Should l tell this to my girlfriend?

[Anonymous]

Should l tell her that l ejeculate very quickly like in 2 minutes? Will it disappointed her?

[Smoke-n-Growls]

If you're worried about it, you can always start her off with something else.

Toys are there for both of you to use.

I can go multiple times, but my partner needs some time between rounds. Or sometimes he's entirely spent after one, but I want more.

We'll either start with toys to tire me out before he cums, or he'll cum first and finish me with toys. Both work great for both of us - he gets to drive me crazy well past what his normal limits would allow, I get all the sex I need.

Plus using toys to extend and intesify foreplay can be really great for your partner, and heighten her experience as well. She won't notice or care if you cum in 2 mins if you've already got her on edge in time for you to finish near together.

But also, don't feel pressured to finish together. That's not how real sex works all the time, or without practice. It takes getting to know yourself and your partner together to time it right, and even then it isn't always predictable.

Have fun sex, not "perfect" sex.

[Smoke-n-Growls]

Also, safe sex. Have fun, safe sex.

[drearyknight187]

Depends, if you can keep going after you finish than she probably won't be very disappointed. Otherwise, you might need to finish her off in some other way.

[poneglyphs]

You can after you already had sex with her? Then, you can practice more with her and so she knows that you need help with control.

[Asker]

Before having sex should l tell it to her that l ejeculate like in 2 minutes? because she want to last longer and if she knows and see that l ejeculate early she might be disappointed. So should l tell her this earlier before sex or it will disappointed her if l tell her?

[Anonymous]

How long does it take the second time in the same season?

[Asker]

longer. But if tell her this before sex, will she be disappointed?

[Opinion Owner]

You could start with doing oral sex and it would not bother her too much that you came quickly.

[Opinion Owner]

Yes, it might bother her to know that you have a short fuse.

[Asker]

She said that sex is important for her and she want to last longer. I told her that l will use spray for delay. What do you think?

[Opinion Owner]

I have no experience with desensitizing sprays. Will you be using condoms?

[Asker]

Yes with comdoms. We are in a long distance relationship and we will meet soon. When l told her that l ejeculate after 2 minute she said learn to do it naturally and said she wanted our first time to be special and pleasant. And not entered and left after 2 minute. And l told her that l would use delay spray. I was afraid that she got disappointed because she didn't smile after that she wish me good night without smile or heart emoji. What do you think?

[Opinion Owner]

Tell her that if your performance is less than perfect, you will compensate by trying to make her feel perfect. Let her know that you understand how it might disappoint her but you want to be as attentive as possible to her.