It comes off a little slutty in my opinion, but if she's looking for attention, then it's a good way to show it. (So, it's a good thing.) However, if she's one of those "don't look at me, misogynist!" types, then she can f*ck right off with that bullsh*t.
"Do you think she's an attention seeker, trying to be sexy, trying to be comfortable, or something else?"
Hard to say. She can be any one of these. A guy really wouldn't know. As I said though, if she's one of those ""I have the right to wear whatever I want, but you don't have the right to use your eyes on me" feminist types, she can piss off.
"How long would you look at her?"
I think the unspoken man rule is "No longer than three seconds" to avoid being "creepy.''
"What goes through your mind when you see something like this?"
A) She wants to get laid.
B) She must think it's way hotter outside today than it really is.
C) She's a feminist looking for something to bitch about on a slow news day.
D) She must be from The Bahamas (or some other tropical island; like Puerto Rico).
"Is it sexually exciting, if she means it to be or not? If so, how much so is it?"
Depends on the woman. Despite what some ladies think, not all female bodies are sexy to men, even with skimpier clothing. Some women we don't want to see breasts and nipples from.
"How does it make you feel when you see a girl like this?"
Personally speaking, I'd find it distracting depending on the situation. If it's out in public in the middle of a hot summer day, then yeah, I get it. But I've actually had college classmates show up to class like this. Then, I find it inappropriate. That'd be like me showing up in a male stripper g-string, then whining at anyone who was looking at me funny. That's how a lot of men are going to think of you. If you're old enough to dress yourself, then you're old enough to understand what male heterosexuality is and how very few of us are asexual or gay. Dress however you want, but know people are going to react accordingly.
her not wearing a bra under a shirt would not be like like you showing up in a G string Her showing up in a G string, would be like you showing up in G string You don’t wear a bra. You probably would hate it. To assume its attention seeking seems self serving giving yourself permission to view her in a certain way, more than an honest assessment where you’d have to see her as simply a person wearing a shirt without a bra just like you don’t wear a bra. Plenty of guys have more boob volume than women. Do you assume they are attention seeking by just wearing a shirt? it isn’t sbout not looking everyone looks at everyone. But you attach have a psychological profile onto a person without knowing a thing. Imagine if anytime you wore a t shirt people assumed they knew what kind of person you were and in a derogatory sense Well you don’t have to imagine anything I’m just saying not wearing a bra is just wearing a t shirt. Since you do that she isn’t simply wearing a t shirt and that’s it. It’s logical to attach any other behavioral significance and presume to know more. It’s childish to think you have an understanding of a person silly bc they don’t do something you yourself , wouldn’t think of doing.
@VIVANT "You don’t wear a bra. You probably would hate it." We have to wear ties. I have to wear one for work. And no; I don't like it, but no one is forcing me to do so. Complaining about bras is such a first-world problem. Many women love bras, so you don't speak for all women. "Giving yourself permission to view her in a certain way" Giving myself permission? Yeah, I can view her however the f*ck I want, and don't need YOUR permission, or anyone else's. This is such a first-world feminist-thing to say. "Girls problems first! Smash the patriarchy!" I apologize IF I'm jumping the gun or misconstruing it, but no; I don't need to cater to what YOU want, while you get to also do whatever YOU want as a woman. Hence why I said what I said. "more than an honest assessment where you’d have to see her as simply a person wearing a shirt without a bra just like you don’t wear a bra." I'm not God and I didn't design women, or the human race, or human sexuality. This may help you or not, but just like I may not like women not wearing a bra, I equally don't like men not wearing a shirt in a public space not near water. It's f*cking disgusting! I hate it. I didn't even get into that, yet you think a woman exposing her nipples is something she should be able to do consequence-free. Tell me this; would you be comfortable with men having massive erections everywhere you went because of what you did? Would you be comfortable with many men walking around completely naked just because "pants and underwear is uncomfortable?" Furthermore, I'm not against the idea of women not wearing bras, nor did I say I was. I simply said they can wear whatever they want, but people can also feel however they want about it, or react however they want. If you're doing something you KNOW will turn many men on, or seem inappropriate in certain places, don't get surprised when many men GET TURNED ON, or women call you out for LOOKING INAPPROPRIATE in certain public places.
