Why Is Marrying A Virgin Considered Great?

[anon1903]

In that case, we really need to have a virgin-o-meter to check our partners xD.

Any comments slut shamming me (or anyone else for leading a sexually active life or just wants to do the same) would be deleted. If I respect somebody waiting for marriage, I expect the same in return.

#letsagreetodisagree

[Celtero]

They have higher rates of successful marriages...

And for a reason too.

When we have sex, our brains are bombarded with happy hormones such as oxytocin in order to bond with our partner. It is suspected that promiscuous behavior damages the capacity to bond.

So when you have sex with a virgin, they'll supposedly love you more. And I've heard many times when guys take a girl's virginity, they get super clingy.

And for me, personally, I wouldn't feel happy if there's many men out there who have had their penis inside my girl. Like... I don't want to share something (someone) that's supposed to be special.

[JPrez]

I think in today’s society we can expect that most young people have had some type of sexual experience before they get married. Most religions probably don’t address the virginity issue as much as they used to and I would argue that most parents don’t do it as much so most men or women probably expect their future partner to have some sexual past. Now that being said, I do think there is some nobility in those men or women who want to save themselves for marriage. Further, I would think that the spouse of a virgin would be elated to have them be their first sexual experience. You use the word “great” and it is possible that some would feel that way but others might show pride, excitement or even disappointment. It’s a good generalization but there could be a multitude of other emotions. Speaking for myself, I would be excited to be with one BUT I am a male and would be excited for sex with a woman with previous experience. Very good question anon1903!

[Adam1978]

It's definitely not. It's like buying something without testing it first. You can get very disappointed of your choice and you will be stuck with it.

[msss98]

Its considered great?

[anon1903]

Many guys want it kinda.

[sensible27]

"beware those who are quick to censor...
For they are afraid of what they do not know'/"
...

[Dargil]

It is OK but I have no problem with a girl having moderate prior experience.

[Don-_-Don]

The real question that should be asked here what is why marriage considered great...

[Peleplax]

Who has ever considered marrying a virgin great in the last 50 years excluding over religious people?

[anon1903]

Prudes.

[Peleplax]

Prude moral superiority is escencially ego based religion

[anon1903]

I was never one of them.

[Peleplax]

Neither was I saying that you were. I was explaining why prudes fit in the religious.

[anon1903]

I was once religious too. That's why I felt like clarifying.

[Alexandrubaschet08]

Yes you can check if the guy or the girl is virgin. In the past this thing whas obligate.
Is grate because you know that person if your and only your.
He/She never been whit somebody else so you will be the best for them. They will not be able to compare you and you will think olso he/she is the best in bed whit the nevel of skill that he/she have it.
Thous thinkgs can make a good mariage but olso a bad one is like 50%50%
Yes you will be the best in bed because they never have somebody else
But
They will olso be curios to try to see how good are theyr parteners

[Nalix]

It's not for everyone, clearly, but for people who want to focus on stable LTRs then they should stay virgins and expect the same of their potential partners. That's fair.

What isn't fair is when someone who isn't a virgin expects their partner to be, or vis versa (though I've never heard of the latter happening, it would be an equally unfair expectation).

[0oGreyo0]

Nobody wants a whore. Women lose part of there soul each time they with a diffeent person.
The Value of wholesome Virgin women is respectable. It was the way of the old for a reason.

[TheFlak38]

Because wasting her sexual prime and most years whoring herself around and then expect from a sucker to put a ring on her finger and become the clean up guy is fuckin disgusting and infuriating. The wife must be always a virgin. The rest of them are whores.

[Stan_Control_]

When i hear that, i'm thinking religion.
And that's the part of life where i don't participate.

[TwoToTooTutu2]

Typically Virgins report higher sexual satisfaction from marriage.

[LogicBomber]

for the same reason buying a new car is better than buying a used car.

Note: don’t give me that shit about “people are not objects”... it’s a analogy

[KrakenAttackin]

Women want a man with a good future. Men want a woman with a good past.

[GreenGold1992]

I don't know, but if it's what you want, then go for it

[OpenNudist]

To be perfectly honest it's not all that great

[In_Trance]

Great is a perception. Not everyone considers this great

[OddBeMe]

For pervs and religion. Those two overlap a lot.

[888theGreat]

If guy is a virgin and she is a virgin , they only have each other with no one else to compare each other too, so they are more likely to stay together. My brothers were and the women they married were and one brother has been married for 31 years and my other brother has been married 42 years. My mom and dad were married 55 years until his death.

[anon1903]

... your point?

[888theGreat]

If you can't see my point , then you are an idiot and wasting my time.

[Guardian45]

I have NO IDEA!