Part of it is natural - to desire being dominant or submissive.
Part of it is skills - Being submissive is easier, you just have to follow orders basically.
Being dominant isn't as naturally easy, and you have to practice or train it the same way you would train to play a musical instrument. Having a bad submissive seems to be your biggest hurdle here... If he keeps taking control (and you are letting him), it takes away your power as the dominant in play.
Communication is a key part of it. He needs to stay in his role. If this is something you are trying to achieve without communicating it to him, then he's not at fault either - The first part of being dominant is making it known, you have to "man up" and tell him how it's going to be.
I think I am the submissive and that's only my thinking that I can be dominant I am submissive by nature
It sounds to me like you're naturally a submissive but your desire to switch is certainly understandable. What percentage of the time would you like to dominate?
Very pretty girl, by the way. Lucky guy. Maybe he should just spank you more? ;)
Hey why you him to spank me and he have done it many tines
I didn't understand the question. Sorry. Are you asking him to spank you. That he's spanked you many times? If so, do you like it?
1) talk to him that you wanna be dominant in bed, if he agrees, see if he wanna be tied up or handcuffed. That way he can't move and you have to take the lead, might help you in preserving with being dominant
2) maybe you're a brat? A submissive who likes to challenge your dominant and show strength. Rather than just submitting to him, you prefer him "forcing" you to submit. So it's harder for you to accept you're a submissive. I don't know I'm not too clear on the term but this is my guess.
Also also I think it's harder for you to dominate because inside you've simply accepted that you are a submissive already.
Thanks I think I am on second point
You're welcome
tell him u want to switch roles , he will most definitely love it , don't assign yourself to the dominant or submissive group, do what u like , it's unnecessary dilemma
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!have you talked about it with him and told him that sometimes you want to be in charge... the simple fact is many dominent men, like myself do like to ''switch'' sometimes but we do need to be told by our women that they want to play that game too
Yes I have talked many times but when this is going I becomes powerless and submit him
then the reality is you like the idea of being dom but essentially its not you else you wouldn't always ''give in''
Are you able to tell him you want to be on top sometimes (cowgirl) or just do that without telling him? That would be a start in asserting yourself more.
Yes obviously and he is ready but I am not able to dominate him I became powerless by his touvh
If dificul to be more powerful then a man but not imposible.
If you really want to be dominant you need to have one thing in your minde "JUST DO IT!!!".
You want to change a position, just do it. Want to do something in that moment do it.
Been dominant will not ba like "Can i be dominant today baby?"
Because the sexual desire in that moment take control over the man so he become literaly an animal.
You can talk normal conversations about what he like girl to do and then make a small plan like what you want to do and try, if it's not to pervert or a strange fantazy you can "just do it"
I'm dominant but i don't minde a mominant girl in my bed. I suport them to be dominant and if they want to do something just to do it whit no dub and questions.
If you need any more informations let me know.
No it's not about power it's about mental when I going to do that I became powerless dominant him and end upon being submissive
Can you give an example of situation?
Like I am dominant going to do my stuff with him but when I touch him I became powerless and want him to dominate me After this I will regret all the time
Just be grateful. That is all.
It perhaps simply is not in your nature. Sounds like it might be more in his but in an equally involuntary context as you.
You have to be able to keep the dominant mentally. Look at him like your prey and nothing else. He is there to be taken by you! Keep that mindset and you should be able to do it.
That's how we do it with you girls.
That's the problem I am not able to prepare mentally
Then you will have a hard time... It should come naturally.
I should be submissive then
Sis it's okay for you to melt under his touch. It's normal. Guys are naturally supposed to be the dominant ones, not you. Now that doesn't mean there's anything specifically wrong with the opposite or whatever, but it's biologically and mentally normal for you to be submissive, *and that is okay.* Don't fight it.
So should I submit me to him
You should simply do whatever feels natural. Don't force yourself.
I don’t think your cut out to be dominant, but mention it to your boyfriend.
Don't force yourself to be dominant, it's instinctive, women are created in a way to be submissive and controlled by men. As a female, you're born with a "weak" body (sexy weakness) which is a part of what makes a woman look more feminine and attractive. Whereas a male's body should be strong to protect his female but also manhandle her and kind of "use" her body to fulfill his needs and assert his dominance on her.
So should I submit me to him Every time
You should do whatever feels good for you, if you feel like you just can't help but submit to your man while he takes total control of your body then just let it be. However, if you want to dominate him or at least try it once but you can't on your own, then just tell him and both of you will figure out how you can do it.
Time to have the talk and tell him what you want.
Take turns and he needs to learn how to be submissive and let you lead. Lol
next time don't submit to him, you dominate his ass, show him you can be dominant too.
take it like it is
What?
tell him you would like to take turns being dominant
ask him to try something different that you may enjoy and something new that you can control because you can control it. try butt sex it is great and has a new position you get into that you control. it feels great to men
Then you're not sexually dominant, because you don't feel the desire to dominate him.
You are a biological female... it’s instinct.
Just talk to him beforehand , tell him you would like have these urges and you would like him to not be dominant and just go with whatever you want to do to him
You can take turns like one time you are the dominant one , next time he is. You have to discuss this with him , because physically you can't overpower him , he can. He doesn't know what you like so tell him
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