Do men like sexually aggressive women or do you prefer to be the initiator?

[Uptowngirl88]

[Lliam]

I really like a sexually hungry woman who initiates sex. I really enjoy foreplay with a woman whose entire body is erogenous, but who also knows how to do things to me (not just sucking dick) what make me insane with pleasure.
But when it comes to sex, a woman can only be so aggressive. I mean, she's the one who is getting fucked, and it's great when she loves getting thoroughly fucked. I have to say that I'm not a sub and am not turned on by a woman who thinks she can pin my arms or act dominant. It's hot to allow her to ride me and get her rocks off that way. No prob. I love it when she participates fully and uses me for her own pleasure. But again, although I love an aggressive woman, I think it's a joke when she thinks she is dominant.

[MrOracle]

When I'm with a girl, I'm fine if she is sexually forward - it's hot to know that you're desired - but the reality is that I'm almost certainly going to be the instigator the majority of the time. But that's what most women seem to want anyway: for the guy to take charge the majority of the time, but with her having the freedom to initiate when she wants to.

[Anonymous]

There are 2 answers to this question: the one men want you to believe and the real one:
Most men would say they say do
In reality, men are fine with it as long as it is whenever THEY want it, however THEY want it. If you want to do it YOUR way to get YOUR pleasure... Ha ha ha ha ha! Good luck!

[bamesjond0069]

Exactly right. Nothing turns me off more than an aggressive woman. But if a girl wants sex she shouldn't initiate, she should invite the mans initiation. Ie do the thing that turns him on like bend over in front of him or wear a certain outfit

[Opinion Owner]

@bamesjond0069 A hell lot of hypocrites here. Misogyny is not dead lol.

[bamesjond0069]

Its misogyny for men to not have sex when they dont want to? So women should not be allowed to decline sex either?

[Opinion Owner]

@bamesjond0069 Is it what I've said?

[bamesjond0069]

I don't know what you said. Just general comment of misogyny to what i said.

[Opinion Owner]

@bamesjond0069 Double standard. That's what misogynistic here.

[bamesjond0069]

How is a double standard misogynistic? It doesn't seem apparent to me. I can think of a whole bunch that seem to be in womens favor so obviously just being a double standard doesn't meet the definition.

[Opinion Owner]

@bamesjond0069 It can be. It could also be a misandrist statement but it's not the case here.

[bamesjond0069]

What makes it misogynist? If anything i think its what the vast majority of women prefer.

[Opinion Owner]

@bamesjond0069 them or society lol...

[Zannika02]

I like both, 4 him to start sometimes and for me to take control others

[NamerOfStars]

I think I'd say more assertive than aggressive, but that's splitting semantic hairs. Just remember, think "horny", not "rapist". But yeah, there's nothing quite like it. We enjoy the feeling of being desired just as much as you do.

[MrNameless]

That's hot. I like 50-50. I want her to initiate sometimes too

[OlderAndWiser]

I enjoy having a woman who sometimes initiates sexual encounters but I don't want a woman who thinks that is her primary responsibility.

[MCheetah]

Men do the chasing 99.9% of the time. Unless you're a 10/10 or an Alpha Male, you're probably not going to enjoy it. Men not having to do the chasing, or initiate interest is a HUGE turn-on, one I think few women realize or care about.

[Kittyboy]

*smirking at the results*

[pajamasam]

I like taking the lead, but can enjoy giving up control once in a while.

[TonyV]

Hell yes I want her to take it, just don't bend or break my penis!

[normalice]

As long as I am physically attracted to her I would enjoy sexually aggressive women. But such girls tend to have their pick, and the odds are low especially if no one even knows where they are likely to be.

[TheUniqueOne96]

Never had sex before, but a sexually dominant woman sounds hot AF.

[JPrez]

Would love a woman who’s aggressive, rips my clothes off and climbs on board.

[CarlosWoods]

I like both, so for me I don't mind.

[Reaperbot666]

nice to be with a girl who is up front about. what she wants and needs during sexual encounters. because I can't read her mind and might misjudge her body language.

[Prof_Don]

I like sexually aggressive women but I like to overpower her initiation and take control. Put my hands around her neck and make her submit 😉

[Bandit74]

Probably a mix of both.

[nodnol32]

My girlfriend is normally the one who initiates and I love it.

[exitseven]

I can definitely appreciate somebody who is aggressive. It tells me that she is really into me and wants sex.

[humanearth]

I'm always the take charge guy and I always fantasizing about a woman dominant me in the bedroom.

I really want to see what it like to be the submissive one for a change

[pigoat]

Give me both and i will tell you afterwards

[John83]

Yes, I love having a girl initiate sex aggressively.

[Browneye57]

Uhm... that would be a FAT woman. She'll squish the fukkin life right out of him. LOL

They want you to be a willing and enthusiastic participant. Period.