Girls, My current girlfriend is now saying my size might be an issue?

[talljakeprobs]

Wow this year is a bummer..

In a previous question, I asked if size mattered because my ex broke up with me because I was “too big” (yes referring to penis size)..

So now, i have been dating my girlfriend for going on 2 months and I revealed my size to her and she claims it might be a deal breaker..

Should I be self conscious? Possibly get a reduction? At this point it’s just discouraging then feeling manly, which I think is a big misconception.

Would this be like being stuck with huge boobs where people find it unflattering or that they are fake? I’m not sure, I’m a bit lost and wonder how I should feel.

thanks all,

[Tiffany_Taylor_Made]

You don't mind asking a random question about how your girlfriend might think you're "too big," but you're uncomfortable sharing your actual size? Anyway, being "too big" is not a thing, unless you're oddly bigger than normal due to some medical condition. It would really help if you just shared your size. If your girl complains about you being too big, more likely, you ought to improve your technique.

[talljakeprobs]

Can you DM me please?

[Marilynjuana]

Keep in mind that a baby is designed to come out of there. A dick that is "too big" isn't actually really a thing.. If, then very rare.

[talljakeprobs]

I agree with that, and I’ve tried to explain it’s a “getting used to” experience and it’s all to deaf ears at this point.

[Liz_thorne]

unless your dick is not monstrous and you're actually good in bed it should'nt be an issue

[talljakeprobs]

I agree, and I’ve tried to explain that but.. I don't know, I’m not even really an intimidating person.

[LanaJane]

I would never reject a big... so if she doesn't want it it's her own problem!
Stay focused and be happy :*

[JaneDoe377]

If she's unwilling to try then it seems like she's not that interested in you or sex maybe. Is the relationship worth it if it makes you feel bad?

[julieta00]

If you do it well, size shouldn't be a problem.

[Anonymous]

How ‘big’ are you?

[talljakeprobs]

I don’t feel comfortable saying here.

[Opinion Owner]

Then I don't know what else to tell you other than there’s nothing you can do if she’s uncomfortable lol 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Opinion Owner]

I don’t know what you expected from this question, it’s a bit silly to ask should you get a reduction or should you be insecure, I’m not sure how you expect us to give you an answer to that lol

[Anonymous]

I know you're absolutely dying for someone to ask... So just how big are you? lmfao

[talljakeprobs]

I actually do not feel comfortable saying here. I know places are riddled with creeps and wanting ladies to ask.. but this isn’t the case. I’m sorry about that

[Opinion Owner]

Then why waste our time in even asking the question? How pathetic. smh