Is it possible to just turn gay out of nowhere?

[Anonymous]

First off if anything I think im bisexual and Im not trolling I swear to god. For instance I've been emotionally, romantically, and sexually attracted this this one girl for months but over the past year I've been having homosexual fantasies usually there is a girl involved too but I did something over text with a guy just a guy and I enjoyed it. I dont think I could ever date a guy or marry one though. I honestly think im addicted to porn and its starting to mess with my head a little bit because when I first started watching it I was only like vanilla stuff and now its more hardcore stuff. I've developed an attraction to dick and thats like the only part of a guy that I like its odd. Anways though I felt like crap over it ever since the texting thing and now I've got myself worrying that I won't feel attracted to women anymore and that really bugs me because to be honest all I ever wanted was to marry a girl I love and have some kids and I feel like I ruined it. I also overthink a lot and have been diagnosed with a anxiety disorder so hopefully im just overthinking about not being attracted anymore.

[NamerOfStars]

I suspect you are overthinking it. There's nothing wrong with being bisexual, if that's what you are; I'm told that bisexuals usually have one sex they prefer, and are just also attracted to the other. I don't know if that's true, but it's what I've heard.

If you think that porn is causing you problems, then step back from it. You can always go back to it later if you like, porn isn't going anywhere.

[Asker]

Yea I've tried to quit and i literally can't. Which is why I think im addicted and have a problem but im really going to try now to see if it is the problem.

[NamerOfStars]

Good. Be strong.

[Nate85]

I agree except that's not how bisexuality is. No one is the same.. bi's do not usually have one. It completely depends on the person. Attracted to only bis.. I wouldn't say only.. I know I like bi's. But to say it's pretty much one way is a little off. Porn addiction can be a true and problematic thing. Don't be turned off because u enjoy it and feel ashamed. Nothin to be ashamed of. Question is.. does it affect ur personal life. Ur daily routine (time) and if it went away would you feel a withdrawal?

[slatyb]

You haven't ruined anything. You are who you are, and mostly this is determined at an early age. Don't think about it, just accept that you are attracted to whoever you are attracted to.

[JustinTheGreat]

I don’t think you’re gay, your attraction for women isn’t going to just disappear.
you sound like you could call yourself bisexual, if you want to be more specific then you sound like a “heteroromantic bisexual” which means you’re sexually attracted to both genders but only romantically attracted to the same sex.

for me, I’m sexually attracted to both genders but im only romantically attracted to men. Sexuality is fluid, you don’t have to necessarily label yourself

[Garth2710]

maybe if no girl wants you, qlternative

[Nate85]

First off all... Feel no shame! People are allowed to feel different and everyone is different. Even tho they won't let it be known. You'd be surprised what people think... Like and act on.

You can completely feel how u want. It's absolutely normal to be confused, also normal to maybe fluctuate with ur attractions. Bi Guys and bi girls absolutely change their minds.. moods and attractions.

Porn you have to ask yourself.. is it messing with your life. Your time, people's attention etc.. completely normal to like/love porn 😁

[Anonymous]

No you were a sissy like your father

[Asker]

Yea ok whore