Would a woman judge/mock me for being a virgin? Also, how would she react if I told her that I have been suicidal?

[MerchantofGloom]

I am a 30 year old Indian guy. I'm very shy and introverted. I've never been in a relationship. I have had female friends but I've never had a romantic/intimate relationship because I'm too scared to approach any girl. I've been unemployed for the past year after finishing my masters and I don't know how long would it take for me to get a job. So, assuming that in 2-3 years I am working and get into a relationship or thinking of getting married, would my partner judge me, think less of me, make fun of me, if she comes to know that I've never had sex? I know women look for guys who are experienced in bed, who know what they're doing.

The second question is that I have had suicidal thoughts for the past 6 years on and off now. It was 6 years ago that I looked up methods to painfully commit suicide. However, this year in February, with my job situation and all, I went one step ahead and actually rehearsed it. I tightened a belt around my neck and let go when my face started getting numb. Since then I haven't done it again but the thoughts remain. If I ever get married, I would have to tell her this beforehand. What would her reaction be? Would she part ways with me?

For both situations, you can give your raw, honest opinion. Don't worry about hurt feelings or anything like that.

[purplepoppy]

Why do you need to tell her you're a virgin? Sex isn't difficult and I'm sure you know what to do. There are plenty of experienced men who might as well be virgins judging by their performance so she'll never know.

[Anonymous]

Many girls here will tell you they won't mock you for being a virgin
But the truth and real ground situation is that girls do mock a guy for being a virgin when the girl herself is not one. She may not mock you exactly but obviously she won't prefer you while dating or even if you end up dating her , she will definitely judge you for it.

That's just my personal experience. Everyone who say this is untrue are just virtue signalling dumbfucks

[Bandit74]

I think most would mock you under the right scenario. Like if you get into an argument or something they'd probably use that as an insult against you.

[Avicenna]

She should not do that, and probably wouldn't. Even experienced guys were once virgins.

[Avicenna]

Don't mention the suicidal part until things get really serious, i. e., you're talking about a relationship.

[moviedude714]

Another common reminder

[In_Trance]

I'm sure there's a woman out there that would, but not all of them will