Does my husband love another woman?

[Anonymous]

Got sent these dm receipts of my husband sexting a woman and he calls her baby girl? What does it mean and what should I do?

[PonyCarGirl98]

This hurts...
I hurt for you. I'm sorry he did that. You two should attend counselling if you want to try to make it work, or split... what he did is really wrong in a monogamous relationship..

I wouldn't say he "loves" another woman necessarily. But he is definitely giving one attention that he should be giving to only you. And for the record, who is this woman? That screenshot was taken from her perspective...

[Asker]

He says he loves her

[PonyCarGirl98]

Have you talked to him about it? I really hope so... how did it go?

[Asker]

He doesn’t care. We are divorcing

[Asker]

He never actually fell out of love with her. He even admitted to her he has no attraction to me and he was forced to marry me because of drunk sex I got pregnant and he told her it was the biggest mistake of his life. That’s all I need to move on with my life and get this divorce over with

[Flower7]

He doesn't necessarily love her, but they are having an inappropriate relationship while he is married to you.

As far as what you should do, start by talking to him about it and letting him know that you found out what he has been doing and that it's not acceptable.

[Asker]

He’s said I love you to her

[Flower7]

That's complicated then. If this was just a boyfriend, I'd say to break up, but with a husband you're more deeply tied to him. You'll have to weigh the pros and cons of staying with him.

[jessicasissy]

My first reaction is divorce his ass because cheaters almost never change. But I know for women matters of the heart are rarely ever that straight forward and you are in a marriage. If you still love your husband and want to work it out I'm not going to knock you for it, but you really need to get into marriage counseling and really let him know how this makes you feel.

[AustinMan]

First, just stay calm. Who sent you the sexts? Is your marriage satisfactory?

[laraWM]

She sends these to you? It seems really mean

[abc3643]

How is it that you get "DM receipts" of your husband's DMs?

[Asker]

The girl exposed him

[abc3643]

Interesting. OK, so, just to be clear, the girl he was sexting with took screen snapshots and sent them to you. Definitely confront him about it.

[G3tAClue]

Tell him you know about him cheating on you.

[ItsTheNephilim]

Not sure if he loves her but lusts after her for sure.

[chriscdi]

it means he thought with his dick and cheated on you

[magiusX26]

seek a divorce lawyer unless you are into sharing him

[AmeerX]

He just talked to her in a sexual way. How did you find out about this though?

[Asker]

She exposed him

[Asker]

He has said he loves her before also told her he’s not attracted to me and has to drink to sleep with me

[AmeerX]

Will you divorce him or share his love with her?

[KrakenAttackin]

It means you need to learn how to keep your husband's attention.

[nawtee_me]

How were they sent to you? If they were texting back and forth the only way you could get them is if they had tagged you on the text. And, if that is so then they wanted you to see them...

[letmebehidden]

it clearly says he's cheating on you

[jaybigj]

That is a good question, guys are hard to understand. And I'm s guy.

[Nekto]

Actually guys are easy to understand and are ver predictable

[jaybigj]

Not the ones I know

[kd_rocks625]

Definitely cheated on you. Doesn't love her..

[Asker]

But he’s said he loves her before

[Asker]

Also told her I’m ugly

[Asker]

Told her he would choose her over me in a heartbeat

[kd_rocks625]

Yeah to sleep with her.. It seems.

[Anonymous]

it means that he gas a side pussy. It don’t mean anything.

[Anonymous]

Seems like a sexting pen pal for now but might become physical if it continues

[Asker]

So this is ok? You are making it like it’s normal for a married man to do some shit like this

[Opinion Owner]

No it’s not normal, it’s a warning sing that something is wrong in the marriage and he is one step away from physically cheating on you

[Anonymous]

Maybe not live her but he definitely don’t love u if he’s doing that