@VIVANT (part 2) The reason I implied you came of like an entitled feminist is because you want to do whatever you want and have people react however you'd prefer, as well. Or, to be free of consequences for whatever you do. Society... Doesn't work that way. "But you attach have a psychological profile onto a person without knowing a thing." Which I already addressed. You seemed to have ignored it. We DON'T know why they're dressed in a potentially inappropriate way. Thereby, people are going to assume. It's human nature. You don't like it? Don't dress that way. You don't care how they think? Dress however you want. It's that simple. Stop trying to have your way to do whatever you want, as well as making other people "accept whatever you want." It comes off as entitled. "Imagine if anytime you wore a t shirt people assumed they knew what kind of person you were and in a derogatory sense" If I wore any kind of political T-shirt or even something pro-Trump on it (I am indifferent to politics; neither anti nor pro), then they already would. Why do you seem to assume this doesn't happen to men also? It can happen to anyone. My two options still apply. "Well you don’t have to imagine anything I’m just saying not wearing a bra is just wearing a t shirt." Re-read my previous point: you're old enough to understand what male heterosexuality is and how very few of us are asexual or gay. It's childish/third-wave feminist of you to think you can do whatever you want and everyone is supposed to be fine with it or not place any negative judgments towards you being almost naked. Sorry you don't like it, but tough titties. (Pun intended.)
Do you think she's an attention seeker? - no i do not think she is trying to get attention. There are other ways to get attention and it burns me up when people assume that because a woman's nipples are showing that she is automatically trying to get attention. Leave her alone maybe she's hot or the bra she had was bad quality and she had to remove it. I do not wear bras and i wear loose thin tshirts many times. My nipples get hard just like any girls and they get seen through my shirt. I go topless if i want. I am not looking for attention so why is a woman being treated like she is. We are both human. They are just nipples get over it.
Is she trying to be sexy? - no. It is my experience that woman can be sexy just by being herself. She can be in a nice dress, or just in jeans and a tshirt she can be sexy. Again she is not "trying" to be sexy if she already is. Trying to be comfortable? - yes more than once have i seen my exes and my girl friends slip that "boulder holder" from under their shirt and fling it at the hamper following a giant sigh. My mom does it. 😂
How long would you look at her? - Look at her or her nipples? I might notice her nipples and yes find them attractive. But i like to look at her in her eyes and hope she notices me. I will smile and she smiles back. I'd like to think that after her realizing i caught her with no bra on or flung it off that she will know that i understand. I like girls who are comfortable and do not allow other people or things to bother them. That is what i am looking for in a girlfriend.
What goes through your mind when you see something like this? - that i understand her.
Is it sexually exciting, if she means it to be or not? - yes it is but not to an extent i will get hard or have to have sex. Sex appeal is not always about copulation.
How does it make you feel when you see a girl like this? I love a girl like this. She is a free spirit. She is fun. She won't be prudish. That is a girl i want. 😎💓💓🌹
Very good responses. It's Cookie approved.
I usually don't think anything of it. I dont think she's trying to be an attention seeker unless she actually draws attention to the area. For instance, taking a picture like that with her breadts being the main focus of the photo. I'd normally just think she was trying to be comfy. Bras are annoying. I would look long enough to notice because once I notice I'll look away. I think its sexy but not when she's trying to be sexy about it but thats mostly because I find attention seeking behavior unattractive in general.
I think its so STUPID to sexualise women's nipples. The only difference between our nipples and men's is the fat surrounding it. Women used to not wear bras at all a long time ago and no one gave a shit. Why is it 'slutty' all of a sudden? Why are men's nipples not slutty too? This is all just stupid bullshit Christianity has spread over the years. Get over it people and move on.
Nipples are nipples.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I see them and I think “damn it must be cold”. If a woman doesn’t need to wear a bra then who cares. Enjoy the freedom. After all they’re not your boobs. I think we care too much about what others think of us and don’t spend enough time understanding ourself.
