Is it too early for me to lose my virginity if we’ve been dating for 3 months or is it good? I honestly feel like he’s the one?

I love this guy with all my heart and he loves me too, he is always talking about how he wants to grow old with me, marry me, and he’s a very sweet guy. He is the only guy that I want to give my virginity to. I’ve been wanting to lose my virginity to him for the longest time. He is 4 years older than me and he has had sex with about 3-4 girls from his previous relationships and he described the sex he had with them as empty
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  • I might wait just a little bit longer to make sure your absolutely certain. My ex and I had a similar relationship, thinking we’d be together forever, but it ended in 9 months. If you’re absolutely sure you want to lose it to him though and won’t be hurt that you gave it to him if you don’t end up getting married, then I’d recommend starting slow. Get comfortable naked together first. Then get comfortable with fingering; it helps to get used to having something inside you before you actually do it. Do some oral. Also, make sure to keep it safe; use a condom and/or hormonal birth control. I wish you all the best. Hugs! 🤗

    • We've seen each other naked and given each other oral once

    • Why did that relationship end? This is the first time that I have had hope in a relationship

    • He became abusive

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Most Helpful Girl

  • I think you have already decided to go for it. Enjoy!

Most Helpful Guys

  • The criteria isn't time, it's the level of emotional connection. Does it feel good and strong to you? If so, go for it. If not, then don't.

    • It definitely does

    • Godspeed!

  • Just make sure that your Heart is within in before you have sex with him

    • I’ve never loved anyone like this before. He is my first true love

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  • It's entirely up to you

  • I don’t think there is ever a set “right time” when it feels right for both of you.

  • Nothing wrong with losing your virginity if you think he's the one. :)

  • If it feels right and you have no lingering doubts, then go for it.

  • I can promise you he is probably isn't, "THE ONE!" However, go for it. What does it really matter?

    • But he’s always talking about how he wants to marry me someday. This is the only relationship that I’ve had hope and faith in please don’t take that away.

  • If you really want why not.

    • But try to record it with a camera. Very important.

  • If u are ready for it go for it

  • go for it. fuck his brains out.