Which of the following increases a mans sex appeal most?

[Tonytoutouni123]

If you don’t want to order the points, just mention the most important ones.

Please only answer, if you are 100% honest.

Imagine Santa claus wants to give you as a present a man who has the most sex appeal for you. Not necessarily someone you fall in love with. He asks you to make a wish list of what this man should be like so that he can find you such a man. But unfortunately he probably can’t give you everything you want. He tries to fulfill as many wishes on your list as possible and starts with the wishes that are most important to you. As for the wishes that are not fulfilled, your man will be as described after the word "otherwise".

Order the numbers of the following points according to the importance they have for you.
If I have forgotten any important points feel free to add them.

1. very rich ($100 million - $1 billion. Otherwise: middle class)
2. very famous (the whole world knows him. Otherwise: not famous)
3. well known and popular with many women in your area. (Otherwise: medium known and medium popular)
4. big dick (you can choose the ideal size, otherwise: his dick will be 5.6 inches (14,2cm) (while erected)
5. very attractive face (otherwise: his face is a 7 out of 10)
6. confident (otherwise: mostly confident, but sometimes a little nervous, for example when he has to give a presentation)
7. outgoing (otherwise: a bit introverted)
8. dominant (otherwise: not dominant, but also not submissive)
9. a little bit arrogant/narcissistic (otherwise: humble)
10. muscular body (otherwise average, meaning not well trained, but also not fat or skinny)
11. tall (you are free to choose his height, otherwise: he is 6‘2“ (189cm))
12. a good martial arts fighter who could easily defend you from 98% of men if required (otherwise: someone who could protect you from 70%)
13. very brave like for example Dan Bilzerian (he was almost bitten by an alligator when he tried to lift him up 😬). Otherwise: not a wimp, but also not brave enough to lift an alligator 😅

[LittleTurtleDuck]

For me sexapeal comes mostly fom behaviour. I like loyal "outcasts" the most; add a dash of humor, some kindess and intelligence and that is a good man-cake ;)


I like the quote: a man that makes me laugh has every chance to seduce me. Can't remember who said it but I feel the same


But to rank your points:


1. very rich ($100 million - $1 billion. Otherwise: middle class)
Money does not mater, what he gonna buy me that will make me happy? There is nothing i like more than time spend together, you can't buy that


2. very famous (the whole world knows him. Otherwise: not famous)
I want him for myself, and I don't want to get in a spotlight unless it's ny own fame

3. well known and popular with many women in your area. (Otherwise: medium known and medium popular)
No, again he is mine. Friends that are girls is fine, but I don't want them drooling on my man or hanging out near our house all the time

4. big dick (you can choose the ideal size, otherwise: his dick will be 5.6 inches (14,2cm) (while erected)
The otherwise size seems fine by me; use of the tool is more important

5. very attractive face (otherwise: his face is a 7 out of 10)
Attraction stems from the connection so idgaf if he is "only" a 7

6. confident (otherwise: mostly confident, but sometimes a little nervous, for example when he has to give a presentation)
Confident is good, but not cocky. I hate cocky men that think they can do everything. You are a human being, they are flawed by default.

7. outgoing (otherwise: a bit introverted)
Social with friends, but not leaving me alone at a party.

8. dominant (otherwise: not dominant, but also not submissive)
I don't mind it eiter way

9. a little bit arrogant/narcissistic (otherwise: humble)
Give me the humble guy: narcissistic pricks have ruined my life enough, they suck.

10. muscular body (otherwise average, meaning not well trained, but also not fat or skinny)
As long as he doesn't take up the whole bed or crushes me when he rolls over, I'm good


11. tall (you are free to choose his height, otherwise: he is 6‘2“ (189cm))
That hight is fine for me, I'm 5'6, he be tall for me xD

12. a good martial arts fighter who could easily defend you from 98% of men if required (otherwise: someone who could protect you from 70%)
I can defend myself so I don't care

13. very brave like for example Dan Bilzerian (he was almost bitten by an alligator when he tried to lift him up 😬). Otherwise: not a wimp, but also not brave enough to lift an alligator 😅
Just give me a simple man, not a hero/god-complex idiot

[Tonytoutouni123]

@littleturtleduck Thanks a lot for your opinion. „I like the quote: a man that makes me laugh has every chance to seduce me. Can't remember who said it but I feel the same“ I like what you say, but I read in study’s, that humor does not increases a mans sex appeal. It makes the guy to be more wanted for a long term relationship because it suggests that he is a positiv thinking person. But it normally does not increase the pure sex appeal.

