I think we are equally as horny without consideration to medical , physical, mental, etc. Conditions
But I think what we lack in the sexual pole is the inability to focus on the sexual / arousal feelings and thoughts as opposed to the 'intimate' requirement we set for our partners.
Such as cleanliness, emotional support, physical affection, personal persona , performance , stress, arguments, etc, all have a part. Being single or committed also plays a part.
Though not all women need intimacy and do rather enduldge in sexual actions with intent of just pleasure like most men do as well. a lot 'more' women need reason , to perform sexually and use that reasoning just as often to not perform.
Also We dont arouse in the same way, or at least notice the repercussions of our arousal as formally as men do. With constant moisture, it is harder to differentiate our arousal until visually it is seen or physically felt. ( example. Giving a blow job , that may be unpleasant and somthing we wish to be over with as quick as possible; our body's react at such , and though you were not enjoying it or aroused our bodys acted as though it was anyways)
Men can FEEL the effects more so then women ( right pants are hard to ignore) and act more on them then most women I have personally encountered (I swing both ways and no matter who , or when, the man always pushed first more often ; again personal speculation , no intention of scrutinizing to others)
My councilor told me ,"In a relationship.. especially a long term one. Past the 'cup cake ' stage , the disagreement stage begins women tend to use sexual disputes/desires as control because men are so susceptible to them... or so women think. Women mistake a man's disre for sex to be physically but any man can distract himself indefinitely with other actions, and like anyone being denied what they need or want , they act out. And those actions redefine themselves in unhealthy behaviors that eventually break apart relationships. When resentment builds, so does the wall to sexual conquest. To every man there is a goal , and to ever women there is success. "
So it layman terms , denying a man sexual intimacy does as much harm to you as to him. He will find other distractions (games , cars , bars, weed, drinking, porn, ominous amount of time on one subject, etc) while you, the women just sit there with resentment, feeling like he's never there. And also find els to do.
For a long time women have suppressed thier sex drive because society makes you feel as a woman your not allowed to have a high one and your singled out for it. A guy has a high sex drive no one bats an eye lid if it's a woman all hell breaks loose she is even in danger of rape from men thinking she is 'easy' and or 'always wants it' It comes with a price basically.
Perhaps some women have an imbalance of hormones they have more testosterone and some men have less that's why some men more emotional. And some women more masculine. 🤷♀️
We are very much looking at this from a black and white perspective because science says. I am not saying science is wrong for the majority I am sure it stands absolutely however it's not every woman. In fact I am curious as to the women and men they are working with and the demographic because this is not reflecting reality. We already know lie detectors can be cheated so perhaps none of us are being honest even if our identity is some what concealed. Even women with kids fuck that isn't stopping them they will find a way to get dick but play the innocent later. All they care about/think about is getting laid. If it's the husband he can do what he wants anyway men are free to do this. If your a woman it comes with repercussions there is a price to pay so they are forced to use convention to hide it. Hell it's working. Whole game plan set up and no one is none the wiser. People are so easily fooled because it's what they've 'been told'. I don't know something somewhere isn't right things are just being swept under the carpet all in the vanity of being right. We are so fixated on being right we are being blinded to what is actually happening...
Its' a good question, but was unable to answer the poll as the answer is not that one is more "horny" than the other. Rather, that the male and female sex drives are structured differently. This having its' origins in human evolution.
For the male, his instinct is to pass his sperm to as many females as possible. To sire as many babies as he can. This is how the species has lasted for several thousand years.
For women, on the other hand, she is looking to become impregnated and carry and give birth to - and after that care for - a baby. Typically, she can only carry one child at a time and by evolutionary instinct she naturally wants the baby to be as healthy as possible. So she is looking for a a healthy male with healthy sperm - this by instinct suggested by penis size, which is why that is such a big deal to guys - to make a strong baby and who then will find food and shelter for mom and baby as well as ward off rival males and predators.
This is the starting point, in evolutionary terms. Of course, men and women have evolved well past their primate origins and now all sorts of cultural and psychological factors come into play. However, overall, this tends to manifest itself in men being regarded as "hornier." These again being tendencies and not absolutes - and for each stereotype you will likely find a thousand particulars and individual exceptions.
It does not mean that the woman wants less sex. However, by instinct, they will tend to be more selective and this manifests itself in greater reserve in practice. It also being the case that 9 months of pregnancy entails risks and that will also make a woman more cautious.
It is true that men are more likely to have multiple sex partners, statistically speaking. However, that is less about sex drive and more about sexual instinct, albeit that in practice they tend to amount to the same thing.
Your definitely less horny, but it doesn’t mean you don’t want sex a lot too. Guys will stick their dick in a wall and not care what warm wet hole is on the other side and be satisfied. Girls don’t do shit like that lol
I think it’s a more complicated answer though. There’s very little consequences for guys if they don’t want them besides STDs, you can't run from those. There’s guys who get girls pregnant and move away and think problem solved. Y’all can get pregnant, Unfairly you have reputations to worry about and that can hinder everything from what people think to even being able to date a respectable guy sometimes, and of course pregnancy, infections, etc. so you have to be more cautious in your actions.
But I've had two transgender friends who transitioned and once they were on hormone therapy they couldnt believe how horny they were all the time and they were telling me and some of our friends it was unbelievable how horny they were all the time and for no reason... its like yeah lol we know
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Honestly I think we're just better at hiding it. My ex had a lower libido than me, but he rarely put out despite frequently talking about sex.
My current partner is much more in line with me libido wise as well as performance wise. We're both pretty horny people, but he's grown up enough to know how to hide it while in polite company.
