Why is it becoming more common for women to have multiple sex partners before marriage?

dont get me wrong, I was never a marriage pusher myself as I always believe that marriage is nonsense for the fact that to me sex is sex and having it during marriage doesn't make a damn of a difference just as long as you're not using the sex achieve selfish ends.

but I was just curious because so many women nowadays always try hard to put up that prude "I'm waiting for marriage" type of vibe yet I found these statistics on a reddit community that proofs the total opposite.
Why is it becoming more common for women to have multiple sex partners before marriage?
if you look closely the women who had 10+ sex partners are in a draw with the 4-5. but they sure are catching up. while the virgins are at 5%.

so I was wondering why are women sleeping around more now? and a better question why do they keep trying so hard to hide it?
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  • My Pet.
    My Pet.

    Yeah, I know it's a black panther. I love them. I want one as a pet. Anyway, I'm a Cougar.
    I've been one a very long time. But things have changed, Nothing remains the same. Ladies, do more today because then they were told what not to do. Couldn't smoke, vote, or wear pants. There was even time if a "woman" enjoyed sex too much, she was considered a "loose woman" and not marriage material. And even if she was married, she still couldn't show how she enjoyed it. No wonder women are the way they are. Well, some anyway. So a woman today wants to sleep with different men, oh well. But this thing about waiting to marry, It's true with a lot of females today. I stayed a virgin for a long time. Then at age 24, I was raped by a cousin. There went my virginity. Another reason I feel they say it is, they don't want to be with that man. And of cause, the truth that comes with the other females is they were speaking the truth. Being with many men, won't make her a slut, tramp, or even a cunt. But you men, Don Juan, Casanova, and Playboy. You all want to see just how many you can get, to put another notch on your belt. Sera Sera, what will be, will be. "Ain't no stopping "us" now"!!

    • oh that's hot, I always thought cougars were better because they are more open, less clingy and know how to push your buttons the right way. unlike most younger women who do appear as if they dont enjoy sex unless the sex comes with free dinner, free drinks and attention. I'm also very sorry that life had to be so hard on you by giving you such a fucktarded cousin. but too be honest I just like fucking. I never understood the logic behind using women as trophies.

    • Thank you. A lot of men want trophies just to have a sexy and beautiful woman on their arms to show off. I know plenty of ladies, myself, aren't that way. So what he can take me to dinner and/or movies. To me, that's what little girls like. I want you to take me out because we will have a wonderful time. I don't want whar's in your wallet. There will be times, I will want to take you out to eat, and a good movie. Who knows. it could be something better. I'm not saying I may never need your help. I would love your help. What if I cooked you a home cook meal? Would that still say the same thing? We have to be on the same page in order for us to meet in the middle. You don't have to buy me anything for me to make love to you, my man! I, honestly say, I know I could have been with many men, but the reason is there is too much out in the world I don't want. A lot of men don't care who they pull it out to. Men don't like it when women do it, so why do you all do it? It's her body to do as she, please. So maybe you all need to be with ladies your level.

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  • First off, you got this off of Reddit... not exactly the most Credible site lol so take it with a grain of salt would ya'?
    I think it's in part do to the growing acceptation for women to be able to date, kiss, and have sex before marriage. I can't comment on women trying to hide how much they've slept around because I personally haven't had any interactions like that. From a logical standpoint however it's quite obvious, just going from a comment you made below I can help explain my case. " i still come across a lot of bimbos who try to put up that prude"I'm waiting till marriage" nonsense." What is a Bimbo? A Bimbo is "an attractive but unintelligent or frivolous young woman." You see an attractive women and think "Wow, very hot, want sex" if she then tells you that she's had sex with multiple men you'd then think "Wow, what a slut she's so easy". And why when suddenly seeing this "Bimbo" it's somehow prude of her to want to wait tell marriage? If a man sleeps with 5 women it's okay but if a Women sleeps with 5 men it's more likely to be seen a s damaged goods. Just like how you saw a sexy lady and thought you could easily get some because of how she looks like a "Bimbo" and yet simply couldn't fathom a women who looked like that to be a virgin.
    You come off in your initial post as being chill about it with the "Don't get me wrong" stuff but you seem to have problems with women and honestly a little incel like lol. You ask the question like you're generally curious and just want to know what people think but You really lash out and show your true colors in the responding comments.

    • first off just because I got it off reddit does not mean it was created by someone in reddit. the main source is right on the bottom right corner. till then I had tough time reading your whole opinion cause you obviously wrote a text wall. though I did notice you said something about women being considered damaged goods if they slept around so I asked you is this a good reason to lie and be a hypocrite? and yes what I'm actually really cool about is people being anti marriage because I myself hate marriage and dont believe having sex out of marriage makes you a immoral person. however I do have a major problem with people being hypocrites and pathological liars. and yeah I been called an incel before but the real definition of one does not apply to me.

