He (33M) kept glancing at the TV during sex. Was he not into having sex with me?

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My boyfriend and I were watching TV (Netflix) in bed and he initiated sex. We were having sex for quite a while, and he seemed into it most of the time. However, I glanced at him several times when he was behind me, etc. and noticed him watching TV. Was he not into having sex with me? Was he trying not to cum? Something else?

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shyguy070 Xper 3
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TBH I do that when I'm edging and I want to try and calm the pressure down so I don't cum. 🤷🏻‍♂️ It like not putting attention to what is happening cause if he do then maybe he would have cum fast.
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- Asker
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  Thanks! That's kind of what I thought he was doing lol. Just wanted to make sure it didn't mean he was into it.
RemoErdosain Yoda
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Probably using that not to come, yes. If he initiated it and all, I'm sure he likes it
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- Asker
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  @remoerdosain makes sense. I've noticed him trying not to come many times but never by watching TV.
- RemoErdosain
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  Yeah, whatever works. I'm sure that could be a way to delay coming

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AustinMan Influencer
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Since he initiated, I'm guessing he's trying ttyl slow his orgasm. Next time, take the remote and kill the TV
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Anonymous
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I doubt that was the issue, my guess is he had to hit you up first
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- Asker
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  Thanks. I had already cum, but I can cum multiple times so I think he tries to hold off as long as he can :-) It's okay. I take it as a challenge to get him to cum even when he's trying his hardest not to lol
- Opinion Owner
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  I don't waste semen like that, lol, I remember I heard that somewhere
- Opinion Owner
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  Why do you think the guy always has to be the initiator?
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- Asker
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  I don't think the guy always has to be the initiator, and he's not. I just specified in my question that he initiated as I felt that was relevant to understanding whether he was into the sex or not.
- Opinion Owner
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  Have you ever made the first move or asked a guy out before?
- Asker
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  I'm not sure where you're trying to go with this. This really has nothing to do with my question, but if you must know, yes I have.
- Opinion Owner
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  Just asking because me personally I've always hated it how it seems to be expected of the guy, it's like why can't women go after men too right?
- Asker
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  Yeah, I know what you mean. I initiate sex with my guy sometimes too :-)
- Opinion Owner
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  Yeah but I'm talking about in terms of starting the relationship, have you ever dated a guy in which you made the first move or asked him out first?
- Asker
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  Until my current boyfriend, I had actually been out of the game for quite a while lol. I was doing online dating and did suggest the first date on a few occasions. Does that count?
- Opinion Owner
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  So my guess is he had to ask you out first