Me and my girlfriend can't seem to have no condom sex even though we used to?

[Anonymous]

Basically me and my girlfriend at 16 used to have no n stop sex without condom as she was on the pill and since we got back together a couple of weeks ago at 19yrs old we now can't have sex without condoms as my penis won't go inside her without a condom on should I be worried as we both want to have sex without using a condom again.
And before anyone asks yes we've both been checked for STDs before we had it the first time and recently had it again and both clean.

[kaylaS91]

There are many other contraceptive options you guys could consider if an accidental pregnancy is scaring you to that degree.

There are hormonal options (i. e. the pill, IUD, patch, the shot) or other non-hormonal ones as well, such as the copper IUD.

[Asker]

We are good in that department my pull out game is good and she's on birth control has been since she was 16 but thank you anyway

[kaylaS91]

okay, that's good. What was your question, then?

[Asker]

Probably should've written it better but I have trouble voicing/typing my opinions or views properly unless it's to someone I trust so my actual question was is there a reason Why we can't get me inside her without a condom but can when I am wearing a condom even though we used to bareback all the time?

[kaylaS91]

Okay umm.. is she properly lubricated?

[Asker]

Yes I always make sure she is properly lubricated

[kaylaS91]

What does it feel like for her and you when you try? Like any pain for her or you?

[Justacatlady]

Using a condom isn’t a bad thing. If your going to go bare back, make sure you are using some other birth control or contraceptive.
If you aren’t able to enter her without a condom, perhaps she isn’t wet enough? Women need more than a minute if foreplay typically. If she’s just naturally drier, get some good lube

[Asker]

She's on birth control and this is all her idea to go bareback and I always make sure she's soaking wet before we try any form of sex as she can get really wet we just can't figure out the issue that's all we've asked doctor and even they said that's weird but thank you for the advice anyway much appreciated

[Justacatlady]

Did the doctor examine her? Does she have an intact hymen?

[Asker]

The doctor said there was nothing wrong with either of us they can't explain why we can't have bareback sex

[Justacatlady]

That’s really strange.

[Asker]

Yh that's why I thought I'd ask obviously I had asked her permission before posting it and she's chill with it as it's confusing the pair of us as she's always super wet before we think of penetration of any kind condom or not

[Justacatlady]

But you have no issue when using a condom?

[Asker]

Nope that's what's weirding us out

[Justacatlady]

Have you tried using lube? It sounds like there is either a lubricant issue or a tightness. Either way it seems latex and wetness is allowing penetration. So maybe even if she feels wet, use lube on your penis to help smooth the way

[Avicenna]

I don't really understand why you have this problem. Consult a doctor.

[Iron_Man]

Get married already

[Asker]

We've only just got back together for a couple of weeks

[Iron_Man]

You have no business having sex at 16 and you’re still having it and not even married un excusable

[Asker]

Sex without marriage isn't a bad thing though

[Asker]

And I did say we only just got back together a couple of weeks ago

[Iron_Man]

It’s not good

[Asker]

Why is it not good