[LittleTurtleDuck]

Sex appeal Noun 1: the ability to excite people sexually. 2: immediate appeal or obvious potential to interest or excite others, as by appearance, style, or charm Some one for long or short term has to have this, this is attraction. But it can be more than just looks, it is also charm. And someone who has humor is a form of charm. Therefore it increases their sex appeal.

[Tonytoutouni123]

@littleturtleduck Does that mean, if someone has a good sense of humor, it arouses you sexually?

[LittleTurtleDuck]

Not directly, but good humor increases the so called "sexapeal" It makes me at least consider to be with the person.

[Tonytoutouni123]

@littleturtleduck Okay. I didn't actually mean the sex appeal, but the thing that makes a woman want to have sex with a man. Like, what turns her on in a man.

[LittleTurtleDuck]

The incresed sexapeal is eventually the thing that turns the woman on. But what increases the sexapeal is different for every woman and her situation. Attraction, arousal and sexuality are difficult topics where you can't have an generalised answer on. In my example I really like it when my partner does things for me without me having to ask, when I get massages and feel validated. This increases their apeal to me and therefore my willingness to have sex with them. But the thing is, it has to be my partner already; if a random stranger starts to massage me I'd be running or punching them in the face. You should try to read into the 5 love languages, it explains how there are many different forms of it and how some combine.

[xANGEx]

the ones that are absolutely necessary :
6 confidence (the most important. even if the guy was perfect if he didn't have that, big turn off. wouldn't fuck him)
10 muscular body (honestly I don't care if he's a 5 -6 or some shit, the body is the most important part. big arms esp. )
8 dominant (absolutely necessary
11 tall (6ft+ I'm 5ft8 so...)
5 attractive face (would prefer the 7/10 tbh. my "kinks" don't allign with having a god in bed. but I'd ask santa to give him a very square jaw & hunter eyes ^^)
9 a bit arrogant
important but not essential :

4 big dick 13 brave (esp for some kinks I want to make real lmaoo. but just in gen I don't want to fuck a p*ssy) the rest i really don't give a fuck about. like really.

[Tonytoutouni123]

@xangex Thanks for your opinion 🙂 Did I get you right, that it is important to you, that your boyfriend is arrogant? Nothing wrong with personal preferences! I am just curious! Is it because it makes him appear superior? That actually makes totally sense to me, and I am wondering why so many women claim, that it is unattractive. Which height would be to much for you? Last but not least: the dick questions 😅 1. what do you think would be the perfect size? 2. what would be the minimum for you? 3. what is more important to you: length or girth?

[xANGEx]

ohh wait I thought you ment just for sex. my type for a boyfriend is a bit different anyways a bit of arrogance yea, it's sexy and makes him seem more "dominant" and is a sign of confidence and status maybe. but not too much arrogance or he'd be a douche for the dick questions: 1- above average and thick (not too long though) 2- slightly below average 3- girth

[Tonytoutouni123]

@xangex “ohh wait I thought you ment just for sex. my type for a boyfriend is a bit different anyways“ Do I understand correctly that your boyfriend is not the type of man you find sexually most attractive? Do you know, why only a bit of arrogance is often considered to be attractive in a man? I mean, more arrogance would make him seem even more dominant and high of status, right?

[Tonytoutouni123]

@xangex truth be told: a man can be desired by the woman as a boyfriend or she can find him sexually very attractive. But never both. Right?

[Aquiline_feast]

14. Good looking, 15. handsome, 16. head full of infallible hairs, 17. Unbreakable teeth, 18. Nice smile, 19. Good temper, 20. Socially acceptable behaviour, 21. Well dressed, 22. Well mannered, 23. Well groomed, 24. Always have a job with business, 25. Never forget his lover, 26. never forget his lovers need, 27. Always put his liver before him about financial aid, 28. Good bladder, can digest any bullshit he ever crossed with, 29. Always keep his lover smile even not he is smiling, 30. All the above with a mansion, house, flats. ❤ Life is too easy. ❤

[Anonymous]

Strength. It's been proven that strength is 70% of your physical attractiveness to females, even among those who claim they don't like strong men. And they can tell by facial features alone.

