Is sexting cringe worthy, should I feel ashamed to be turned on by my boyfriends embarrassing texts?

[Anonymous]

[Shamalien]

Hey you know what's super fucked up?

Sharing private, sexual conversations you had with your boyfriend to everyone on the internet. I wonder if he'd be comfortable saying these things to you if he knew you got off on sharing it with others?

Wouldn't really matter what he thinks though, it's just wrong, period.

Delet this

[Asker]

waittt firstly can I say, I don’t “get off” on sharing it with others that’s quite bizarre and a strange assumption to make. You aren’t him so why are you so concerned that I posted? Just curious

[Shamalien]

It's not at all a strange assumption to make if you've been on this site for any amount of time XD I just hate to see women doing things that make me further distrust women. There's so much demoralizing shit on this site, and girls sharing intimate details of them and their partner is just way over the top. Like holy hell, who raised you? Sext if you are going to sext but have some decency and keep it between you and him. It's just not right to share these things in such a way. I just hope the girl I end up with isn't like you, or I'll have to keep the real good material to myself :P

[BeachLuvR97]

As long as you enjoy it, that's all that matters. Girls worry too much whether something is creepy or cringey. With guys, don't think into things. Men are a yes or no--nothing in between.

If you don't enjoy it, you owe him a kind, respectful response. He's clearly writing these things not just for him, but you, too, so he is being quite selfless.

[AustinMan]

Not one bit. He sexts pretty well!!

[slatyb]

No, people have been sexting since the invention of writing.

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

Sexting should be like a steady drip-drip-drip. Reading this is like he just opened up the faucet at max power 🤣

[Pulse75]

Yeah this guy went BANANAS!

[SomeGuyCalledTom]

@Pulse75 yup no foreplay, he just rammed all those bananas up there all in one go 🤣

[oncpl]

If you are turned on, it is healthy sign. You should not be ashamed. Reciprocate him with even more open language.

[Wise4myage]

No, its all good in my opinion and you should never feel guilty about whatever turns you on. Well, within reason anyway.

[crmoore]

No and no

[coffeewithcream]

He's pretty lousy at it, but if it turns you on, then go with it. :)

[jasco]

personally sexting is fun when its with the right person

[Pulse75]

It’s not cringe worthy. It’s your relationship you two can do almost whatever you want.

[Anonymous]

If you're dating and don't sext, I find that more cringe worthy.

[Asker]

Really :/ I shown my friend because she wanted to see and she said it’s creepy and strange but we’ve been dating 6 months and can’t see each other for a few weeks soooo it’s the only way rn

[Opinion Owner]

I wouldn't share your private sexting with other people. But I also think it's … really normal as a couple, especially when you can't see each other.

[Asker]

Is it bad to do that? Like she shows me sexual messages she receives etc we don’t share them in a malicious or weird way just in a curious way