Well its definitely not over rated because sex wouldn't be a big deal or taboo if it was like shaking hands with someone else. But its not all its cracked up to be when your a virgin and you think a girls vagina is “make you a man” or change your life forever, pussy is definitely falsely put up on a high pedestal but it definitely feels great, orgasms are awesome, a big part of the thought of sex as a virgin is experiencing a girl get down and dirty for real with you when all you’ve ever known is them pretending to be prim and proper and anytime a sexual joke is made they say eww your gross or some shit like that, when in reality they love sex too and talk about with their girlfriends as well. They are nervous about it, but it definitely means more to them especially in the beginning with the first few.
Now once your in love with someone, and infatuated with them, they are your best friend in the world, and y'all have sex its way better, because it means a lot more in so many ways. But until you experience that its always amazing, if you’ve had that and then fucked someone after your kinda like ehh, its fun, it was awesome seeing a new girl naked and finding out how she likes to fuck or how dirty she is, but it won't have the emotional satisfaction as well.
Now virgins and marriage... to each their own, but all of them will suck at sex for a long time. And people that have only had one person don’t understand what you learn from other people and what really great sex actually is. And that’s super fun!!
As a dude its also a big difference between pulling out and leaving it in when you cum. It’s like night and day for the guy if he cums in you, hell follow you around like a puppy dog even more so lol. But as we all know, that 10 seconds of ecstasy is potentially a human beings worth of responsibility... so beware!
Ask a guy who is a proficient lover to go down on you and ask him to try to make you cum as many times as possible. If your body is simply being used as a cum receptacle, it's not too much fun. When you have your first orgasm by a guy who knows what he's doing to edge you with his tongue and you'll need to pull the sheets from the crack in your ass & put hydrogen peroxide on his back so the furrows you dug into him while you were coming, you'll have your question answered. Next to the IV Dilaudid they give you after surgery, there is no more exquisite sensation. It really cannot be adequately described, you won't understand the fuss until you do- and if it's with a guy who is or at least wants to learn to be a proficient lover than you'll never ask that question again
If anything I would say under rated. It is the most beautiful, natural normal pleasure that you can share with someone special to you.
I hope that you have the opportunity to discover this for yourself and that it gives you as much pleasure as I get from it.
It is amazing. It can be even more so with a trusted loyal partner who loves you. Sex in love is the best most intimate kind of sex, idc what anyone says
"The loving partner" could be the best name for any sex position with such a partner 🥰
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Not if you're doing it right. But that takes time and practice. Love is the drug. Sex is the administration method.
It can be ordinary or unimaginably transcendent. It depends on who you are with and how good they are at knowing what to do. Penetration - getting fucked - can be incredible, but isn't all there is to sex.
When you are with someone you love, it's amazing. It's like the purest form of connection. it's overrated when it's not with that person though, all the hook ups I've had have been shockingly bad
oh god, your first time will suck I promise you, but every time after that it gets better
Sex with the wrong person is awful.
Sex with the right person is rock-the-universe amazing.
Being a virgin myself I never saw the big deal, but girls get absolutely crazy when you reject them so I've been harmed a lot for rejecting so many girls. When I feel I want to have sex I'll probably get a surprise or two
Sex with the right person is extraordinary
If it wasn't that amazing, we wouldn't be talking about it so much. The only way to find out personally is to try it out a few times and see what you think :)
It is that amazing, but only with a partner you care about, generally someone you're in a relationship with.
The porn, sex scene in movie is acting, erotic books is based on fantasy
It is kinda overhyped and bit overrated too.
Mostly it is very much worth doing. Occasionally it is disappointing and sometimes it is really extraordinary. One thing I have noticed here and elsewhere is that the fun and romance of sex have been replaced by fantasy and psychodrama. Intercourse should be like sport or dance and oral like the nurturing therapy that it is. Nowadays sexuality is overthought out and evaluated excessively. Just get undressed and DO it.
Sex is great as long as you're being safe and you have an open mind but usually your first time isn't that great it's like most things practice makes perfect
I like it so much that I don't mind if I get it from a man or a woman
It's fun, but not earth shattering.
It can be lol
@jgirl99 Meh... The stars kind of have to line up just right for truly amazing sex. 9.5 times out of 10, what people think is "great sex" is usually just finding a partner who can somewhat communicate with them.
I love it. But it’s not something I MUST HAVE in my life.
Masturbation is more than enough
if done right and with the right partner/s it can be pretty muchbas good as books and movies/tv seem but a lot of times it takes a lot of yrial and error to find that perfect balance. so may very well have times its nowhere near as good as you read about or mite get that 1 that makes it as good or better thsn read, but still winds uo flawed in dome non-sex related way; causing you to have to try finding someone else.
It's way overrated, at least for most people most of the time.
I'm a virgin too. I think it will be good but not the top of all life.
It's AMAZING
Good question.
I think I like to watch or feel about it because I haven't had it yet either
Lately I have realized I feel more happy being romantically involved with as little thought about sexual activity as possible and I feel that attraction is so longer lasting that I don't feel like having sex mindlessly
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