[McMillanD]

Based on sex appeal alone...

7
6
13
12
5
10
4
(11 doesn't matter)

1
2
3
8
9
Are more of a turn off than anything.

[Tonytoutouni123]

@mcmilland So a man who was very successful in his job and therefore got rich would be a turn off for you?

[McMillanD]

It has been my experience that with extream wealth comes extream attitude and mental problems. I have never met a rich person who didn't turn down their nose at other "lesser" people. In their eyes EVERYTHING has a price... that includes the people they are with. I am sorry but I am not an item. So yeah it is a major turn off.

[Tonytoutouni123]

@mcmilland I think you are full of prejudices and personally know hardly any rich people. There are also rich people who live very humble lives. One does not even notice that they are rich.

[McMillanD]

Actually I have. Half of my family is very wealthy and they have absolutely no problem rubbing it in the other half's face at every family function. My cousins were abused by said "humble" people and no one could do anything about it because authorities didn't believed it was happening in such a "good family". Wealth changes people. If you don't believe than than YOU don't know many wealthy people.

[Majesty101]

With 1000% honesty with the characteristics given I would say...
4. 7+😊
8. Dominant
11. I'm 5'1" So really any height over 5'4" Is okay lol
12. Good Martial Art fighter
6. Confidence and then...
5. The look
3. Well-known
7. Outgoing
13. Very Brave
10. muscular
9. A little bit arrogant/narcissistic
2. Very Famous
1. Very Rich

[Tonytoutouni123]

@majesty101 Thanks for your opinion 🙂 1. what do you think would be the perfect size? 2. what would be the minimum for you? 3. what is more important to you: length or girth? 4. what would be the perfect height for you?

[Majesty101]

@tonytoutouni123 You're welcome 😊 For me...8 would be the perfect size... I would say my minimum would be like 6 or 6.5 Girth is a little more important to me And... I'm 5'1" so I would say the perfect height would be 5'8"

[Tonytoutouni123]

@majesty101 Ok thanks for your opinion. But what do you do, if you want to have sex with a guy and he pull down his pants and only had 5 or 5.5 inches?

[Tonytoutouni123]

@majesty101 or how do you ensure that the guy is bigger than 6 inches? You ask him before?

[Majesty101]

@tonytoutouni123 If it got to the point of sex I wouldn't stop him or kill the mood with disappointment. Trust me, if it gets to that point, the guy I'm with is most likely worth it. But, I would likely know already beforehand, the subject would likely come up or eventually I would want to know. Depends on the person whether i ask or not, as most guys like to share that with me on their own without me asking them.

[Tonytoutouni123]

@majesty101 Haha ok 😄

[jennifer_bloom]

1. Rich 2. Famous 3. Attractive Face 4. Tall

[Tonytoutouni123]

@jennifer_bloom I think there's nothing wrong with a woman going for rich men! But I am dying to know the following: Do you get turned on sexually by the thought of a man being very rich? Does it arouse you sexually? Or do you choose a man like that for logical reasons (because then you will have a luxury and good life) and not because of your sex drive?

[jennifer_bloom]

Rich guys aren’t sexy but a guy with style who has money for gym memberships and healthy food and hobbies like hiking or camping is attractive - also if he has money for advanced degrees and exposure to culture and high - and most of all a brain and work ethic smart enough and pure enough to earn lots of money is very sexy

[Tonytoutouni123]

@jennifer_bloom Ok thanks a lot for your opinion I like your answer, cause I am definitely going to be very rich in my life 🙂

[CrazyGirl2]

You left off most girls number 1… sense of humor!

[Porcelaine]

6, 7, 8, 10.

[Tonytoutouni123]

Thanks for your opinion

[DizzyDesii]

THESE ARE THE MAIN IMPORTANCE—
5 attractive face (super important)
8 dominant (but mainly just in the bed)
10 muscular body (i like skinny muscular)
4 big dick (5+ please)
11 tall (5’7-6’3)
13 brave
12 martial arts (protection is hot)
6 confident
7 outgoing (i like shy but not too shy)
THESE 4 are last and not really preferred—
1 rich (not necessary but its a bonus)
2 famous (i prefer he be more so successful but not famous like a celeb)
3 popular with women (i prefer he not be)
9 arrogant/narcissist (please no)

[Tonytoutouni123]

@dizzydesii Thanks for your opinion 🙂

[Miredda]

To be completely honest, the otherwise options don't seem bad at all, rather above average but I'll answer either way
7
6
13
10
12
4
11
5
3
2
1
8
9

[Tonytoutouni123]

@miredda Thanks for your opinion What height would be ideal for you? and what penis size?