    • Yes, I do think that is a good reason to lie. If a devil worshiper points a gun at you and asks you if you follow Satan you'd say yes to save your life even though it's not the truth. That doesn't make you a bad person it makes you a smart person. Of course that's not always the case with lying but I think when it comes to a man asking how many people a girl has slept with a little goes a long way. Just as a made the point before about the difference between hoe society acts when a man vs a women sleeps with the same number of people. I'm not surprised others have called you an incel, but you've got to wonder why people have. Hmmm?

    • okay there miss not sure where the hell all this religious madness is coming but yea I know why people are calling me incel and perhaps is because I speak the truth and they hate so they feel entitled to somehow "hurt my feelings" as retaliation. but I'm not bothered at all because I obviously dont qualify as an incel. and could it be a coincidence that I had to use the "I dont want to see this" setting on one of the persons who called me an incel here because he got so over emotionally triggered that he had to respond to me with three paragraphs of third grade insults before blocking me? and I really supposed to be breaking any sort of sweats with such whiny weaklings?

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  • Well, before you put theories out there, lets look at what happened, when.

    The biggest shift was a huge drop in 1 partner only, from the 80's to the 90s. There was also a drop in virgin, which has continued since. There's been an increase uptick in over 10.

    The latter is probably the increasing normalization of hookup culture for women in the last 10-15 years.

    But the bigger trend is the first one: large numbers of women going from 0 to 1, to a few partners. That's not hookup culture. I'll throw out this as a hypothesis:

    Why is it becoming more common for women to have multiple sex partners before marriage?

    People are getting married notably later. It used to be pretty common to get married straight out of high school. Most women now expect to be in the workforce, and large proportions of them require post secondary schooling first. More years pre-marriage, more partners, even if you're only having sex with very serious boyfriend. A lot of women were marrying the only guy they seriously dated after age 16. That's true far less often, and a trend that took off from the 80's onward.

  • Because we have effective birth control and prophylaxis and testing for StDs, so the risk of sex is considerably reduced. And people are delaying marriage into their mid-20's. In the US both young men and young women are having less sex than they did in the 1960's.

    • so why is everything but the virgin/1 partner has gone up since the 70s?

    • Maybe it's the same reason fewer people are in church? In larger cities there is no longer any social cost for non-conformance, whether in church attendance or sexual activity, so people just do as they please.

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  • Probably got used to men doing it so figure well we should do it too

    • I think you been watching too much porn. since the beginning of time men were always required to provide and pay transactions in order to get laid. so even if you're right you're talking about a small % of men. also you just pretty much confirmed that you women are followers after all

    • 1) I don't even watch porn. 2) I don't follow and there are many women and also men who don't, and you can't say all men or all women do the same thing. Automatically false in either case... You're obviously not very informed on it, so yeah take care...

    • yea you'll be surprised how many followers have given the same exact speech you gave when they get their skirts lifted

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  • "these statistics on a reddit community" try harder

    • I guess reading things from top to bottom isn’t your thing. The main source is written on the down right corner and just because I got it off reddit does not mean it was made by someone in reddit. PS: someone else already said this, so why don’t you try harder at making your OWN opinion

  • Probably because back in our parents generation, women didn’t have as much freedom to do what they wanted.

    Now, I’m you see how truly horny they are without having to hide and pretend to be a perfect virgin angel.

    • "Now, I’m you see how truly horny they are without having to hide and pretend to be a perfect virgin angel." actually the polar opposite to be honest. as I said in my description i still come across a lot of bimbos who try to put up that prude "I'm waiting till marriage" nonsense. the only time they do act "truly horny" is when you offer them free drinks, free dinner or something that is worth of value in return.

    • Well, I actually wanted to wait until marriage but I got raped instead. So don’t assume that about everyone

    • I'm sorry that life threw such a fucked up incident your way but I wasn't directing what I said towards you. I met most women in general nowadays

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  • Women are allowed to explore their sexuality and they don't have a problem doing it

    • ... just as long as they’re getting free dates, fame, and attention out of it

    • Not really, it’s a way of coming into being, an individual but then again I can only speak for myself

    • well maybe in Trinidad & Tobago its the way you say it is. but I'm from America and women here do not open their legs or even show interests in the slightest unless they're gonna get rewarded with something

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  • Hasn't it become more common to vilify male sexuality, but promote female sexuality?

  • because it becomes more and more acceptable.

    • which is a good thing in my opinion.

  • Yes women are extremely promiscuous, walking disease pits, which is why I went MGTOW Monk almost 34 years ago.

  • We like sex.

    • So did all the women in history yet According to our old timers women did not sleep around as much during their days

  • Sexual liberation

  • I'm surprised the numbers are that low