It's not at all a bad thing to want to please your partner, as long as it doesn't come at the cost of your own happiness. Assuming he was being truthful, it seems he's quite satisfied with you as his girlfriend. While being the best girlfriend he's had is a worthy goal which will keep you working hard to maintain and improve the relationship, you have to make sure you don't beat yourself up every time you feel like you're not living up to that standard. Constantly thinking you aren't good enough can become a self-fulfilling prophecy as your own insecurities wear away at the relationship, not to mention it'll make you unhappy in general. Just put in your best effort without concerning yourself too much about what other people have done in the past.
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Stop overthinking at the end of the day if he is still with you no matter how he words it it must be good otherwise he could have replaced you if he was not happy that in itself shows that he sees this relationship as good
1 1 0 0Appreciate your advice!
Also never judge yourself against his past as at the end of the day from the day you two get together you are already better then said past as you are here and now they are not they got there chance messed up simply dont do the same
Too true, this has been very helpful. Thank you!
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He's not wrong about it being unrealistic. Don't beat yourself up about it too much, honestly. Of course, it's great to always work on yourself! But do it for yourself; not for him. Trust me. It's much more rewarding to be the person you want to be, not who someone else wants you to be. As for the sex, maybe he's just vanilla and that's okay. Chances are of you could talk him into trying something new you could probably blow his mind but, it's not guaranteed he'll be down or even like it. It may even make things awkward. I hope some of that made sense.
1 1 0 0You made perfect sense. Thank you for your input. So far all are positive. Makes me happy 😊
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0 2NO, never stop wanting to be the best girlfriend
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