Would it throw you off if your partner told you he dreamed about someone else sexually?

A mutual friend XD
I took it well honestly XD but I mean it is a fucked up thing to mention
but my partner felt guilty about it and wanted to confess XD
lucky me hahaha honesty is a virtue XD
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  • This is what I don't like in relationship.

    You need to tell your partner itsy bitsy things.

    I mean come on its just a dream. Even in my dream I fuck celebrity stars, my neighbour, her neighbour, a stranger and many more, it does not mean that I'll tell her about it.

    You can't change anything it was a dream. And if the guy wants to be that honest that he should have got up from the dream right then before going ahead.

    And if the question is about reaction, then I think it would be silly to be irate on this topic.

    • No I wasn't

    • That's how logical and mature people act. 😊

    • But one thing annoyed me tho Is that the girl she dreamed off once told her that she fantasised about her too😂 So I am more worried about the other girl than the girlfriend

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Umm. . . yeah it would throw me off. That's the kind of thing that's better to keep to yourself. Although people in very faithful and committed relationships can have dreams about sex with any number of persons without that meaning they want to cheat.

    • yea I get that that's why I understood but there is more to it tho that should piss me off XD

Most Helpful Girls

  • It might be a little strange to hear but people can't control what they dream about, I wouldn't be upset with him at all. If I dreamed about someone else I probably just wouldn't mention it and try to forget it, but props to him for being so honest, that's a keeper.

  • Uhm as much as I like to pretend nothing bothers me, this might be one of those things that put me off.

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  • Just let it go. Ask him to keep it to himself. Pretty smile.

    • No I understood And thanks!

  • Maybe unnecessary but it also means nothing.

  • If I shared my dreams with anyone that person is likely to run for the nearest exit.
    So as i don't share dreams I don't expect my partner to.

    If she did. I would say "oh I'm sorry your dream isn't as good as your reality" 😉

    • Smooth 😂

  • I’d be pissed.

  • I’d be like “oh... okay, that’s fine.”

    Then proceed throughout my day.

  • Yes and no. Yes, if he’s close to her, no if he isn’t

  • It depends on who is was, celebrity or someone far away from the past. It's a for sure push off moment. But if it's someone like a friend or some one in the neighborhood... I'd be a little concerned but open to his thoughts

    • Or her thoughts in my case

  • That's one of those things you just don't have to share and is best kept to yourself. I figured that one pretty early in my first marriage. And never answer the question " if I let you for just one night which one of my friends would you want to sleep with?" 30 years later guys you will be regretting ever letting her name leave your lips. And if you are dumb enough to answer and that woman is in the house visiting just leave. Come back in a month.

  • @Sophie594 said exactly what I was thinking

  • Not at all

  • That is one of those situations I’d rather not hear about, although it happens.


    Like girls having to poop!

  • it would be very immature to be jealous about it, but i get jealous easily lol. Dont want any women to get close to my boyfriend even in dreams

  • What's he trying to get at by telling you?

    No one needs to know that.

  • So did you end up fucking with them?

  • It's not that uncommon

  • Um.. yeah. They don't need to tell me that. Lmao

  • I'd feel like crap, honestly.

  • Sounds like groundwork for a threesome. 👍😂

  • Probably have a very serious chat about breaking up.

    • really? You can't control your dreams

    • Yes you can. Are you for real? Your dreams are what you suppress or think about in the day. Some of them is subconsciously. Some unconsciously but it is there. Very serious red flag most people our age is to young to see

    • Not everything you see on your dream means exactly what it is tho She saw the girl and me and a bunch of other females It can be just her sexuality manifesting especially since I didn't see her in 3 days

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  • When I fantasize someone else in dreams, so what if my partner has same feelings and dreams.

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