I did that when I had an infection on my breast and was judged for it
If she's dressed that way out in public, it is because she wants the attention, sometimes to attract guys, sometimes just to piss other women off. Sometimes to be shocking, like dressing that way to go to a church service, knowing full well you will be stirring things up.
Sometimes it would be like looking into a mirror! I don't wear bra's, mainly tee shirts and halter tops and my nipples are showing much of the time. It doesn't bother me that some bug eyes and stare while many others just ignore it.
I find it very sexy..
I like guys noticing me, especially when I had small boobs...
You like when men starring at your nipples😶😂😂
You are an attractive woman that men will notice. With visible nipples you would look even better.
Well first off... they're like a feast for mens' eyes. Perky nipples are so gonna attract attention from all men... even if they don't wanna look, they'll look at it at least twice or more
When i see such a girl, first of, my sex drive would go VROOM VROOM. It's biology mostly. Men's body gets ready for sexual engagement. My member gets harder at the sight of those perky nipples. I'd wanna literally bite and play with those nipples.
Usually... i do think that they're not seeking attention. But is just confident to walk outside without bra, as they care bout their own comfortability and such rather than other people's shitty comments. I admire that. She's gonna also unknowingly send a message to guys like, she's a naughty girl and wanna have fun.
It's such a sexually exciting moment seeing a woman standing there with perky nipples. Oof... I don't know how to explain that. It's like vampire having tendency to bite and drink blood.(i know it's dark... lol... but that's kinda how it feels)
So in short, most guys gets pumps with their cocks hard and ready to fuck that woman's brains out.
I feel a little embaressed for her because people might look, but other than that I just assume she wants to feel more comfortable by not wearing a bra.
I think that she is confident. I like seeing that, it is natural. And sometimes there is sexual excitement.
Nothing really, I hate wearing a bra and I think a lot of girls can agree on that, I do that sometimes and I don’t care if other girls do it
Girl i get it, it's hot out here.
I think it's hot AF IMHO. There seem to be a lot of celebs that 'don't mind the cold', so pretty sure a lot do it for attention, but it works.
What goes though my mind? Well I'm just being honest - you did ask... but looking at those photos "Nice tits" is the first thing that crossed my mind. It would make me stare (though I'd try and be surreptitious - we're hardwired - we can't help it!)
On a scale of 'Flacid' (1) to 'Cock you could hang a wet duffle coat on" (10) I'd say it's a 2.5 on the 'arousal' scale. DEFFO makes me think about fucking them, and that they are being a bit of a tease.
I assume she's comfortable. That's just what nipples do 🤷🏼♀️
And I think she probably doesn't give sh*t what anyone thinks about it
Why we should think any thing its her choice. who are we to judge her what to wear and what not. She has the rights to wear whatever she wants. i personally want do or say any thing to her.
I'd like to say it's natural and no problem but for a girl nipples are the no no area. In fact, clothes dance around the center nipple to get as sexy as they can without incident exposure. It stinks... But a possible solution is just to get nipple pads and have them for the summer so you can go braless without attacting attention
We've all shown a little nip-nip, but if it isn't an interview or wedding, who cares.
First I've ever heard 'nip-nip' used by a woman. 😂😂😂 Love it.
I guess I’d just think she’s really confident. Might be seen as a little inappropriate depending on the situation tho
I wouldn't think anything of it because I do it myself. I have small breast (34B) and have both nipples pierced so a bra is uncomfortable and unnecessary 🤷♂️😁
I'd think she doesn't like wearing a bra.
It depends on where she was. If she was church (wedding, etc) I would stare. If she was at a nice restaurant or bar I would think she's very cool. I don't have any problem at all with girls not wearing bras as I probably only wear one 50% of them (I have small boobs). I also don't have any problem with their nipples showing. They are just boobs and it shouldn't be a big deal.
To a female , but it is nitro for men.
I've seen it often enough, bra or no bra. It doesn't make me think anything in particular.
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