Ladies, can you seriously date or marry a man that likes to be pegged, isn't that a major red flag to you that dude is gay as hell?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Any man that likes his butt played with is seriously suspect in my view.

[Anonymous]

It's a green flag because it means he's not a boring f**k in the sheets, willing to explore his own body, secure enough seek sexual ecstasy, and so much in love that we share everything with each other and hide nothing.


What would be a massive, and I mean massive, red flag is if my partner said something similar to your question. It shows that you're boring, too mentally deficient to grasp that hetero/homo sexuality is about who you want to fuck/be fucked by and NOT how you want the fucking to happen (it's like you're either under 10 years old, or genuinely have a mental handicap), and so homophobic that you would rather live you're whole life never knowing if full body orgasms exist for men/you, and never experience what may (or even if for you may not) be total, pure, peak orgasm, I feel sorry for you

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Feel sorry for me then.

[Poppymarie]

My ex was into the idea of this. He didn’t even want to have vaginal sex anymore; it was boring to him. I realized he was gay and was pretty hurt. Eventually I left him because he was verbally abusive and showed signs that he could be physically abusive too.

[Justacatlady]

I’d be fine with it. It’s actually one of my top fantasies. Liking anal doesn’t make you gay. That’s ignorant. Gay is when you like the same gender you are

[Marilynjuana]

I’m pretty damn gay sometimes and most men wouldn’t mind (there was a study or something), I’d treat my man the same way. He likes what he likes, I won’t judge ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

[DizzyDesii]

To me, its the start of turning his azz gay. I dont care what people say. So yea i wouldn't date a guy whos into being fcked in the azz

[AzureGirl]

If a dude likes to be pegged then that’s just what he likes, it doesn’t make him gay. What would is if he were only interested in being with males, nothing more.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No real straight man will agree to having his back side mess with it.

[AzureGirl]

You do know where the prostate (which is basically a male’s g spot) is located, correct?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I don't care to hear about G spot or any of that. A man isn't supposed to be pentatred..

[AzureGirl]

If you don’t want to do it then don’t. It’s no ones business if another guy does.

[sheikalana]

My boyfriend loves it and I would totally marry him. I'm 100% sure he's not gay and he told me he would never do such thing with anyone other than me.

[Anonymous]

No
The suspect ones are the overly misogynistic, homophobic ones.