[Miredda]

I am a pretty short person, so anything above 5'6 maybe? As for penis size, above average? I'm not very sure on that too

[Tonytoutouni123]

@miredda Thanks for your opinion!

[menina]

From the most important to the least important

5
11
13
12
6
7
10
4
1

#2, #3, #8 and #9 I prefer the otherwise part.

[Tonytoutouni123]

@menina Thanks for your opinion 🙂 What height would be ideal for you? and what penis size?

[menina]

You're welcome :) It would be 188 cm (6'2"). And I can't answer the question about penis size 😂

[Tonytoutouni123]

@menina „And I can't answer the question about penis size 😂“ Haha why is that? You can be 100% honest 😅🙈

[menina]

Hummm let's just say that it's a complicated question for me... 😅

[Tonytoutouni123]

@menina Ah ok I see. 🙂

[FocusOfSuspicion]

Numbers 12,8, and 6 are a big deal. Compatible values, a sense of humor, and liking children are also big for me.

[Tonytoutouni123]

@focusofsuspicion Ok thanks for your opinion

[Fairyluna]

Important by order: 7, 8, 13, 6, 11
So-so important by order: 5, 4, 10, 12
Not important at all (no order): 1, 2, 3, 9

[Fairyluna]

Disclaimer: My personal opinion lol

[Tonytoutouni123]

@fairyluna So what height and what penis size would be perfect to you? And what would be minimum?

[Fairyluna]

Can't say what exatcly would be 'perfect' as I only have had experience with one person. But as long as the dude is still able to provide pleasure to their partner it doesn't really matter. I put 10 in that order because there certain men who simply cannot be erect at all due to diseases or difficulties along those lines

[uniquelyshy]

I never really thought about it till now but this would be it for me,

7-outgoing, social with his friend but but doesn't leave me hanging and loves to cuddle.
6-confident but not cocky cuz I hate a guy whos cocky.
8-Dominante, I like dominate cause im a submissive and i love it when a mans daminante with me.
11-tall at least 6'0 or 6'1
10-muscular body, but still somewhat average.
5-attractive, I honestly dont care how he looks though I mean if I like him or love him then it doesn't matter.
4-big dick, though 5.6 is good enough for me.
14-good personality, has good humor, loves an adventure, likes to try new things, likes dogs, doesn't mind a bit of sarcasm or sassiness, and loves to make me laugh, supports my opinion and listens to what I have to say.

[KeziL]

Is it bad that I'd prefer the otherwise for almost every single one of these? I really just want an average man, I don't want rich or famous or whatever.
My top choices would be outgoing, confident, very attractive face, and maybe tall although at 6'2 he'd be about a foot taller than me which is a lot so that's whatever.

I would vastly prefer a non-famous, middle class, moderately popular, mostly confident mostly attractive average man to your "ideal qualities" (which all seem to be modeled after Dan Bilzerian anyways and I have no desire to be with anyone like him).

[Plumrose18]

I wish for the same

[Tonytoutouni123]

@kezil I swear, the only time I modeled after Dan Bilzerian was at „brave“ 😂 But what do you have against him? He is kind of a role model for a whole generation of young men 😎 and so for me 😅

[mélancolie]

1- confidence
2- cute face (don't care if he's really really cute or 7/10, like a 7 is pretty good lmao)
3- tall (and uh 6ft2 is really tall lol, don't really want him taller than that honestly)
4- fit
5- big dick
6- him having balls
7- dominant
8- outgoing
9- a little arrogant
10- good fighter (wouldn't say martial arts is hot, but krav maga & like that type of fighting is super hot. would put it higher if it was that)
11- famous (that's not really important lol but on a side note if a guy is known, even if he's ugly he becomes hot)
12- money (don't care about money but it does make a guy hotter, and adds to the power dynamic a little)
13- being a fuckboy (can be hot or a turn off depending, don't care that much)

[Tonytoutouni123]

@melancolie Thanks for your opinion.

