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what does that mean?
I already talked to him about it and he said he‘s sorry and he will stop and I forgave him.. but it still makes me sad and I keep thinking about it. should I talk to him again?
If I were with and into a woman I’d never think of asking someone else for nudes
Tell him if it happens again, you will dump him.
he said he wanted to see if it‘s a fake account which i think is a bs excuse. he said he didn‘t think much about it and it wss onöy once. about half a year ago
Keep in mind that they lie and trickle truth all the time. Yeah, it is a bullshit excuse. And I do doubt it happened once. If he continues to lie then I am sorry to say but this is a lost case.. If his head is still so far up his own arse where he thinks that he can treat you like this, please let go. I do believe in second chances in cases like this but only if they earn it.
how do I know if he really stops? would you just trust him? I don‘t want to control his phone because that‘s toxic too and he could just delete it..
It really comes down to what you can and cannot handle. You will never truly know if he stops, you trusted him once and he betrayed you. For what, some loser online. This can only work if he is 100% honest and transparent and 110% remorseful. HE should be the one giving you his passwords. Not so you can stalk him 24/4, but so you feel safer. Trust is so fragile and very difficult to earn back. Keep in mind that you are young still, trying to stay will result in paranoia, fear, self-doubt and all that wonderful stuff. It comes down to you.
24/7*, sorry, I'm stupid on Mondays.
I want to give him another chance because he treats me like a princess in real life and I love him so much.. to be honest, at the moment I am not strong enough to leave him.. maybe I am too weak but I‘m trying to become a better person. I don‘t know if I can stay with him in the long term.. sometimes I cry in bed while he‘s asleep next to me. I don't know if I‘m being too jealous and insecure or if he‘s disrespecting me.. what would you do? do you think I should tell him that it still bothers me?
This exact thing happened to me and my heart truly goes out to you, darling. You do not have to make any decisions now. You should consider taking some time away. A week, go no contact and think, rationally. But I repeat again, for this to end well in any way, he needs to be 100% honest about why he did what he did. Else there will be no progress, no help, and it will just be wiped underneath the rug. He IS still lying to you. You have every right to be hurt, in fact, you should be furious! And you most likely will be! I would consider giving a second chance ONLY if he was truly honest about his actions. Only then. He needs to prove that he in fact is NOT a cheating coward, but that he is a man who faces his own bs head on, betters himself and learns. You're not being insecure, irrational, hell no. He was supposed to have your back, but he didn't. Please take some time away, chat up your girlfriends and think. Just think and breathe. It will be alright no matter what, but you need to protect your heart now.
When did you find out exactly? I got the impression that it happened recently but I am not quite sure?
thank you! you really helped me.. and it‘s good to know I‘m not the one being crazy and overly insecure or jealous.. can I maybe text you here or via instagram?
I found out about 2 weeks ago and he texted here about half a year ago I think..
Feel free to DM me here, I'll gladly hear you out. I'm glad my word's have been of help (:
thank you ! I messaged you
BS, he knew what he was doing.
@Wise4myage We are talking in private, I won't share anything, but I really feel for this girl.. That dude really did her wrong. And yes, he knew it.