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If a woman's vagina is too cavernous should she offer anal as an alternative?

I'm sure many guys here, regardless of their penis size, have encountered women with vaginas so slack it feels like your pumping into an empty space. When it rattles around like the last hotdog in the tin and it's her fault not yours should she offer you anal sex as an alternative?
I'm assuming this is a common problem amongst MILF's who've had loads of kids.
If a womans vagina is too cavernous should she offer anal as an alternative?
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  • If a woman truly suffers from vaginal looseness to where she still feels loose "regardless of penis size," the choice is still hers to decide if she wants anal or not. Anal sex isn't everyone's thing and many people value their ability to shit properly, something that constant anal sex could ruin. The possibility exists that she can still enjoy having her vagina penetrated by simply choosing men with much bigger penises. Men that are truly large, as in those with around 9+ inches of length and 7+ inches of girth could easily satisfy a woman with an extremely loose vagina. However, she might have to "place an order" for this type of guy online because most men that approach her in real life might not have penises this big, even if they are big. However, the thing about having a "loose vagina" is that it could be somewhat mended. Mainly, if a woman's vagina is THAT loose, it's most likely a combination of age, having too many children, and not allowing your vagina to return to normal after giving birth. Constantly having sex with above average sized penises and/or using large dildos even after childbirth could slow the rate of the vagina returning to normal. If she simply stopped having sex for a while, avoided using huge dildos, and did some exercises to strengthen her pelvic floor muscles, she could at least regain some of her tightness, though it wouldn't be a perfect fix. It's even worse for women with loose vaginas due to genetics. Much like penis size, women can also be born with tighter and looser ones than others.

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  • If I were a dude, I’d have her do pelvic floor exercises to tighten her vagina again. What your describing is a bit far fetched.

    • Did that cat whale in the pic get you to reply? :)

    • Forgot to say... I agree with the pelvic floor exercises - they do work :)

    • @TCredo the cat whale is quite epic. But more so the information for other women to see. Not all ladies know there is a way to fix that issue

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  • Well does it still feel good for said loose milf? Kind of a slippery slope, how are gonna determine and put this "loose limit" rule in place? My penis, unfortunately is basiclly exactly the average length and girth, so if guy my size and smaller rattle around in there it's not necessarily the vaginas fault but there's a rattle so do we get anal?

    Dont get me wrong I'm glad you care about our enjoyment, and you may be the first women I've ever heard admit the pemis may not be the problem so that's nice of you too, but at the same time I would be concerned about that sentiment that women are obligated to give up there ass, they may not want to. If she is loose I do expect she gets the guy off someway, oral, handjob, tit job, thigh job but I dont want her to be mandated to give anal, as much I like the sound of it lol.

  • lol you have written some amazing phrases before but this one just got me laughing so good... "When it rattles around like the last hotdog in the tin..."

    I've experienced this in a temporary sense and it's pretty amazing... when she is a having a deep spot induced orgasm and the vaginal walls expand briefly... it's happens during oral with fingers and in the doggy style position... it's really cool to feel it and I often wonder how it would look if I could get a micro camera inside while it's happening :)

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • ZOMG that woman has a huge pussy! I would totally fuck her in the ear.

  • No, because once her ass becomes cavernous she might use that as an excuse to stop offering anal.

  • LOL lmao 😂😂

  • It's not as common problem and it's all about muscle tone. A vagina doesn't stretch like old elastic.

  • I would ask her to do kegels. Honestly, the anus has no gripping power, so once past the sphincter, there's nothingness, so good anal only comes from women who know exactly how to use that ass, so to speak. The vagina grips, even the looser ones, but kegel exercises can strengthen that grip to amazing results for penises of all girths.

  • I called it "like throwing a pickle down a hallway".
    She wouldn't be obligated but she might want to to hold him.

  • I am not into anal sex. period.

    I have dated women who have had kids and I do notice that their pussies have tended to be more "loose" even though I know people say its all biological and genetic. Its just my experience.

    With that said, "loose" pussy is pleasurable as well because of the friction and feeling of the pussy. With tight pussies the pleasure is often times based on the tightness and massaging of the penis. But with loose pussies the pleasure is the wetness and the texture inside the pussy as it rubs the cock.

    Loose and tight pussies can be an experience of intense pleasure for a man but it is just different sensations.

  • I've only been with one woman that felt a little loose she was still tight enough for me to finish but she was also into anal so we did that for the 2nd round. As to whether I think the woman should do anal if she's loose honestly I could care less if she's really good at giving blowjobs I'd rather have that

  • Would be nice. I don't demand that

  • Why do you love trolling so much?

  • I prefer the bigger looser pussies. But I love anal too, and it should also be big and loose :)

  • I'm a world champion spelunker... bring on the caves.!

  • It might be cavernous too. 😂

  • My widowed friends with benefits has a loose vagina, her husband was something like 9 inches and thick, seen photos lol, she mainly gets off by me going down on her, she can't really feel me inside her but is happy for me to have her,,,
    One time she said "ooh that's nice" and I hadn't even put it in yet lol,,,
    Sometimes she offers anal, doesn't say anything but rolls over on her front and pulls her butt cheeks apart,,,

  • Yes she should offer that back door if she is that big an he should push Jim self in very deep just like I do.
    God Bless

  • it should be mandatory i agree

  • What?

  • If a guy can't please a woman she should tell him to suck it up butter cup

  • I don't have this problem I don't struggle with women in any way shape or form I don't like shoveling shit I like women.

  • I don't think so and even if she did to me, I'd decline.

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