Have you ever been secretly watched and didn't know it until afterward? ... or have you been the "Peeping Tom"?

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I have never had it done by a stranger "That I Know Of" ... lol, but my sisters and I have made an art of spying on each other over the years, so if we are ever doing anything we want to be totally private, we are always looking around and making sure doors are locked and towels are placed at the bottom of doors, and no see through skeleton key holes are open... lol, etc!

Ours was in fun but I don't want to make light of the more sinister "Peeping Tom" strangers that may be up to no good and are a treat to people. They should definitely be put in jail if they have evil intent.

For the purpose of this post I am focusing on the more innocent type of spying, but if you have had more sinister events happen to you, feel free to share them with us. Sometimes it helps to share bad experiences as a way of getting them out of your system, so tell us how you feel about what has happened in your life in any regard.

Also, tell us what you were doing when you were being watched, ie - taking a shower, going to the bathroom, changing clothes, masturbating, walking around the house in your birthday suit, having sex with someone or maybe nothing more than cooking in the kitchen, etc

I hate to say it, but kids are famous for spying, aren't they? ... lol

Share with us... PLEASE!

Have you ever been secretly watched and didnt know it until afterward? ... or have you been the Peeping Tom?

Tunasub · Accepted Answer

I have been watched before 2 times. Didn't know it at all. It was near the end of my last relationship. When my ex for some reason had her daughtbtaking pictures of us outside of our window.. never did get the answers to why. And the other was when I didn't know my wife at the time had something delivered to the neighbors house and gave her a key so she could put it in the house not knowing that I would be home. I'm sure she wasn't watching it just so happen that I was walking out of bathroom and she was walking back across the living room. Scared me and scared her... but after a lot of I'm sorry I'm sorry all was well.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

One time I was skinny dipping with a friend in the pool at their house because when we decided to do it no one was home. However I got out of the water to see that the mom and sisters had come home early and they saw everything 😩

Another time when I was younger I was caught playing with myself at the computer because at the time we had one computer and it was in the room above the garage. That was horrifying.

At our lake house my girl cousins definitely spied once our twice I heard giggling and caught them while I was trying to change out of a wet bathing suit. 🥺

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Got caught having sex by many classmates who i didn't know were around at the time. My ex best friend guy also told me he spied through my window before while i was dancing around in bra/panties. I wouldn't be surprised

Debbie29 · Accepted Answer

I've peeked on others before lol... i couldnt resist

jennifer_bloom · Answer

when I was 7 I did the TErry Fox run at a trail very close to my elementary school and somebody told me a guy was hiding in the bushes and secretly photographing the kids who were running. I don't recall anybody there though.

1Sophisticatedme · Answer

Nope never.

Flower7 · Answer

Yes, I have been a victim of that before. It was the sinister kind. I was watched while changing clothes, being naked, showering, and using the bathroom.

erandal · Answer

I have seen my sisters playing and I know that one of them has also seen me.

TheBootyChest · Answer

I have been the tom. A couple was in an office building have sex. And I saw them.

jsincal · Answer

The closest thing I got is we were Checking out this chick and she was sitting across from us at work. We can see her and she can see us. She purposely opened her legs and smiled. No underwear.

Other than that, I’m raised to be somewhat a gentleman. If a women is accidentally showing her breast or her underwear is Accidentally showing, then I let them know.

Feels like a cheap shot when you catch someone vulnerable, I don’t get off on that.

Jjpayne · Answer

I can't say I've never done this. My intent is mainly daydreaming that they might be my girlfriend one day... Then reality comes up to slap me on the face when they give me the WTF are you looking at perv face. Then turn to daydream some where else 😞 but I do like to people watch in general. It's a fun game to assume what people are taking about in cars 😊

Paige90 · Answer

In college I watched my first college roommate fucking her boyfriend. I think they knew I was watching and didn't care.

Romolo · Answer

a friend followed me and secretly watched me get naked and masturbate

Finchie40 · Answer

I had a girl stalk me before and it was creepy , she would always end up in the same place I was at , and I busted her looking through my bedroom window , the second I spotted her she ran she would find me on social media and message me out of the blue , I just ignored her hoping
It would stop , it would for awhile then start up again , so I had her blocked

YourVirtualBae · Answer

Both couple of times... I saw a middle aged woman change her top (but with bra on) in the glass building next to me.
Also when I was small I saw my grandmother and her sister's wrinkly tits when thier tops were off in thier room in the summer

I was caught by my sister watching porn and fully naked masturbating on the toilet seat, when I forgot to lock the bathroom door... we both kinda mutually agreed to never mention it again!

smart_sexy_redhead · Answer

I lived with three male roomates after college...

Samoht_Sirrom1 · Answer

... I'm an exhibitionist... So honestly I'd get off on it. Think the song "I get off"

dublin_sexyeyes0 · Answer

Im not sure if youd call this being a peeping tom. I have a naighbour who at night opens her bedroom blinds fully and turns on her lights. As its dark out and bright in hers everything is in view for every house facing her to see. Cos she proceeds to change her clothes... fully. She has to know we can all see.

ultimega · Answer

I can't say I have...

Makeushiver · Answer

I enjoy both the role of voyeur & exhibitionist. I do try to make sure that anyone watching is above age of consent but during teenage years wasn't as circumspect. I think there is a bit of both in all of us.

BluRayne · Answer

Yes and I loved knowing that I was watched. I also love watching.

genericname85 · Answer

not sexaully i guess. but i caught a girl checking me out real good in a gym mirror before xD she even noticed that i caught her cause we locked eyes in the mirror after she did it :D put a big smile on my face.

DogEatsCat1973 · Answer

When I was a teen I was masturbating and suddenly heard giggling. I looked up at the window and saw some girls watching and laughing at how pathetic I was for masturbating and couldn't get any pussy. I was angry at them for spying and tormenting me too. I also once found my bedroom door locked and looked through the crack to see my girlfriend sucking another guys dick.