Guys, You think it is wrong for a married gal to show off online, even if only for fun?

Im not talking nudes, just like something revealing.
Guys, You think it is wrong for a married gal to show off online, even if only for fun?
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  • Only if you don’t tell your husband.

    Just tell him, “hun, I love you, but I’m also human and a woman and sometimes I just want to feel good about myself and boost my ego. I don’t mean to hurt your feelings and I’ll never do anything behind your back, so please understand me when I do this rarely.”

    I’d be okay with her doing that, not too often of course. I understand we sometimes want to show off, feel good about ourselves, see how desirable we are, seek attention, etc.

    I won’t get mad at her for doing that, but I will if she isn’t honest with me about everything, AND if she does this very often.

    • You know what, this was a realy thought out answer. Thank you for not being a dick or anything. Thats pretty well how I feel, like after child birth I never really go out and do much and the hubby is working so sometimes the boost is great, makes me sexy again. What do I do if i fear retaliation?

    • What do you mean? Just sit him down and be honest with him. Be genuine with him and touch him a bit to show your honesty and affection. It’s all about communication, because people cannot read minds. It’s impossible to know how he’ll react because I’m not him, nor do I know anything about him. But you do. There are moments where I like getting attention from other women even though I’m with a woman. It’s small stuff like being checked out while I’m walking to compliments random women give me. Despite this, there’s a line when crossed, becomes too much. I don’t intentionally go out every weekend, escape from my wife, to solely get attention from other women... that would be extreme. Women want to feel desirable and sexy, so getting attention is one safe, practical, and effective way to do so... Be honest, be genuine, and be loving. Talk to him

Most Helpful Guy

  • It depends on her partner and the relationship they have. If both people concent to this behavior then there's no problem. Even if it WERE nudes. As long as it's understood by both people as acceptable then it's fine and weather I or anyone else thinks it's wrong, it dosent matter cuz it's there relationship and between them

    How ever if her partner dosent know or worse specially dosent like it then yes, it's wrong. And to some people could be considered cheating.

    Long story short concent of every thing. If your in a committed relationship, your body belongs to more then just you now. Remember that. It dosent matter if your man or woman. What you do with your body effects your partner too

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What Guys Said

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  • It would depend on us and her and how she went about it.

  • If he's okay with it. . .

  • Why is she doing it? For whom? Is there a little of, "I'm beautiful, I'm desirable, and you can't have me, nyah, nyah," in your psyche? In any case, there is such a thing as modesty. You should do whatever you need to do to turn your husband on, from the sexiest lingerie to the best fragrance, etc. BUT ONLY FOR YOUR HUSBAND. No one else should be able to look at what he alone should see.

  • Your not cheating and it’s nice to know that you “still got it”. But I hope your husband knows. If he doesn’t know then that’s fucked up, what if you found out he was flirting with girls online, but never did anything. You’d wanna kill him lol Or most wives would

  • If your husband dosent mind you showing I certainly dont mind looking.

  • The only reason someone would do that is to get attention (from other people). So no, I would not be amused.

  • Just look at Kim Kardashian. She gets naked all the time on Instagram and no one questions it. However when regular married women do it, people think it's slutty. Yet their precious celebrity idols do it all the time. I have no issue in freedom of expression as long as it is not toxic and doesn't hurt the marriage in anyway.

  • You know what you're doing is trashy. But more importantly it's just another reminder why guys should not get married. That is supposed to be for your husbands eyes only...

    However, any man that is foolish enough to still marry in this culture shouldn't expect anything less.

  • its not good if hubby either doesn't know or he does know but clearly doesn't like it. personally if it was me and you told me, then i would encourage it but im not most men

  • Up to your marriage, if he knows and is fine with it then there is no issue. If your doing it behind his back your probably going to have to ask him if he's fine with it.

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