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Should I feel bad about having done this?

When I was like 14, I didn't know exactly that masturbation could be more than things like fingering etc... So, once I was just on my computer and was reading some hentai, (cause why not), and I feel kinda wet and I didn't really know what was going, so I just started rubbing and yeah, things. After it I was kinda confused and went to the bathroom to wash my hands and it was then I realized what had happened.
Now, this wouldn't be problem if I hadn't been in my parents' bed. And everytime I think back at it, I feel weird and guilty.
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Biologically and psychologically speaking, masturbation is as right and normal as sneezing, coughing, laughing, eating, and yawning. It carries no health risks but does carry benefits. It can help alleviate insomnia, get you in touch with what turns you on sexually, and be a stress–reliever (of course, if you're worrying about the morality factor, it may not be much help with that last one).

    The morality of masturbation, as it relates to your religious, cultural, or spiritual beliefs, is something you will have to decide for yourself. Many people seek the help of family, friends, books, life experience, and/or clergy or other religious leaders.

    If it turns out that nothing about masturbation seems to "rub you the wrong way," it may be worth working through the guilt so that you can continue to enjoy this pastime that is enjoyed by so many others. But if it begins to feel morally questionable to you, stopping may be the best route for you. On such decisions, Sting once said: "Let your soul be your pilot. It'll guide you well."

    😊 I hope I answered your question little girl. Any queries? Feel free to ask. 😊🇮🇳

    • Thank you. I don't really feel bad about masturbation, per say, it was the location that bothers me :')

    • Nah it's perfectly fine unless your behavior is no longer private. In case they find out no need to worry. They will understand that you are grown up adult. Enjoy your teen life.

    • Ah no, it really was a time without re dos. I rather not do anything of the sort in my parents bed haha

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  • I don't think you should feel bad, it is a normal behaviour of anyone and you shouldn't feel bad for that.

    Regarding the fact you did it on your parents bed... I mean, if you cleaned it and dried it then that's the best you can do. I can almost definitely assume no-one in your position would want to go to their parents and say

    " Oh.. uh hi mum and dad... The thing is... I was masturbating on your bed and now it is kind of wet... Sorry..."

    That isn't something anyone would want to admit to their parents.

    Feeling guilty? Well, there is a sense of guilt when you know what you did was not right, in this case you realise it was wrong to do it on your parents bed instead of your own and that is making you feel guilty. I would consider this good, it shows maturity and being able to realise your own mistakes.

    Last part here though, Why were you in their room doing it instead of your own? It isn't a super important question, I was just curious ^_^

    • I didn't know what I was doing. If I had known before hand I would have never done it there.

    • Then that clears things up :) in future, if you want to do something like that do it on your bed and not theirs :D it is enough that you realise your mistake and can work on it from there, you won't do it again and that is as much as can be asked of you ^_^

Most Helpful Girls

  • Girls are so weird. They feel guilty for things that are natural. Girls are lucky in that they have limitless options to masturbate with objects, they show when they are horny, and can bate anytime anywhere. Feeling guilty for having such a wonderful advantage is waste of an ability.

    • No, I'm not gulity over masturbating. I feel bad about the location that it was.

    • Nothing wrong with the location.

  • Don't worry about it... I mean, I started later than you did, but its something a lot of people do to relieve stress

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  • Everyone's got things they feel bad about, and yours isn't even that bad. Just move on

  • nothing wrong with that, everyone does it different ways. no big deal about parents bed

  • I wouldn't worry about that at all, definitely dont feel bad about that. I think we've all done something that felt good before we knew exactly what it was.

  • If your parents weren't in bed with you, you should be fine.
    I mean it is a bit odd, but nothing to worry about. Luckily you aren't a guy... could have came all over their bed sheets...

  • Forget about it. Seems like a completely normal event to me.

  • no way if it made your body felt great that is the good part of it having that great feeling

    • i know when i do it i go very slow as to make the feeling last a lot longer and get my body to a point its such a great feeling

  • No, you shouldn't feel bad about it. You did nothing wrong.

  • i dont think u should feel bad at all I've done it in ny parents bed before also plus u didn't know but im sure now u liie doin it innur bed

    • *u like doin it in ur bed

  • So silly, i did it fisrt at 13 and afther that in diferents place when i have the oportunity.
    I whas more schare that my first ejaculation is olso the only one in my life.
    Don't feel bad because you don't have any resons.

  • You didn't know what you're doing so no reason to feel bad. You know better know and can not repeat that mistake so everything is good.

  • Why feel guilty?

    • The location

    • You shouldn't feel guilty about it. It is alright

  • Nah, you're fine. It happens. Don't worry about it.

    Just try not to get caught, okay?

  • There is no reason at all to feel guilty about it.

  • Nothing bad, don't worry.

  • Let it go. Its not like you did it intentionally, that would be weird.

  • you were discovering sex. nothing wrong in it, not like you could help it

  • You can feel weird and guilty if you aware of it beforehand but since it was a realization after the fact then don't worry about it

  • Can't even count the times I've fucked my girlfriends in their parents bed or my parents bed. Seems a little weird now that I'm older, but it honestly doesn't matter. Pretty sure the parents know and just don't say anything.

  • No you shouldn't feel guilty about it. Its normal to explore your sexuality. Over the years you may discover more, dont beat yourself up about it. 😎

  • dont worry it happens a lot! do u still masterbate? have u done anything sexual with a guy yet?

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