What did my hookup partner mean by this?

[Anonymous]

• This guy that I had been fucking was quite a few years older than me. I was over 18 when we hooked up and I definitely consented, so please don't comment about that. He told me that I was really good in bed and that i gave the best oral sex he's ever had. When he fucked me, he couldnt last very long at all. All 4 times we fucked, he came in less than 2 minutes. He was really attracted to me and wanted to date me, but i said no because I didn't feel like it would work. Recently he told me that he will miss my bjs and as he told me that my pussy was above average and he said that it was very tight. What did he mean by saying that my pussy was above average? Does it mean my pussy didn't impress him as much as my mouth did? Lol

[Jamie1865]

It's a compliment. You're trying to read too much into it. He wants to fuck you more, and wouldn't say something derogatory about your body that would harm his chances.
Keep up with the pelvic floor exercises - you obviously give really good head (that's rare - well done!) but to meet a chick who gives good head and has a really tight pussy is ball blowing. That's why he's blowing his load after a few mins. Sounds like he's a bit shit in bed? Unless you say otherwise? Did he give good head?

[Asker]

Does it sound like I have both good oral skills and good, tight pussy? He said my pussy was only "above average." So, it doesn't sound like he was too enthusiastic about my pussy. He said I gave the best head though..

[Jamie1865]

The only reason he'd say something like that is to try and play it cool. I think (IMHO) that porn and 'porn vaginas' have given women a complex about their own. The number of people getting labiaplasties etc has gone through the roof, as apparently women think that men think they have to have an 'innie' not an 'outie'. This is like the whole circumcised vs non circumcised thing. If you go onto Wikipedia and look up "Labiaplasty" (Warning ! 18+) it will show you before's and afters photos. IMHO, nothing wrong with either? Not every one looks exactly the same. I'd happily go down on, and fuck both of them (before and after) and wouldn't think 'this is gross, but I'm hear now...'.

[Jamie1865]

To me, the only thing that makes a difference is keeping it well groomed! I'm not saying it all has to come off, but some sort of gardening is needed. No one want to go down and find the top 1/5th of Bob Marley 'down there' - and that includes the 'bum beard' as well. Wax/shave or have it done by a pro. It's not because we're all peado's, it's because we get turned on by what we can see. Hair doesn't do anything for us, no hair lets us get to the goodies and not cough up furballs for the next week (I hold myself to the same standard, as should every guy!). Without question, based on what he said, you give AMAZING head. Award winning. And if he could only last 2 mins inside your 'above average' pussy, then he's trying to play it cool. Unless one of your labia is down by your ankle and the other is within the normal range, there is NOTHING wrong with you - and what's more, he goes on to say that! You're really tight, which is awesome. Some women aren't, and need to do pelvic floor exercises or Kegel's - whatever you want to call them Guys do the same thing when we're going for a pee, use the muscles to stop yourself 'mid flow' then start again, then stop again etc, this gives you more staying power so you can hold of blowing your load (a tip you might want to give your 'two minute wonder' of an ex!) If I were putting my knob in a stinking 'ugly' vagina that was really 'average' and could only last two minutes, it means one of three things, you have an awesome vagina, OR he's fucking terrible in bed OR both of the above. AND he's trying to get back to your 'above average' vag, so he can have more!!! He's just hit a self confidence nerve with you, that's all it is. Keep good VM ('Vaginal Maintenance' = lawn mowing!) ALWAYS and thank your lucky stars you're tight as a drum and can suck the chrome off a tow bar AND he said you're really good in bed, you're blessed, you're reading too much into it - I'm jealous that he got to have a go and I didn't!!!

[RemoErdosain]

It means out of all the women he fucked, your vagina was better than average. Yes, it appears like he was much more impressed by the blowjobs. If he couldn't last two minutes, then it must've been seriously good for him, though

[Asker]

So if he says that my vagina was better than average, does that mean that my vagina was better than most of the women's he's fucked?

[RemoErdosain]

Yes, it'd be ranked among the good ones

[Asker]

If he came in less than 2 minutes, it had to have been really good, right?

[RemoErdosain]

Yes, be proud of yourself

[Shani546]

Don't worry but next time he only want you to go down

[Asker]

Does this mean he didn't really enjoy my pussy?

[DavidHart]

He complimented u..
He adore u, i can think that much..
and i don't think he's lying..

[Abel9855]

Guys will say stupid things about pussy
There is actually no real difference from one to another, it's just something they say to get your interest

[Cellestial]

He felt insecure and tried to make you feel bad for it because he couldn't last long and you declined his offer to date so he thought your refusal was because of his inability to satisfy you.

[Asker]

How did he try to make me feel bad?

[Cellestial]

Saying you're just "above average" when he should have said like "great" since you made him cum under a couple minutes

[Asker]

I thought above average meant really good though?

[Cellestial]

Uhm maybe. However, I wouldn't say "above average" to my partner it felt really good, I'd literally say your pussy felt "great" or "really good".

[Asker]

If he came in less than 2minutes, it had to have been really good right?

[Cellestial]

Of course it is!

[asshole_]

People who "hookup"

ARE LOSERS

[wiredpantyboi]

Sounds like he is trying to compliment you so you will fuck him again. So girls give bomb head but just lay there when it's time to fuck. Some girls can't or won't suck dick but that pussy have you screaming and some girls are just blessed all the way around.

[Asker]

Well, he said that my mouth and my pussy were magic. I could make him cum in less than 5 minutes with a bj and when he fucked me, he came inside me in less than 2 minutes. He said that my pussy was above average. I don't know if that's a compliment or if it just means that my pussy isn't great or anything.

[Asker]

He said my pussy was above average and tight. And then he said that I gave the best head. So I don't know.

[Asker]

And he yelled loudly when he came in me. And he asked me how I kept my pussy so tight.

[wiredpantyboi]

If he is coming that quick there is something wrong and I feel sorry for you because the goal is orgasms for everybody. If I wanted to cum that quick I would just jerk off and not even bother another person.

[Asker]

Maybe he didn't like the pussy very much?

[Tstrbrainer]

He's complimenting you and is really attracted to you.
Lucky him

[Anonymous]

He doesn’t know what he’s talking about, he doesn’t know any of the biology or science of how that works clearly, sounds like he’s just down in the dumps and is trying to guilt you into dating him or something tbh