have sex with you"

    Not all guys do this but some do.

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  • What are the circumstances where this happens? Some guys are just crass. How many times has this happened over what time period?

  • Either you look so appealing that they can't resist (well look or act in a certain way)


    Or they are Just FUCKING HORNY

  • NOT the approach that I would take. No I don't get it with that.

  • Some guys are really thirsty...

  • Because they are assholes. And you should show them that they can't speak like that to you.

  • You must be super fuckin’ hot

  • That does sound annoying and not my style, but at least the guy is telling you what he wants up front. If the guy does not care that he creeps out many women by doing this, it can be an efficient strategy though. If he does that to enough women, sooner or later he will find one interested for whatever reason. A "numbers game." If that is what he is up to, the good news is he should be moving right on down the line once he hears "no."

  • I just like when someone who is Actually fucking me tells me like lets go fuck

  • By looking attractive and willing, I'd guess.

  • We don't want to lose time flirtyng and dating whit no result.
    So bether go direct to the point "can i fuck you/ have sex".
    I sport thous guy. If you get no, then ok go and finde somebody who will.
    Is you get yes, then is your lucky day.

  • Because they can. Everyone else just bullshits about it.

    If they wanted all that lovey dovey loyalty companionship shit, there are dogs for that. 😆

  • Sounds like you go to the places that the wrong type of men hang out.

  • cause they do it all the time, if you say yes then thats good for them, if you say no, oh well worth a try type of shit

  • at least they are being honest

  • Because they go straight to the point and they are lazy but at least they are honest so you know what their intentions are

  • Stop whining. You'd be a lot more bothered if they didn't hit on you.

    • She should straight up be flattered by it lol

  • Honesty is best

  • why shouldn't they?

  • When playing a numbers game it's best to throw the idea out there and see what happens

  • how else do you expect a man to initiate the mating process?

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