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It depends on the person and their horomones actually. Guys are usually more free because that's what society expects from them... Especially in High school where nearly all of them act gay but are just broing out. Girls have to hide it a bit more or be considered a hoe or slut. But we stay together to use the bathroom, and give plenty of hugs to be equivalent. But that's what I think.
Oh yh straight guys act gay all the time
Lol see I'm backed up
You are right. Girls can’t be as open about it. Also girls have to be careful with bad guys targeting them, so they are in groups to be safe
If by "horny" you mean visually stimulated then I'd say less. If you are asking if women have more/less of a desire to connect with another than men do, I'd have to say it's the same amount, just in a different way and with different people, usually not entirely sexual.
Women are more hornier than men.
But, If men received as many offers and hints for sex, as women say they get from men, men could hide it just as well as women do.
Just because the offers are very few and far between, men have to grab every opportunity they can for sex.
It’s either women hide it so well that I think I have a high sex drive or they don’t hide it and I actually do have a high sex drive. But I want sex with a specific person 24/7 literally all day everyday... but the only difference is men will have sex with any female 1-10 if they are being seduced by them. Where as for me, it’s either my standard of a man I would be attracted to (which is rare) or nothing at all.
*It’s either the man i have a crush on or nothing at all**
With that body and looks you have such a man doesn’t exist. It's impossible to impress girls like you.
You will be sexless forever.
It depends on the person. Some girls have higher sex drives.
I have a higher sex drive than my partner
Just about every woman I have known is WAAAAAYYYYY more sexually engaged, either with their own, private masturbation or just their ideas, and loving role-playing fantasy sex play!
It often takes some talking, some dates, and her deciding she can trust, before she shares her sexuality, and fantasy play ideas!!
I grew up, being told that women DON'T LIKE sex, and just do it, when she loves a certain guy!!
BULLSHIT!! I found out that women are incredibly sexual, sensual, and have AMAZING fantasy play, ideas!!
But, society says those are, well, not well accepted!! So many hide their desires, and feelings and sensuality!!
THAT SUCKS!!!
It takes a little more for a woman to be turned on then just seeing a guy without a shirt on. Some women are visually stimulated easily and some have to be mentally/emotionally stimulated by a guy to be aroused by him. Really just depends on the woman.
We're probably the same "horniness" as men, its just that men are more forthright with it
You don't know how horny men are. Think about how much you get horny when you are ovulating and can't even focus. Men are like this all the time.
@Mamamialetmego no, everyone is different. men and women can both have high sex drives, but that’s a disorder called hypersexuality. it isn’t normal to feel extremely horny all the time.
Less I don't know, hard to tell sense any girl can get it anytime they want so you never see them wanting it to bad.
WAY way W_A_Y way LESS horny. ... No comparison, not even close!
Simply put, it's the TESTOSTERONE responsible for that. Just the way nature is.
I am a very horny person but I don’t give my sex to any and anyone but when I do have sex with someone it has to mean something to me. I’m good at withholding casual sex I masturbate as much as I need to. So in essence myself and a lot of other girls have high sex drives but we are pretty good at keeping it under wraps. I think it’s this way for us because women aren’t visual creatures as men are.
hmm how often would you say you masturbate?
Women are visual. They don’t fuck ugly short guys as well.
@doncachondo whenever I feel like it. @mamamialetmego you haven’t met my friends. If short and ugly has money they’re on it
In my consensus, they are much more hornier than men when it comes especially to orgasmic sex.
Women who have not engaged in orgasmic sex, or if she’s only having sex to get you off, the consensus changed drastically. Sex with no orgasm all the time is bad sex. It feels good but it can be cumbersome when she is constantly feeling good but nothing to give her that release. This takes energy. She can easily masturbate at home.
A solid relationship has a sold sexual connection as well. I’m NOT saying sex = love. BUT good sex keeps the romance alive and the relationship going.
Every woman is different when it comes to orgasms. Master your skills and learn to tune your self like a guitar to her needs. Orally, and vaginally as well.
Unfortunately, most men or young men don’t try. It’s no wonder why women tend to like older men.
I don't think girls are nearly as horny. Girls use every excuse under the sun to avoid sex. Girls are also way more selective about men than men are about girls.
I suck at hiding it.
Same same Just depends on the individual don't think be one of the other makes it any different. We are all made to be horny that's how we reproduce and what are bodies are meant to do. Would be kinda dumb for biology just go ah we will evolution creatures that are meant to produce with each other, the other they need to do it with less horny so they don't want it as much as the other so there becomes a fraction in breeding. Then it just changes on how we mentally drive are selfs.
I have a big sex drive, but sometimes I suppress it.
Everyone has a sex drive, although some of them seem to be in park...
That being said, most men have life-long perversion - an extreme sex drive that at times feels uncontrollable and chaotic, but we have it and we deal with it.
I've met some women who have a similar drive, but not nearly as many. Also consider that many women lose their sex drive after marriage and children. I believe this is on some level a biological fact, but some of those women do rediscover their sex drive in their 40's up. Because of this, when speaking about women in a more general sense, the average of their sex drives falls under that of men, regardless of how horny they were in youth.
Men carry that same drive throughout their lives. Even when we get E. D., our brains still want sexual stimulation even though our bodies won't physically respond anymore, hence why doctors invented viagara..
They are definitely less horny.. You really don't have to do much to get a guy goin.. Whereas even a woman with a high sex drive would need certain things to turn her on.. Take marriages for instance.. Its usually the woman who wants sex less once there is an established relationship..
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