If I may ask, is he circumcised?
He is not circumcised. Hmm, do you think that makes it easier or harder to cum from fellatio?
Well, there's your answer, I think. I am circumcised. Plus, normally having a larger penis makes guys less likely to be subject to performance anxiety, making it FAR easier to cum.
Yeah, maybe not being circumcised plays a role in this. My previous boyfriend was circumcised though and he could cum from fellatio. For me, I also enjoy receiving oral but I also have a hard time orgasming from it. It feels great, but I also don't like being the sole center of attention (during sex, but also life in general). I feel like the pressure is on me to cum while receiving oral, so it's all a mental thing and I get too in my head about it. During sex, I get off on his reactions and his pleasure, so I'm able to check out mentally and just enjoy the moment, making it much easier to cum.
He was circumcised, and able to cum? Did it take a lot longer?
No, it didn't really take longer with him being circumcised. I have read though that many guys can't cum from receiving oral, and from what I've read, many guys say they've never been with a woman who gave a great blow job. Do you think that might be the case? I can really read my guy's reactions and I know what he likes. I know when he's getting close so I will keep doing what I'm doing. I know that for me, when I'm about to cum, I want the same thing to keep happening. Changing things up at the last second is an orgasm-killer lol. Have you been close to finishing from oral before? Maybe just more consistency at the end is key.
Well, the woman I with now, was only with one person, and apparently was quite well-endowed (Although I am apparently not lacking either, but he was bigger), and he apparently did not have any trouble climaxing from her skills... I think consistency is what makes it hard for me to get there. I know that I have had moments where I could feel it building up, but then I would lose concentration, and it would go away.
Yeah, for me, there is a major mental component to being able to orgasm as well. I am an analytical person by nature, and it's hard for me to check out sometimes. It doesn't mean I'm not enjoying it. To not lose focus, maybe try keeping your eyes on her while she is going down on you. I have noticed that my guy likes watching me go down on him. Anytime I glance up at him, he's always looking right at me.
He is uncircumcised though... I am not sure if that would work. I have spoken to my doctor about it, and she requested some testing (Of which I have done already), I even have trouble climaxing from actual intercourse, if you believe it... I could easily go for an hour, and that is when I bring a 'loaded gun' into the equation. Wearing condoms are a terrible option for me, because it would make it theoretically impossible for me to finish.
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