[Kimdracula9]

Honestly, there are hardly any good traits on this list.
Funny, smart, humble, kind all come before any of these. Then would come basic human instinct which is can this man provide for a family? So then would be is he good with his hands in some way. Maybe he is good at wood working, maybe he knows how to fix cars, maybe he can handle livestock/grow his own crops...and then family orientated.


From there the order for most attractive traits (just because I ranked the item doesn't mean I need it):
6.
7.
8.
13.
12.
4. (Girth > length)
5.


Things im neutral on:
11. (Doesn't have to be taller than me can be same height)
10.
1.
2.
3.


Things that would make me dislike him and would throw all other good traits out the window:
9. (I dont think a little bit narcissistic is the same as humble.)

[Tonytoutouni123]

@kimdracula9 Thanks for your opinion 🙂

[valentina4eva]

this is the list i would ask santa for Christmas!! 🎄🎅🎁

5 very attractive face
6 confident
8 dominant
9 a little bit arrogant
10 muscular

everything else i would be happy with the otherwise category.. don't really care about rich/famous etc
and 5.6 inch penis is def big enough and 6'2 is def tall enough lol
this list would make me happy 😛😛😊

[Tonytoutouni123]

@valentina4eva Thanks for your opinion 🙂

[nice-girl]

1. very rich ($100 million - $1 billion. Otherwise: middle class)
2. dominant (otherwise: not dominant, but also not submissive)
3. tall (you are free to choose his height, otherwise: he is 6‘2“ (189cm))
4. a little bit arrogant/narcissistic (otherwise: humble)
5. confident (otherwise: mostly confident, but sometimes a little nervous, for example when he has to give a presentation)
6. very brave like for example Dan Bilzerian (he was almost bitten by an alligator when he tried to lift him up ). Otherwise: not a wimp, but also not brave enough to lift an alligator
7. very attractive face (otherwise: his face is a 7 out of 10)
8. big dick (you can choose the ideal size, otherwise: his dick will be 5.6 inches (14,2cm) (while erected)
9. muscular body (otherwise average, meaning not well trained, but also not fat or skinny)
10. a good martial arts fighter who could easily defend you from 98% of men if required (otherwise: someone who could protect you from 70%)
11. very famous (the whole world knows him. Otherwise: not famous)
12. well known and popular with many women in your area. (Otherwise: medium known and medium popular)
13. outgoing (otherwise: a bit introverted)

The three last ones are not desiderable at all for me, especially the last one, which I prefer introverted

[Tonytoutouni123]

@nice-girl I think there's nothing wrong with a woman going for rich men! But I am dying to know the following: Do you get turned on sexually by the thought of a man being very rich? Does it arouse you sexually? Or do you choose a man like that for logical reasons (because then you will have a luxury and good life) and not because of your sex drive? Do I get you right that you want a dominant, arrogant man, but who is introverted?

[nice-girl]

A rich man doesn't arouse me, but an ambitious and successful one yes. Yes, dominant arrogant and introverted are the characteristics that I like.

[Tonytoutouni123]

Thanks for your opinion!

[BlueScorpio]

12, 13, 6, 5,

[Tonytoutouni123]

Thanks for your opinion

[ChelsiChu]

8
1
5
6
7
The others dont matter to me

[Tonytoutouni123]

Thanks for your opinion

[MrsJaximus-Lion]

13. very brave (he have survived wars and bombs and can never scare him with a BUH)
6. confident (my man is like a bear and a lion alike in confidence)
7. outgoing (he is very adventures and i love it) 4. big dick (that was a bonus for me and he is about 19 or 20 cm) 5. very attractive face (for me he is very very handsome and i never look at other guys) 12. a good martial arts fighter (lets say i have seen him action and 3 guys against him is not a problem)
11. tall (he is 188 cm and am 180 and it's perfect)
i dont care about the rest

[Tonytoutouni123]

Nice 👌 Thanks for your opinion

[Cherokeehp]

5, 10, 6, 1, 7, 4, 11, 2, 3, 8, 13, 12, 9

[Tonytoutouni123]

@cherokeehp So what height and what penis size would be perfect to you? And what would be minimum/maximum?

[Cherokeehp]

Perfect Height: 5’10 but I’d accept anything over 5’5 Perfect dick size: 6 in. The min is whatever is considered average