Girlfriend plays strip poker with other guys?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend is currently on a trip visiting one of her friends who from what I've been able to pick up on is very "wild". I should add on that I trust my girlfriend a lot and know that she would never cheat.

Tonight, after drinking a bit she texted me that she was going to play strip poker. Followed up by "i promise not to take my bra off". I followed up with a "but you're playing?" to that she replied with a "hehehe".

So basically from my view she is going to strip with a bunch of guys, who most all of (except for her) are going to be completely naked and all of whom had been drinking. I have never played a game of strip poker where, a, picks weren't taken, b, people weren't checked out, c, there wasn't sexual tension all around, and d, no one ended up hooking up. Knowing my girlfriend, she was definitely pressured into this, but I feel like as nothing like this has ever come up before, at the very least, she should ask if it was okay with me (which she didn't do even when I gave her the chance to)

I've responded at this point by just ignoring her. She snapped me later to say that the poker was no longer gonna be happening, but that's not really the thing I'm mad about, it's just that it was brought up in this way in the first place.

Do I have a right to be mad here? I don't want to be overprotective, but from my opinion, playing a strip drinking game with other guys without even asking if it's okay crosses a line.

[ShadezMcgee]

You don't need to feel bad and have every right to be upset. She is with a bunch of "GUY FRIENDS" on a camping trip and she tells you just straight up she is playing strip poker. She shouldn't have even entertained the idea of that game or even be on that trip in the first place, much less without you. Would she have made that statement if you were there with her?

She is your girlfriend and should not even be entertaining the idea of spending a camping trip with all guys friends much less playing "STRIP POKER" with them. Hell no, dude. Your boundaries weren't just violated, she shattered them. You have every right to be mad about this, but before you fly off the handle, regain your cool and talk to her about it. Be calm, but firm and in control. Find out if she lied or if anything really happened. You even mentioned you picked up on her being "wild" and that stands as a red flag. Wild in what way? Sexually? Just with everything in life in general?

At this point she would be on thin ice with this incident if she were with me.

[ShadezMcgee]

Misread the "wild" bit. Thought you were referring to her, ot her friend. Doesn't change the situation though. Friends like that can influence her behavior. She even said she would not take off her bra when playing. She still planned. to. get close to naked in front of those guys if she carried it out. She should not be doing that. If she is in a relationship with you, you should be the only one seeing her naked.

[Oric5]

Or maybe the game did happen. She is using being buzzed to step past your boundaries she's testing how you react. Not responding is your best play give her no info. Id play back to her that what she selfishly did is a deal breaker and you dont know how she even fits with you anymore. Its your world she has to fit into it or dont. Can you land other girls? I think you can so she can always be nexted or she gets in line.

[yucychan]

It sounds like she was just pretending to want to play strip poker to see what your reactions are. And when you didn't react the way she wanted, she snapped.

[VanityFair748]

I don't think you're overreacting. That really crosses a line. I'd be mad, too, tbh.

[sarahsmile8839]

Find some girls to play with and tell her about it.

[Am_and_Pm]

Yeah, it feels like she's either real comfortable with herself. I mean, it's just a f**king body, or she likes cheating on different d!<K$ cz no one man can have as many orgasms as a women can. Will maybe, I feel like that would take time to master?

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[Red_Arrow]

She should not do something like that if you are not 100% okay with it. She may have intended to do it or may have just been psyching you out. Either would be wrong.

[magiusX26]

i find her stating it and not adking to be quite disrespectful. and its not really a good idea to be drinking and playing that without your partner there anyways unless it is an open relationship. no matter how much i trusted my SO, nude, drunk, and around horny guys is a fuck up (possibly rape) waiting to happen.

[hellacray]

No you're not over reacting.

I wouldn't trust a girlfriend doing this.

[fit_confident_blonde]

In college I had a boyfriend but did play strip poker

[fit_confident_blonde]

me and my boyfriend did break up

[Red_Arrow]

Did you break up because of you playing strip poker?

[fit_confident_blonde]

We broke up but not because of the strip poker

[Iron_Man]

That’s a bad deal

[Libarena]

One of my favorite games.

[Wise4myage]

Yes you do. I think she was just yanking your chain to see what kind of reaction she would get out of you, and she got pissed because it backfired on her.

[SuccessfulHornDog]

I wouldn't let this stand.

[asshole_]

And why you let her have guy "friends"

I do not know

[CharlieDMX]

No, you are overreacting. You say you trust her but your actions say otherwise

[Nachowedgie]

No, that's a reasonable reaction, I'd feel the same way

[Anonymous]

Ohh they played, anyway don't trust that Guy friend she has to visit alone