I told him that i've had anal sex before and he said that that's disgusting and that he wasn't expecting something like that from me?

He said i should respect my self more and stuff like that, that in my opinion has nothing to do with the fact that I've tried anal. He's religious so maybe that's the reason he reacted like that. Do you think he's right?
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  • Wha whha... you talkin to me... welll I've never tried anal before at first i didn't think that girl's could feel pleasure taking it in the out door and i always said that I'd never do that then one morning i woke up and my but was... noooooo im joking it didn't happen not like that ok some girls can't get off... have a real hard time getting off just because you've never got off don't mean you can't but for those girls that are having trouble try anal i know girl's that thought they couldn't get off and tried anal and now they're squirting everywhere and wouldn't have sex any other way dohhh that didn't answer your question no id like to try anal myself i mean i love to lick a peach and then one day... night i got a little to for behind and let me tell you the but"they call it that cuz it's that whole close to the pussy BUT not the puss.. you guys get it but if you're not clean don't do it , the flesh there is so soft and man if you haven't tried it then you don't know... how good it is just to OK ALRIGHT I'M QUIETEN how can i face anyone after this BUT i gotta tell the truth

  • Is he right in telling you how you're allowed to choose to use or enjoy your body? Absolutely not that is up to you, if he dosent like anal he can feel free to not have anal sex with you, but he has no right to shame you for it. You've done nothing wrong you didn't even have to tell him cause it didn't involve him, you let him in on something you didn't have to and in turn he shames you? Not cool at all.

    Anal sex seems to be a very devided, polarizing topic, I made a poll to see how women in general feel, about half say no never, half say yes love it, and I think 1 woman dosent really care but will do it if he likes it. There was no clear winner, I think the winning vote has 1 more vote, so I expect to here an equal amount of yes and no here.

    I support anal, you did nothing wrong it's all up to you however you feel about it is right, if like anal and think it's a good thing, then anal is a good thing.

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  • His loss. Most guys think it's hot for women to do anal!
    Just because he doesn't like it or believe in having anal sex, means it's wrong. Don't let him get to you. Trust me, plenty of other guys will not mind one bit.

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  • While he is allowed to have an opinion, in my opinion, his opinion is incredibly ignorant, condescending, and shallow. Even if he thought anal was terrible, his own religion teaches that you forgive people of their pasts, yet he's holding it against you. That's so wrong.

    in my opinion, you are fine, and you probably need to move on and be with someone who is a little more open-minded and remembers that you're someone he's supposed to love.

  • Not no but Hell No!!! That he's so hung up is his problem. How adventurous is he sexually?

  • Read through a bunch of the comments and I'm surprised some will go as far as to tell you to dump him for that comment. I think he didn't like the fact that other men have done something with you that he didn't and probably won't do, maybe because you haven't offered, or most likely because he's religious and that is very much frowned upon in certain religions at least. He can be very judgmental, but that doesn't mean he isn't great in other areas, and you're probably with him because of that. As for whether you're a slut or not (I saw you ask someone else), just the fact that you had anal sex before doesn't make you one, in my opinion

  • Im not religious however anal is just something I wouldn't do. I dont like the idea of it personally. However, I dont think he has the right to judge like that because not everyone has the same religious views or beliefs. So ok you tried it and almost how many other people did? I think he is taking it from his relgious views directly

  • I think it's cuz he's a prude. Some people are really uptight about sex. Have you slept with this guy? Was it just a quick bish bash in Mish position? Sounds like a boring fu (ker - I'd give him the flip. NOTHING wrong with anal, if you like it. Most guys would love to try it with you, but few know how to do the 'prep' and to warm you up before they do it, you can't just slam it in there. I'd ditch the God Squad guy and find yourself a man.

  • Well that's his loss to be honest. Most girls have the opposite opinion than you and will cringe at the site of a finger. Maybe one night you should just stick a finger in him and see how he reacts 😂

  • No, he is not right.
    He probably has a very narrow view of sex and what is right and wrong... and there would be a lot of 'wrong' if he and I had a chat.
    Fine if he does not want to do it, but he should not judge you for having done it. Also, if you liked it and you stay with him... you might want to find out what else he does not like to do, hear, talk about, try, etc., etc.

  • No, I think he's very narrow-minded and this relationship probably won't work.

    • And even worse, he's judgmental.

  • You two aren't compatible.
    Just end it.

  • Religious fanatics are never right about anything

  • He probably just had a specific image of you as you haven't really opened up to him before due to maybe being shy or so, but different guys like different things when it comes to the bedroom and making love. He's just not a fan of anal, plus you should never tell your boyfriend how previous guys used to bang you as that's a huge ass turnoff according to how the male brain is wired.

  • maybe he should try butt sex, as i felt same way until my girl friend lay on the bed face down and put her feet hanging down and then i put my body against her butt and once my penis got big i was able to move from her butt to her pussy and rubbed my penis against her pussy and then against her butt and put it in slow in her butt after doing this for a while i changed my mind about butt sex as i my body felt so great as i was going into butt from her pussy and once my penis got so wet i was able to put it in all the way in her butt and is was so great to try something new as i came inside her

  • I am an observant Christian and consider anal intercourse an abomination. As a commoner, I just find it repugnant.

  • What an ass !!!

    ironic isn't it?

    • You mean that stupid guy aren't you?

    • @REDHOTLINE yes

    • thats good liya he is really stupid

  • No of course not, everybody has different interests and kinks. I personally am a fan of anal, but there's no harm in experimenting in any case

  • No. It's ypur body to experiment anyway you want. Tell him to stop being a prude

  • I think he is right in having his own views on what he finds desirable and what he finds disgusting.

  • Is your life, you decid what you want to do.
    If you was curios about anal sex and did it whit that person is not his buisnis.
    If he didn't like he idea of you having anal sex in the past he should go and finde somebody else or stay whit you and just deal whit it.
    I will never judge in juch a offensive way the past eperience of my girls.
    I can't change theyr past, then why should i make such a big deal in the end?

  • Not at all. He's just young and has more growing up to do. Even if you're not into something you shouldn't shame someone else for it

  • Honestly... dump him. Seriously. he's going to control you.

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