How would you respond if a man told you that he was just raped by a woman?

Question

If a man came to you, crying for help, saying that he had been raped by a woman, what would you do or say? It’s a very controversial topic.  Be honest please.

NamerOfStars · Accepted Answer

I don't know what's controversial about it; sexual abuse is sexual abuse. The law's against it, of course; where I live, the maximum punishment for generic sexual assault (which is what it would be) is less than the minimum punishment for rape, but as far as I'm concerned, forcing someone into sex is rape. Period.

And given the lack of social support that he'd be given by society as a whole, he'd need everything I could give him.

Reaperbot666 · Accepted Answer

men get raped, abused or assaulted. physically or sexually by man and women. almost as much as women do by men.

however people typically think men lie about it or the man gets made fun of. if he tries to report it.

TheFartSaver · Answer

Definitely call the police so he can report it and hopefully get his rapist behind bars. It'll depend on the justice system from there.

DizzyDesii · Answer

I’d take it seriously and find him the nearest cop. I rather not know his story. I just wanna get him the help he needs. Women rapists are no joke and no surprise. Those hoes just sadly get away with it more easily

Flower7 · Answer

I would help him with contacting the police if that's what he wanted to do. I wouldn't take it as a joke. I would believe him and see that he was upset by what had happened.

KeziL · Answer

If he wanted me to call the police I would, but that's up to him. I'd console him and do whatever I could to make him feel supported and SAFE.

modelUN242 · Answer

I personally find the women raping men a bit funny because if you think about it, a man raping a woman would evoke a lot more anger and emotion compared to if a woman raped a man. Like how would a woman rape a man? The man is obviously stronger. If they were under the influence of alcohol, that's your fault, you should have been responsible. I would think that the man just wanted attention to be honest. The reason why society puts more effort in the sentences for male rapists is because they have a biological advantage over women, and the woman has the chance to become pregnant. So the man "who got raped" should just get an STD test and if he contracted something, he can sue her or something. Otherwise, forget about it. I think we're breeding pussies if we believe in equality for men and women. The only exception in woman raping a man is a woman raping a boy, that's disgusting because the woman can obviously overpower the boy and the boy is too young to realize the situation. I think female teachers who do that to their male students are mentally deranged and should be locked up for a long time.

Kaneki05 · Answer

Well been so myself i would know how it feels i suppose. And try to help. Dunno about calling cops tho, there is the whole girl lies and said you did it to her.

NaughtybyNature546 · Answer

1st question did you get an erection, if yes, no rape

Agape93 · Answer

I’m getting the police involved and if I can, get him to the hospital.

Katie_Mae · Answer

It sucks that this even has to be a question. Why does everything have to have a double standard, if a woman came up to you saying that she was raped by a man you would immediately call the police why would it be any different if it was a man telling you he was raped by a woman?

Alexandrubaschet08 · Answer

I will say he is a pussy.  How can a woman rape a guy?

AdithyaR · Answer

Obviously call the police. It's sad that some people still think men can't be raped or that a man getting raped is funny. I'd help him report to the police and try and help any other way I can.

FýrdracaDócincel · Answer

"Do you always start conversations this way?"

AmeerX · Answer

It is not his fault but how Did a woman get hold of him

Jessie91331 · Answer

Help him, listen, show him some of the different resources and if he wanted to go to the cops, I would go with him. People laff about it, but it seriously hurts and messes with their head... My heart would go out to them.

Quidthonian · Answer

I would console and support him. If he wants to report it or not, that is his decision.

EyesOfGod · Answer

There are shelters for abused women but there are none for men who are abused. We are expected to suck it up. Besides people will be like bro you didn't get raped you got free sex. Its nasty that men who are raoed basically have to stay quiet ot they will be publicly humiliated.