Would you be offended if your partner said that you could have sex with others if you wanted?

[Anonymous]

[Flower7]

Not offended, but I would think it was extremely strange. And I probably wouldn't even want to do it, because I'm not usually able to have feelings for more than one person at a time. And I don't like casual sex, so that offer would be pretty useless to me.

[Anonymous]

It must be a matter of serious thinking though shocking at the same time. Many questions will come in mind: why does he want me to have sex with another guy? Is he entering into sex business? Doesn't he love me and my body more, means that he is no more sincere to me? Will he later have sex with other girls in my presence? To cut it short, I will definitely be offended and refuse to accept his proposal.

[Asker]

Not necessarily that he wants you to but just giving you the option if you wanted to

[Opinion Owner]

I have already replied that why should he see me having sex with another guy?

[Asker]

He doesn't see you he just lets you if you want to

[Opinion Owner]

Seeing ot letting me have sex with other guys makes no difference.

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHG.

[Anonymous]

Yes, when my partner suggested a break so that I went and fucked whoever I wanted, and supposedly appreciated her more afterwards, I was offended, and thought she was the one who wanted to fuck someone else, since I had never mentioned or had such a desire

[AdithyaR]

I wouldn't be offended but I wouldn't exactly like it either. I'm not a very sex oriented person, so if I'm having sex with someone it's cause I have a deep level of intimacy with the person and I don't want anyone else.

[Marilynjuana]

Yes. The people who get to have sex with me are total VIPs, if he doesn't realise it, todaloo and I'm out.

[DizzyDesii]

Yes i’d think he's a desperate disgusting cuck and would just leave him. I dont want someone who could care less

[ConfusedGinger21]

No I wouldn't. In fact I wasn't I was happy makes the realtionship so much better.

[Asker]

I was thinking of giving my girlfriend that option

[ConfusedGinger21]

If you could dm me or add me and I'll give you some tips to try out the waters

[cntrytbm]

Nope

[RydiaMagnifique]

I would. I would never sleep with anybody other than him and if he says that, maybe he's hiding something.

[Ellie-V]

No, I don’t see why anyone would get offended by that. People have a weird need to be possessed, I recommend therapy.

[Asker]

So you think it's a good thing for a guy to give his girl that option

[Ellie-V]

It’s neither good nor bad. It just tells me that they aren’t possessive. Concern would only be necessary if they were trying to imply that they want to be with other people themselves.

[Asker]

What if they said they would never do anything with anybody else but that you could if you wanted to

[Ellie-V]

I have no reason to care or get offended over that

[DrippingHoney]

I wouldn't be offended, but I wouldn't want to be with him any more.

[Asker]

Why not?

[NaughtybyNature546]

I'd say thank god that excuse of a dick you got has me ticlking too much

[Asker]

What dose that mean

[ND4SPD31]

But if u found one bigger, wouldn’t u wanna keep it?

[Agape93]

No I’m already aware of that

[Asker]

So you already have that option

[Agape93]

Yeah as do all my partners

[QooLipBite]

Wait... why? How does that work?

[Agape93]

Consensual non monogamy.

[QooLipBite]

And so both partners never feel an ounce of jealousy or possessiveness? Do you even question who and how many your partner has been with though?

[Agape93]

Not so far, at least not in any I’ve been in. Nope i frankly don’t care. Long as they’re disease free, it’s not my concern.

[QooLipBite]

So you don’t question each other at all about it?

[Agape93]

Sometimes in discussion we will talk about it if it’s appropriate to a larger conversation. But nope. It’s not their business and it’s not my business.

[QooLipBite]

How deep would you say is your love between each other? Do you guys feel as if you are soulmates?

[Agape93]

Depends on the partner. If I let you into my bed, with like 2 exceptions, I already love you to some degree or another. But no I don’t believe in the idea of a soulmate or a one true love.

[QooLipBite]

No, I meant the one that you have the non monogamous relationship with

[Agape93]

I know what you meant

[Bandit74]

I would probably think that she is only offering it because she wants to sleep with other people.

[Ripper_E]

I don't know if I would feel offended, but I would be lost for words. Like what am I supposed to say to that.

[AmtgardJean]

Mine has. It is a bit different with us as she is very sick and wants nothing at all to do with intimacy.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

No, but i will feel like she want to distance me.
I will take that idea like she is open for some fun, if she want me to have sex whit another girl then she can organizate a threesome, because i will not cheat on her.

[NewZion]

Nope.

[genericname85]

i'd wonder why they would say that, cause if i have a "partner", i'll make it abundantly clear that this can only work if we're exclusive. if she doesn't want to be exclusive, i don't want her.

[guywithissues900]

NO WAY. I would be absolutely delighted. Best girlfriend ever!!

[Asker]

Would you give her the same option

[guywithissues900]

Well, that's another story!! It's different, because in her case she wouldn't have sex due to pure sexual desire, she'd have sex with someone else because she is unhappy in the relationship

[Iron_Man]

That would be a disaster it would be like what are you trying to tell me

[oncpl]

Before agreeing or otherwise, I would seriously think why does she offer such a disastrous opportunity. Is she planning to get rid of me or desires same offer and facility for herself?

[crmoore]

I'd be appreciative, but in virtually all cases, I wouldn't want to. Unless she got off from it, then we can talk about it, but even then, I'm not sure it's something I'd be particularly into.

[COMMODOREII]

Yeah i would be. Because if she is going to feel like that i would find someone else and leave her.